Bi-curious etiquette

29 Jul 2004

Hi all Susie here,
Would like a bit of advice about my bi-curiousity. At the moment I am desparate to have an experience with another woman and Paul, I can imagine wanting to kiss and touch intimately and be kissed and touched intimately, but although I have no problem with a woman going down on me - I really can't imagine wanting to go down on another woman!! Does that make me selfish? I don't want to put a label on what I "am" particularly but does anyone think it would be unreasonable for me to play with another woman and not be willing to perform oral? Not sure how the etiquette stands there! Any advice would be much appreciated.
Thanks,
Susie rolleyes

Paul and Susie

29 Jul 2004

Its strange cause im abit like u...but i don't want to be touched just touch the other lady...
Been lucky enough to pleasure another lady and i really enjoyed it...but i feel the same about men to...just want to please other people i think..not to bothered about me cause the other half does that well enough....

29 Jul 2004

Thank you,
Do want to be touched and possibly have a woman go down on me, quite happy to touch another female - just don't know if I can actually give another woman oral!! That's why I'm a bit worried that I may be perceived as selfish or possibly as a bit of a tease?? Mmmm just don't know

29 Jul 2004

Problem solved! biggrin

Venusxxx

29 Jul 2004

lol

29 Jul 2004

Your not selfish...never thing that...if your not happy with sumthing don't do it...
I just let the moment develop and c what happens..but best of luck to u and u might suprise yourself....
But most of all HAVE FUN...

29 Jul 2004

Quote by PaulnSusie
Thank you,
Do want to be touched and possibly have a woman go down on me, quite happy to touch another female - just don't know if I can actually give another woman oral!! That's why I'm a bit worried that I may be perceived as selfish or possibly as a bit of a tease?? Mmmm just don't know

I think as long as you're honest with the person involved and tell them how you feel, I'm sure most people would understand.
And you very well may find that once you get started you enjoy a lot more than you thought!
Just be open with people, its all they can ask of you, no one (I would hope) would expect you to do anything you weren't comfortable with.
Good luck, and I hope you have fun! smile

29 Jul 2004

I feel exactly the same, Suze.
Sounds like a plan. ;-)

30 Jul 2004

I agree wholeheartedly with Bari, as long as you are open and honest with the other couple they shouldnt have a problem with it.
I dont think you are selfish at all, you are just finding your feet and wanting to experiment, although I enjoy going down on other wommen now, I struggled with it for a long time before I felt able to and comfortable with the idea.
Have Fun
Olive
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