best way of getting into it

18 Jan 2006

how would you guys think is the best way of getting into this as a single male ?
as going to a club seems a bit scary to me
but meeting a single female or couple and maybe taking it from there would be alot easier
how did you first start doing this ?

18 Jan 2006

well for me my ex got me into swinging
firstly with other couples then in club & been hooked ever since smile

its nothing to be scared about its just how we were brought up that makes it a little scary to start with mainly taking ones clothes off in public! i had the advantage of living in a "hippy" (for want of a better word) community for 3 years where clothes were just for going to town in biggrin

hope you find someone who can introduce you to the sceen soon as once tasted there is no going back :) :)
good luck :)