Black Guys- whats the deal?

15 Jun 2005

i'm just wondering why on the photo ads every other ad is a woman ONLY wanting black men?
why is that?
is it that u want somthing differant, or somthing u havnt had befor?
Is it a size thing?
Is it simply that u dont want millions of replys?
I just somtimes think us young fit white guys get a bum deal (not litterally)

15 Jun 2005

starting threads like this and your arse might become toast quickly
its personal preference and you might be treading on toes phrasing a thread so

15 Jun 2005

Some women may just like black men more, i have read thro the adds and i can't see as many as u are making out there are after black men only, but at the end of the day people come on here to ask for what they are looking for, u can't say to a woman looking for a woman...why a woman whats up with us men lol so u can't be asking why they want black men it not get u a meet faster lol

15 Jun 2005

How come there isn't more ethnic origin people on SH? Is it a culture thing,or just proportionate confused

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cc_7up

15 Jun 2005

i saw one blokes add who was a black guy with an 11" cock, for real, it was fucking huge, so i can see the....er...appeal!!
lol

15 Jun 2005

Quote by Ben1978
i saw one blokes add who was a black guy with an 11" cock, for real, it was fucking huge, so i can see the....er...appeal!!

One assumes that would open ones eye ! jesus

15 Jun 2005

Quote by BIGsi
i'm just wondering why on the photo ads every other ad is a woman ONLY wanting black men?
why is that?
is it that u want somthing differant, or somthing u havnt had befor?
Is it a size thing?
Is it simply that u dont want millions of replys?
I just somtimes think us young fit white guys get a bum deal (not litterally)

Like iit has been said it is personal perference.
Now if you want a 'bum deal' I know a woman with a strap on who would be more than happy to help you out :twisted:

15 Jun 2005

Quote by SXBOY
i saw one blokes add who was a black guy with an 11" cock, for real, it was fucking huge, so i can see the....er...appeal!!

One assumes that would open ones eye ! jesus
Don't know about open one's eye, but if you're not careful, it could have your eye out!! :lol:

15 Jun 2005

just seen the advert ,, not sure if its real at all ,, i think its a cannons barrel

15 Jun 2005

Quote by BIGsi
I just somtimes think us young fit white guys get a bum deal (not litterally)

that's crap..the vast majority of ads don't expres any racial preference. I've seen plenty seeking white guys only and I don't get up tight about it..who am I to question folks personal preferences? Lose the paranoia Ben and you might get lucky.

15 Jun 2005

paranoid? think you must have typed the wrong name....no paranoia over here.....!
some women want a black guy, some want a white guy, i agree with you...BIGsi talking Bigcrap...
:grin:

15 Jun 2005

Quote by BIGsi
i'm just wondering why on the photo ads every other ad is a woman ONLY wanting black men?
Is it a size thing?

As everyone says, its just personal preference m8, not nescasserily a size thing. For size its hit and miss as it is with everyone. But does anyone ask you why women? Why big tits? or small? Some people just get a greater physical attraction from a black man, just don't question it.

15 Jun 2005

Plus i think some women just want to have sex with the steriotypical "well hung black guy" that they fanticise about- no biggie (well- then again!!!)

15 Jun 2005

Quote by sheffguy
Plus i think some women just want to have sex with the steriotypical "well hung black guy" that they fanticise about- no biggie (well- then again!!!)

Any woman who has been with a handfull of black men (unless its because the ones in my area are just unlucky enough to not have this) knows that not every black man is well hung. Granted the well hung ones have, well, from what a friend said the other week massive ones. But its hit and miss, deal with it.

15 Jun 2005

as i said at first reply to this thread
you are entitled to fancy whatever !!! you want
if they fancy you back youve got lucky
deal with it or move on elsewhere

15 Jun 2005

yeah of course im sorry for offending any one.
Its just to me I see no difference in black women or white women, so I dont understand why some people will only go for a black person.
Also I have been slightly frusterated when i have read an ad from a woman who sounds my cup of tea, and then at the bottom it says BLACK MEN ONLY, like im not good enough.
also If i put up and ad saying WHITE WOMEN ONLY id be called a rasist, double standerd may be? (i would put an ad up like that as I said befor I dont see a difference)

15 Jun 2005

Quote by BIGsi
yeah of course im sorry for offending any one.
Its just to me I see no difference in black women or white women, so I dont understand why some people will only go for a black person.
Also I have been slightly frusterated when i have read an ad from a woman who sounds my cup of tea, and then at the bottom it says BLACK MEN ONLY, like im not good enough.
also If i put up and ad saying WHITE WOMEN ONLY id be called a rasist, double standerd may be? (i would put an ad up like that as I said befor I dont see a difference)

Wake up man, your living in a real world. No offense to people of a certain ethnic background, but its all double standards. Dont you question white men being sued and sent to jail for however long for being racist? Calling people niggers and such? Yet you walk down a street and see that its ok to call another black person a if you are also black. Again, deal with it, its life. And actually i don't think you would be called racist saying WHITE WOMEN ONLY, that isn't a racist remark.
Let the preference thing go, if someone said they didnt like you because you had a nose like mount everast would you argue when someone came looking for someone with a big honker (being nose :P)? Women, men and everyone are aloud their own personal preference its of their own free will, just don't question it. Personally i think this topic should be deleted and sent to never never land

