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Bisexuals suffer more from social isolation?
Blondeslave it is honest. But I think the point here is that in the eyes of many, it is WRONG. 
As someone who as lived as a bisexual on the lesbian scene and in the 'straight' world, I would say that this judgement comes from both sides of the fence.
Lesbians let their resemntment known. Bisexuals let the side down, are not 'pure'
Straight people cannot understand how we can switch from one to the other. We have to remember that swingers are a minority and so most people do not comprehend the idea of group sex as a way of life and so presume that a bisexual will always have to cheat on their partner to satisfy both cravings.
We are a little different. Very comfortable in the world of swinging but I wonder if that is why so many of us are here? Because in RL we cannot go to a bar and pick up a couple. Especially if out with a group of 'straight' or lesbian friends. Its just not done.
However, I have always been honest and open about my sexuality and am proud of it. I get the best of both worlds.
As someone who as lived as a bisexual on the lesbian scene and in the 'straight' world, I would say that this judgement comes from both sides of the fence.
Lesbians let their resemntment known. Bisexuals let the side down, are not 'pure'
Straight people cannot understand how we can switch from one to the other. We have to remember that swingers are a minority and so most people do not comprehend the idea of group sex as a way of life and so presume that a bisexual will always have to cheat on their partner to satisfy both cravings.
We are a little different. Very comfortable in the world of swinging but I wonder if that is why so many of us are here? Because in RL we cannot go to a bar and pick up a couple. Especially if out with a group of 'straight' or lesbian friends. Its just not done.
However, I have always been honest and open about my sexuality and am proud of it. I get the best of both worlds.
Quote by SunBunny
Blondeslave it is honest. But I think the point here is that in the eyes of many, it is WRONG.
As someone who as lived as a bisexual on the lesbian scene and in the 'straight' world, I would say that this judgement comes from both sides of the fence.
Lesbians let their resemntment known. Bisexuals let the side down, are not 'pure'
Straight people cannot understand how we can switch from one to the other. We have to remember that swingers are a minority and so most people do not comprehend the idea of group sex as a way of life and so presume that a bisexual will always have to cheat on their partner to satisfy both cravings.
We are a little different. Very comfortable in the world of swinging but I wonder if that is why so many of us are here? Because in RL we cannot go to a bar and pick up a couple. Especially if out with a group of 'straight' or lesbian friends. Its just not done.
However, I have always been honest and open about my sexuality and am proud of it. I get the best of both worlds.
Babe, I totally agree with your comments...and have to say, I have had more bad feelings from the gay community than the straight............ Most of my gay friends think that the only way to go is to choose !!
Well I am blonde and have never made a decision in my life............ and am certainly not gonna start now.........lol lol lol lol
I am more than happy with who I am and what I do............ xxxxxxxxxx
Quote by blondeslave
Blondeslave it is honest. But I think the point here is that in the eyes of many, it is WRONG.
As someone who as lived as a bisexual on the lesbian scene and in the 'straight' world, I would say that this judgement comes from both sides of the fence.
Lesbians let their resemntment known. Bisexuals let the side down, are not 'pure'
Straight people cannot understand how we can switch from one to the other. We have to remember that swingers are a minority and so most people do not comprehend the idea of group sex as a way of life and so presume that a bisexual will always have to cheat on their partner to satisfy both cravings.
We are a little different. Very comfortable in the world of swinging but I wonder if that is why so many of us are here? Because in RL we cannot go to a bar and pick up a couple. Especially if out with a group of 'straight' or lesbian friends. Its just not done.
However, I have always been honest and open about my sexuality and am proud of it. I get the best of both worlds.
Babe, I totally agree with your comments...and have to say, I have had more bad feelings from the gay community than the straight............ Most of my gay friends think that the only way to go is to choose !!
Well I am blonde and have never made a decision in my life............ and am certainly not gonna start now.........lol lol lol lol
I am more than happy with who I am and what I do............ xxxxxxxxxx
I am more than happy with who you are and what you do too babes........ ILY xxxxxx
