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best location for 3 sum nsa first meet

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Where is the most suitable location for a first 'act'? We are new to sharing and on the two occassions that we have had someone join us at home. However we would prefer a neutral location.
Do most of you use a hotel? (or some other venue). If you use a hotel how do you explain 3 persons using the room?. Isn't that pretty obvious?
Forgive me for my nievity but you have a single girls profile which says that you are looking for single guys. In that case wouldn't there just be 2 people to use the room?
I always meet in public first. You never know who is going to turn up.
As fot 2 in a room, the hotel don't care. As long as they get there money and no damage is done. Even when the maid opens the door, she just left quick.
Just have fun,
Travis
Quote by Funlovers2009
Forgive me for my nievity but you have a single girls profile which says that you are looking for single guys. In that case wouldn't there just be 2 people to use the room?

If you read our ad you will see we are a couple. We just din't bother to join as a cple b'cos most of the attention will be on me
Quote by Fleur_Delys
Forgive me for my nievity but you have a single girls profile which says that you are looking for single guys. In that case wouldn't there just be 2 people to use the room?

If you read our ad you will see we are a couple. We just din't bother to join as a cple b'cos most of the attention will be on me
I did read your profile, and I did read your initial post where it repeatedly said 'we'. I could understand you having a single profile if you intend to meet as a single but surely if you are a couple and intend to meet and/or play as a couple whether the attention is on you/him/both of you, you should have a couple's profile??
Quote by Funlovers2009
Forgive me for my nievity but you have a single girls profile which says that you are looking for single guys. In that case wouldn't there just be 2 people to use the room?

If you read our ad you will see we are a couple. We just din't bother to join as a cple b'cos most of the attention will be on me
I did read your profile, and I did read your initial post where it repeatedly said 'we'. I could understand you having a single profile if you intend to meet as a single but surely if you are a couple and intend to meet and/or play as a couple whether the attention is on you/him/both of you, you should have a couple's profile??
This one I put down to personal choice in how people complete thier profile and as personal choice should be the guiding rule those who view it have personal choice too, for example even though I play alone (and would probably not be wanted by this person) I would pass on by anyway, it is a couples profile with no information about the male half, now regardless of his role in any play I expect his details to be on the profile and think this should be a site rule for a couples profile.
There is then the profile information box, in there it is simple to but the details ie "hubby will be with me but take no part" "for car meets my hubby will drive but take no part", it's simple honesty.
When a profile has contradicting information or not enough information or information that is clearly incorrect I simply pass them by but that is my personal choice. The same applies to the advert, it contradicts the profile so I pass on by, no doubt to the relief of those who have such profiles lol
As for safe, discreet venues to meet anyone be it couples or singles, clubs are very good for this and some are open 7 days a week as well as evenings and/or weekends.
Quote by Funlovers2009
Forgive me for my nievity but you have a single girls profile which says that you are looking for single guys. In that case wouldn't there just be 2 people to use the room?

If you read our ad you will see we are a couple. We just din't bother to join as a cple b'cos most of the attention will be on me
I did read your profile, and I did read your initial post where it repeatedly said 'we'. I could understand you having a single profile if you intend to meet as a single but surely if you are a couple and intend to meet and/or play as a couple whether the attention is on you/him/both of you, you should have a couple's profile??
I agree, it's misleading otherwise. How many complaints do we hear about single men having a couple profile?
Quote by Freckledbird
Forgive me for my nievity but you have a single girls profile which says that you are looking for single guys. In that case wouldn't there just be 2 people to use the room?

If you read our ad you will see we are a couple. We just din't bother to join as a cple b'cos most of the attention will be on me
I did read your profile, and I did read your initial post where it repeatedly said 'we'. I could understand you having a single profile if you intend to meet as a single but surely if you are a couple and intend to meet and/or play as a couple whether the attention is on you/him/both of you, you should have a couple's profile??
I agree, it's misleading otherwise. How many complaints do we hear about single men having a couple profile?
we was in this position where Liza was playing on her own (her own profile)
things changed!!! and after we was sure we opened a couples profile so i don't really See the big deal dunno
for the op just book a room in a hotel for the night meet in a pub near and then all go back to the hotel, most of the time you don't even need to go past reception or anywhere busy
good luck and do have fun wink
1st time meet should b down a pub ... so u can run away...
there`s a thread somewhere with polite ways 2 escape....