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well to be honest i don't, if i think someones cute or sexy its because of the way i see them or even there personality wether they are bi, straight or gay, i take people as i see them although i have to be honest and say that when me and my partner play with males/couples we always go for straight males, we have nothing agaist bi-males (have friends that are) but this is just our sexual preference
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Actually this is a popular misconception that annoys me. I often read swinger profiles where a couple writes something like " is straight therefore no bi males"...
WTF? Being bisexual doesn't mean you have to have sex with every member of the same sex you come into contact with! We can play straight just as easily as straight people do!
Although, give me a bi threesome over a straight one any day....
Back on topic, Miss Rabbit is unfortunately tucked up in bed with a cold right now but if she was here she'd say bi guys definitely turn her on, in fact it's her favourite thing.
Can i ask why its a misconception and why it annoys you, i thought it was all about peoples own choices and preferences, i think those comments are a bit harsh because someone dosen't have the same opinion as yourself, and like you said you'd have a bi threesome anyday over a straight one, well thats your choice so why does it annoy you when i say i preferer a straight one?
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Actually this is a popular misconception that annoys me. I often read swinger profiles where a couple writes something like " is straight therefore no bi males"...
WTF? Being bisexual doesn't mean you have to have sex with every member of the same sex you come into contact with! We can play straight just as easily as straight people do!
Although, give me a bi threesome over a straight one any day....
Back on topic, Miss Rabbit is unfortunately tucked up in bed with a cold right now but if she was here she'd say bi guys definitely turn her on, in fact it's her favourite thing.
Can i ask why its a misconception and why it annoys you, i thought it was all about peoples own choices and preferences, i think those comments are a bit harsh because someone dosen't have the same opinion as yourself, and like you said you'd have a bi threesome anyday over a straight one, well thats your choice so why does it annoy you when i say i preferer a straight one?
I think what they're trying to say is just because a partner is bi, they can still respect the boundaries of others and play with a couple who are straight.
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Because you said that's your "sexual preference" - if no bisexual activity is going to take place, why does it matter if the guy is bisexual or not? What if he lied and said he was straight, would that be okay? I didn't mean that your post in particular was annoying, I meant that it's something I often see written and it often comes across as a misconception. To use an analogy, if I said I was a tea drinker but you don't serve tea in your house, it shouldn't stop me being able to come to your house for coffee!
It reminds me of the classic scenario in the vanilla world.
I'd go out with a gay guy on a night out whose a really good mate and other guys would say "just keep him away from me"
Yeah like because he's gay he's gonna want to jump on every straight guy in the pub.
I'd always respond "don't flatter yourself"
@ raunchyrabbits: Yeah i know exactly what your saying and everyone has different opinions which they can post and yeah peeps can lie but that dosen't mean that because someone has lied to you that it changes your preferences, If you post an add for a straight male bi males will always reply but at least they know from the word go what the couple are after, like i said i take people at face value and when i meet males i dont ask them if there bi and run a mile if they say yes, anyhow i dosen't annoy me if someone states on an add/profile they don't want bi-males etc because the male is 100% straight because thats their own choice and they might be comfortable with that, i'd just look for an add/profile that suited me/us, everyone to there own.
PS. if you were teetotal i'd probly get some in for you but it certainly wouldn't annoy me.
PS. if you were teetotal i'd probly get some in for you but it certainly wouldn't annoy me.
My other half is totally straight, but we've had a Bi guy join us, and it was never an issue that he was bi. He played just with me, was happy with that criteria, and it wasn't in the least bit an uncomfortable situation. Let's face it.................in threesomes or group sex guys will often come into occasional contact with another guys bits.................and just because one of those guys is Bi doesn't mean he's then going to be overwhelmed with lust for the other bloke. :shock:
The reverse also appiles......
If you are a straight couple, would you answer an ad from a bi-curious guy- unsure if he really wanted to be with just you or your wife?
I am a bi-curious guy (no experience) and as such put that on my profile. However as I do not feel it is something that I must discover about myself right now I thought it could be mis-interpreted, and have since removed it.
If you are a straight couple, would you answer an ad from a bi-curious guy- unsure if he really wanted to be with just you or your wife?
I am a bi-curious guy (no experience) and as such put that on my profile. However as I do not feel it is something that I must discover about myself right now I thought it could be mis-interpreted, and have since removed it.
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The reverse also appiles......
If you are a straight couple, would you answer an ad from a bi-curious guy- unsure if he really wanted to be with just you or your wife?
I am a bi-curious guy (no experience) and as such put that on my profile. However as I do not feel it is something that I must discover about myself right now I thought it could be mis-interpreted, and have since removed it.
I can't see why it would be an issue.
Swinging is all about respecting peoples boundaries. You are very rarely going to find a match with people who all like the same things all at the same time.
