Hi
So I’ve always been quite curious about being with a guy. Has anybody got some tips for a first meet? I’m quite nervous about it all and I’ve not really had the bottle to go through with it yet.
A couple of thoughts for you. Have an idea what you want from the encounter. Chat ahead of time about this with the prospective partner.
Second, meet in tbe most comfortable location for you where you feel safe. That might be your place or a hotel. You want it to be good and hot after all!
heres a thought for you, try a sauna, you can go with someone and use the jacuzzi steam room sauna etc and decide what you want to happen based on how you feel. In the sauna , steam, jacuzzi you will be safe ( with a friend to reassure and help) and left alone till you decide to take it further or not. If not- you have had a nice sauna steam jacuzzi time and built some confidence and nothing else has happened. The sauna I use does not even need a real name or any ID so is stress free.
Have you considered meeting a MF couple, having the female there often takes some of the pressure off. Be honest about your interest and lack of experience and then if you don't feel comfortable exploring the bi side, well the fem gets to be centre of attention and all still have fun. Good luck and enjoy x
I would agree about the sauna. I have had both Male and female partners. When I started looking for new male friends (with Mrs' knowledge) I tried sites like this but always got cold feet.
My local sauna was a low stress and relaxing environment. In my experience attendees are understanding and respect boundaries (even if they change mid play). I have been several times and done nothing at all apart from having a steam and watching some porn. Equally I've been and gone all the way. It's up to you.