Best London Swinging club for single male new to the scene??

28 Dec 2005

Hi there i am new to the swinging scene and although i play a lot with cpls on line over cam i would like to start going to a few clubs in london to get a better idea of the actual scene and also to meet people rather than sit at my pc.
I am 27 single male, educated , considerate and all round pretty average nice guy smile

I have read the clubs page on this forum and have afew in mind but i would like ubiased opinion from some of you guys as to which club i should attend first, i am aware that i will have to pay a membership and entrance fee and so dont wish to just throw my money away.
I live in west london but can travel
Any advice would be welcome
Thank you

28 Dec 2005

Personally i would get yourself known on the forums here first....
i have found that as there is only a few "real clubs" in the capital that these are for more regular people that have been going a while.
To be honest you will find when you know people from here they also go to clubs and its best way to know people.
MikeC

28 Dec 2005

Quote by MikeC
Personally i would get yourself known on the forums here first....
i have found that as there is only a few "real clubs" in the capital that these are for more regular people that have been going a while.
To be honest you will find when you know people from here they also go to clubs and its best way to know people.
MikeC

Thanks M8 noted smile

Pleas if anyone else would like to add thier penny's worth feel free :)
Hotguy

28 Dec 2005

This is a useful link Check out the ezine section. It will tell you about the latest happening clubs. Try the clubs and become a memebr.
Rios is an okay place to hang out and get into the facilities. But it can get overcrowded with single males usually at weekend evenings. It has acquired an unnecessary reputation.
Couples have a session on Saturday evening, swinging does go on, however it is not a swingers club. Single guys do get pulled occasionally. You may get lucky.

28 Dec 2005

After consulting the Oracle (Pete) he thinks that this one might be a good bet. He went several times when he lived down south
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/clubs/reviews-13.html

28 Dec 2005

Have you tried the Houses of Parliament?

28 Dec 2005

Quote by naked-cleaner
Have you tried the Houses of Parliament?

you cant say that!!!!
but then i would love to see tony in leather with ball gag

:rotflmao:

28 Dec 2005

Quote by lovejoy68
Have you tried the Houses of Parliament?

you cant say that!!!!
but then i would love to see tony in leather with ball gag

:rotflmao:
Thank you for that image...................I'm going to have bloody nightmares now!
biggrin

29 Dec 2005

Quote by Lissa
Have you tried the Houses of Parliament?

you cant say that!!!!
but then i would love to see tony in leather with ball gag

:rotflmao:
Thank you for that image...................I'm going to have bloody nightmares now!
biggrin

sorry just couldnt help that one it just slipped out lol

:lol:

29 Dec 2005

hardnhornyhotguy, I'm also in the same situation as yourself. I've heard a lot about Rio's Health Spa but just haven't gained the courage to go visit smile

. Does anyone who has visited Rioâ€™s recommend it for single males new to the scene? Also for those who have visited, what were your experiences like there?

29 Dec 2005

To answer your question re Rios. Yes I have been there a few times but I wouldn't recomend it for a novice single guy. It just isnt the right sort of place. Its ok for couples or if u wanna have a sauna and shower. Couples do play but, in my opinion only, I wouldnt recommend it for you.
As a novice I would try the Private Club in Aston, Birmingham. The "entertainment" is all laid on so u dont have to try too hard there. The guvnor's a rite nice bloke and his missus aint bad either!! She sometimes plays too !!
I have visited there many times but am taking a break from there just now. If u do go there say Paul from Maidenhead sent ya.
I dont work there or have anything to do with the place but for a beginner it's ideal. Check out their website of the same name. You never know - u mite even see me in there!!
Good luck

29 Dec 2005

Quote by LordBigCockForU
To answer your question re Rios. Yes I have been there a few times but I wouldn't recomend it for a novice single guy. It just isnt the right sort of place. Its ok for couples or if u wanna have a sauna and shower. Couples do play but, in my opinion only, I wouldnt recommend it for you.
As a novice I would try the Private Club in Aston, Birmingham. The "entertainment" is all laid on so u dont have to try too hard there. The guvnor's a rite nice bloke and his missus aint bad either!! She sometimes plays too !!
I have visited there many times but am taking a break from there just now. If u do go there say Paul from Maidenhead sent ya.
I dont work there or have anything to do with the place but for a beginner it's ideal. Check out their website of the same name. You never know - u mite even see me in there!!
Good luck

We go to The Private Club quite often, but there are two problems are far as I can see.
1..........The guys aking for advice are in London.
2..........The Private Club ISN'T a Swingers club, it's a sex club, pure and simple, with house girls who have to entertain the guys. Yes a few couples go there, us included, but not many. I like it, because I go there looking for cock, but for the main it's just a shag-fest for single guys.