For instance if a couple place an ad for another couple but just want oral, would that mean that anyone whose ever enjoyed full sex shouldn't reply? Of course not - as long as they're happy not to have full sex on that occasion it wouldn't be an issue
Sex God
reading all this makes me wonder when replying to adds how many guys have said they are bi and have tryed with the cpl just to shag the fem of the cpl ,just a thought
Sex God
love to see a honest member come out and explain this ,would read be interesting to hear his side,mind you one guy in earler thread was on about going for his first oral ,then did a after thread and was very honest about,the mrs says she would love to watch two guys
Sexpert
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reading all this makes me wonder when replying to adds how many guys have said they are bi and have tryed with the cpl just to shag the fem of the cpl ,just a thought
Oh quite a lot! Luckily most of them are very bad at hiding that and slip up by the second email!
Giving them the male half's msn addy to chat is also a fantastic way of finding out their "real" intentions
Strangely enough ... quite a few quickly disappear 
Sex God
Quote by raunchyrabbits
Actually this is a popular misconception that annoys me. I often read swinger profiles where a couple writes something like " is straight therefore no bi males"...
WTF? Being bisexual doesn't mean you have to have sex with every member of the same sex you come into contact with! We can play straight just as easily as straight people do!
We specifically state no bi males on our ads. It is our preference to do so.
We had several meets with a guy, who although he told us he was straight, it didn't stop him trying to grab hold of Jon's cock in the heat of the moment, on a couple of occassions
SOME people can play straight . . . others it seems can't, so for those of us who don't wish to get involved in an embarrassing situation, not meeting with bi males is easier all round and we will continue to state it on our ads
Tracy-Jayne
Sexpert
At the end of the day (sorry did I really just say that ) ... if we all liked and wanted the same things it would be a pretty boring world ... everyone is entitled to their own likes and dislikes ... and making this clear in an ad makes it easier to find what you do want 
) ... if we all liked and wanted the same things it would be a pretty boring world ... everyone is entitled to their own likes and dislikes ... and making this clear in an ad makes it easier to find what you do want 
Sexlightened
THe thought of two guys does nothing for me but It wouldnt bother me having fun with a guy just cos he was bi (as long as he knew partner was straight and respected that )
Like squirtee said it would be a dull place if we didnt have differances
Like squirtee said it would be a dull place if we didnt have differances
Orgasminator
Quote by raunchyrabbits
reading all this makes me wonder when replying to adds how many guys have said they are bi and have tryed with the cpl just to shag the fem of the cpl ,just a thought
Loads. And they always describe themselves as "straight" in their profiles...
Oddly enough this site has one of the highest numbers of adverts of couples explicitly (or openly) seeking bi guys...
Another site I sometimes use rarely advertise for bi guys, instead prefer to describe themselves as "bi fem and openmided male" or don't state the sexuality of the male... obviously adverts specifically requring a "str8 male" I don't bother with as although I do play with straight couples who don't mind my sexuality I wouldnt feel comfortable playing with a couple who were not at ease even if there was no same sex contact no matter how indirect or accidental...
Most people realise that some same sex contact is going to happen and are ok with that, especially with DP or DVP and at least being comfortable with bisexuality or same sex contact is also usefull when the woman wants her clit licked while she recieves penitration as thats almost imposible to do without some male male contact even if it is just balls banging on the forehead, lol.
Quote by Fun Scottish Couple
Actually this is a popular misconception that annoys me. I often read swinger profiles where a couple writes something like " is straight therefore no bi males"...
WTF? Being bisexual doesn't mean you have to have sex with every member of the same sex you come into contact with! We can play straight just as easily as straight people do!
Although, give me a bi threesome over a straight one any day....
Back on topic, Miss Rabbit is unfortunately tucked up in bed with a cold right now but if she was here she'd say bi guys definitely turn her on, in fact it's her favourite thing.
Can i ask why its a misconception and why it annoys you, i thought it was all about peoples own choices and preferences, i think those comments are a bit harsh because someone dosen't have the same opinion as yourself, and like you said you'd have a bi threesome anyday over a straight one, well thats your choice so why does it annoy you when i say i preferer a straight one?
actually i have to say i agree with RR all because someone is bi that does not mean they want to jump everyones bones whos the same sex, the bi guy may not even fancy the guy from the cpl for a start lol
Quote by naughtynymphos1
Actually this is a popular misconception that annoys me. I often read swinger profiles where a couple writes something like " is straight therefore no bi males"...
WTF? Being bisexual doesn't mean you have to have sex with every member of the same sex you come into contact with! We can play straight just as easily as straight people do!
Although, give me a bi threesome over a straight one any day....