29 Dec 2005

Thanks for the advice. I don't mind travelling, so I'll do some research and might just have to check out The Private Club sometime. I'm a 24 year old male looking for experiences with a mature woman/women initially. Through what I'm looking for, would I be welcomed in such a place?

29 Dec 2005

Quote by Squall_Lionheart
Thanks for the advice. I don't mind travelling, so I'll do some research and might just have to check out The Private Club sometime. I'm a 24 year old male looking for experiences with a mature woman/women initially. Through what I'm looking for, would I be welcomed in such a place?

The Private Club will let any single guy in as long as he behaves well and can afford the membership fee and admission fee.
It's free for us couples to join..lol.

29 Dec 2005

Lucky for you couples eh wink

, thanks again for all the info!

29 Dec 2005

Quote by Squall_Lionheart
Lucky for you couples eh , thanks again for all the info!

No probs. Might run into you some time :wink:

29 Dec 2005

Quote by LordBigCockForU
As a novice I would try the Private Club in Aston, Birmingham. The "entertainment" is all laid on so u dont have to try too hard there.

The guy was asking about Swingers Clubs. The place you mention is nothing more than a brothel. You pay the club, the club pays the prostitutes and the prostitutes do their tricks. Fine if all you want to be is a "punter" but I think that this guy might actually have enough about him to have the inter-personal skills to be able to socialise, to become friends with people and to enjoy the swinging scene without needing to resort to brothels.
In any case, he wanted to know about London. He'd need visa's, innoculations and parental permission, not to mention classes on how English is properly spoken, to exit the M25 Barrier and head up norf. lol

30 Dec 2005

Ok Cheers for all the advice guys and gals smile

I think i am going to try a place called the " Cockatoo Club " Unless of course anybody strongly objects ???
And yes i am looking for a Swinging club and not a Brothe :) but thanks anyway
Any more advice would be gladly taken
HotGuyl

30 Dec 2005

Quote by Squall_Lionheart
hardnhornyhotguy, I'm also in the same situation as yourself. I've heard a lot about Rio's Health Spa but just haven't gained the courage to go visit . Does anyone who has visited Rioâ€™s recommend it for single males new to the scene? Also for those who have visited, what were your experiences like there?

You might want to do a search for Rios. There have been events arranged though here for Rios.
Keep a look out. If you post and get known on here then you could go to Rios when there are other SH members there. Might make it less daunting

30 Dec 2005

Thanks guys getting some good feback from you all
Have you been to Rios HornyLittleBlonde ? would you recommend it yourself ?
I agree it would be nice to go with some people from the site it might help me feel less worried so if anyone is going and wouldn't mind showing me the ropes please drop me a PM
HotGuy

30 Dec 2005

Ok i have been told the OurPlaceForFun is one of the better clubs to attend so i may go down there at some point it would be nice to know if anyone else was going ?
HotGuy

4 Jan 2006

Quote by lovejoy68
Have you tried the Houses of Parliament?

you cant say that!!!!
but then i would love to see tony in leather with ball gag

:rotflmao:
lol smile

Fever is run by a fairly senior Tory advisor, and I can personally vouch for some senior Labour ppl being rather naughty!

4 Jan 2006

Theres a wonderful club near Heathrow - still trying to get it listed on the Clubs and Parties page!

I've only been the once so far, and had a brilliant time - as well as the playing, it seems to be very social too. Providing you don't go wandering around asking people if they fancy a shag, you should get on fine. Go with the assumption that you will not be playing, the least you will do is make friends and new contacts - then if anything else does happen, its a bonus rather than the expected biggrin

Really is a lovely place, would reccommend it to anyone from the newer, unsure people, cos of it's no pressure environment. To the more seasoned swinger who would make good use of the excellent facilities cool

4 Jan 2006

Quote by Missy
Theres a wonderful club near Heathrow - still trying to get it listed on the Clubs and Parties page!

I've only been the once so far, and had a brilliant time - as well as the playing, it seems to be very social too. Providing you don't go wandering around asking people if they fancy a shag, you should get on fine. Go with the assumption that you will not be playing, the least you will do is make friends and new contacts - then if anything else does happen, its a bonus rather than the expected
Really is a lovely place, would reccommend it to anyone from the newer, unsure people, cos of it's no pressure environment. To the more seasoned swinger who would make good use of the excellent facilities

Have to agree with Missy....this is a great club for us and it within the M25 rather than up North!!

4 Jan 2006

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5 Jan 2006

And they've got a pole! Yay! smile