Back on topic, Miss Rabbit is unfortunately tucked up in bed with a cold right now but if she was here she'd say bi guys definitely turn her on, in fact it's her favourite thing.
Can i ask why its a misconception and why it annoys you, i thought it was all about peoples own choices and preferences, i think those comments are a bit harsh because someone dosen't have the same opinion as yourself, and like you said you'd have a bi threesome anyday over a straight one, well thats your choice so why does it annoy you when i say i preferer a straight one?
actually i have to say i agree with RR all because someone is bi that does not mean they want to jump everyones bones whos the same sex, the bi guy may not even fancy the guy from the cpl for a start lol
Who said bi guys want to jump on everyones bones? I thought that was just the term RR used. it is'nt a misconception either its choice, look at it open minded, so its ok for a bi male/couple to advertise for a bi male/couple (nothing said) but not a straight couple to ask for a straight male, i mean correct me if im wrong but i thought people could make there own choices this thread seems to be getting at straight couples/males looking for the same and i dont see a problem with this and i can't really understand why as we are all human aren't we?
as i said on another thread
'you dont have to eat all the types of chocolates from a selection box in one sitting"
that bi couple /str8 male thing is complex.
men like wanking off and watching each other get horny, porn, egging each other on etc...which is sort of getting off on a guy getting turned on. true?
so although not doing anything its sort of shared and sexual.
theres a real barrier over the whole bi thing. some blokes are totally str8, but all of them appreciated a masculine big lad putting a smile on a girls face - watching etc.
as for the girls ... well you better tell us....!!
'you dont have to eat all the types of chocolates from a selection box in one sitting"
that bi couple /str8 male thing is complex.
men like wanking off and watching each other get horny, porn, egging each other on etc...which is sort of getting off on a guy getting turned on. true?
so although not doing anything its sort of shared and sexual.
theres a real barrier over the whole bi thing. some blokes are totally str8, but all of them appreciated a masculine big lad putting a smile on a girls face - watching etc.
as for the girls ... well you better tell us....!!
Hi all - long time no post - boy have things changed around here!
Anyway - as a married man I rediscovered my bi tendancies about 4 years ago and became actively orally bi with a married chap I met online. As I say, only orally bi, but the strange thing is I can't stand to see two guys kissing (which I also do) and giving/receiving BJs in films or on the web.
Just my little input into the thread.
Anyway - as a married man I rediscovered my bi tendancies about 4 years ago and became actively orally bi with a married chap I met online. As I say, only orally bi, but the strange thing is I can't stand to see two guys kissing (which I also do) and giving/receiving BJs in films or on the web.
Just my little input into the thread.
Sex God
Bring it on ---- bi-guys.... much more fun to be had all round............. 8 bi guys in a daisy chain - the stuff that dreams are made of :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: . Straight groups are boring in comparison.
i havent had chamce to read all the replies - but generally - im a bi-curious girly- i think theres something about the open-mindedness of anyone thats bisexual thats a bit of a turn on. having said that, im not someone who feels the need to label anyone - it really just comes down to who youre attracted to......
Warming the Bed
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Bring it on ---- bi-guys.... much more fun to be had all round............. 8 bi guys in a daisy chain - the stuff that dreams are made of :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: . Straight groups are boring in comparison.
I'm with Blue ..it's the future
Why should a couple shy away from a guy just because he expresses that preference. If it's a bi girl their fingers can't tap the keyboard fast enough
Master of Sex
I've always been curious regarding men who advertise as being bi-curious and wondered whether most of them are using the label to get to women they wouldn't otherwise be able to play with.
Slightly off-topic but I've also wondered why there seem to be an increasing number of men who advertise for women with strap-ons but wouldn't dream of taking part in anal with a bloke whether or not they regard themselves as bi....is this to do with being dominated by a woman, exploring new erogenous zones or a mixture?
Blue, have you thought about the combination of 8 bi-guys in a daisy chain covered in marmite? Now that is the future.
:cheers:
Slightly off-topic but I've also wondered why there seem to be an increasing number of men who advertise for women with strap-ons but wouldn't dream of taking part in anal with a bloke whether or not they regard themselves as bi....is this to do with being dominated by a woman, exploring new erogenous zones or a mixture?
Blue, have you thought about the combination of 8 bi-guys in a daisy chain covered in marmite? Now that is the future.
:cheers:
its the couples you meet where the couple stipulate that the man is 100% straight !
well i wish my back allowed me to be 100% straight ! but when you get down to business and see them stood behind the camera in stockings and suspenders while you are talking politics to the wife it can be a bit confusing
well i wish my back allowed me to be 100% straight ! but when you get down to business and see them stood behind the camera in stockings and suspenders while you are talking politics to the wife
it can be a bit confusing Orgasminator
just gotta say i agree with the rabbit.