15 Jun 2005

Quote by BIGsi
yeah of course im sorry for offending any one.
Its just to me I see no difference in black women or white women, so I dont understand why some people will only go for a black person.
Also I have been slightly frusterated when i have read an ad from a woman who sounds my cup of tea, and then at the bottom it says BLACK MEN ONLY, like im not good enough.
also If i put up and ad saying WHITE WOMEN ONLY id be called a rasist, double standerd may be? (i would put an ad up like that as I said befor I dont see a difference)

Why would you be called a rasist,your only stating your preference,if black ladies don't do it for you that is your business,there are lots of ads stating what they are looking stating what you are looking people will know not to respond to your ad saving them time and effort replying to your ad!

15 Jun 2005

Quote by Ben1978
paranoid? think you must have typed the wrong name....no paranoia over here.....!
some women want a black guy, some want a white guy, i agree with you...BIGsi talking Bigcrap...
:grin:

..apologises Ben, yes I mistyped the name redface

15 Jun 2005

Racism should never be discussed online in forums....it goes on and on...
-- LOCK IT MAN!!! lock it or a plague of equally mixed white and black locusts shall rain down for and equally distributed share of the...... WHITE MANS CROPS!!! :twisted: HA HA ...only joking of course...im sure there are some black farmers in England.....

15 Jun 2005

Quote by Mikehboy19
Wake up man, your living in a real world. No offense to people of a certain ethnic background, but its all double standards. Dont you question white men being sued and sent to jail for however long for being racist? Calling people niggers and such? Yet you walk down a street and see that its ok to call another black person a if you are also black. Again, deal with it, its life. And actually i don't think you would be called racist saying WHITE WOMEN ONLY, that isn't a racist remark.

..disagree with you here Mike, I don't refer to other black people as niggers. To be honest I think this is more to do with familiarity, you can get away with speaking to your friends and family in a certain way, but if a stranger were to do the same it would be offensive..so it follows...if a total (black) stranger were to greet me in the street by calling me ' ' he would get a punch on the nose..nothing to do with double standards.

15 Jun 2005

called racist saying WHITE WOMEN ONLY, that isn't a racist remark.

depends, if it was on a sign hanging over the entrance to a yoga class it could be...
lol

:lol: :lol:
sorry....

15 Jun 2005

Quote by Ben1978
called racist saying WHITE WOMEN ONLY, that isn't a racist remark.

depends, if it was on a sign hanging over the entrance to a yoga class it could be...
lol

:lol: :lol:
sorry....
:laughabove:

15 Jun 2005

Oh! You're black, Alspals?
So you can play basketball, and dance and talk jive and everything?!?
rolleyes

I think everyone gets stereotyped in one way or another. Not all as crass as I just did (in jest) above.
When I first joined a forum, way back when, I did so with no photo and no gender specified. It was a distributed computing forum. Very straight.
Anyways, it was assumed I was a white male.
People really do treat you differently, depending on who and what they think you are, don't they?
I found it quite refreshing to start with, then... I began to miss some of the ways a blue-eyed, blonde woman gets treated! Oh, not all the ways, but some.

15 Jun 2005

Quote by Vix
Oh! You're black, Alspals?
So you can play basketball, and dance and talk jive and everything?!?

I think everyone gets stereotyped in one way or another. Not all as crass as I just did (in jest) above.
When I first joined a forum, way back when, I did so with no photo and no gender specified. It was a distributed computing forum. Very straight.
Anyways, it was assumed I was a white male.
People really do treat you differently, depending on who and what they think you are, don't they?
I found it quite refreshing to start with, then... I began to miss some of the ways a blue-eyed, blonde woman gets treated! Oh, not all the ways, but some.

You're blonde and blue eyed :shock: get back and finish your nails before commenting on such a highbrow topic

:rotflmao:

15 Jun 2005

Quote by BIGsi
yeah of course im sorry for offending any one.
Its just to me I see no difference in black women or white women, so I dont understand why some people will only go for a black person.
Also I have been slightly frusterated when i have read an ad from a woman who sounds my cup of tea, and then at the bottom it says BLACK MEN ONLY, like im not good enough.
also If i put up and ad saying WHITE WOMEN ONLY id be called a rasist, double standerd may be? (i would put an ad up like that as I said befor I dont see a difference)

i have looked at this since you wrote it.... and have be debating whether to put a reply on this thread....in the end since alspals my "brother" had his say.. i thought i'd have mine.... smile

:)
obviously you haven't seen some of the ad that i have seen because for every ad that you see where they want a black guy... i will show you one where i have seen they they want a white guy... or where i have had a reply which has said the words "sorry we don't do inter-racial" ....
everyone has preferences.... whether is it lardy black guys like me and al... or whether it is a "fit young white guy" like yourself....
so what would you rather happen.. they didn't put any desciption of what they want??? if they put in tall guys... the short ones would complain, if they put up slim guys... fat ones would complain.... and so on
so if you don't match what they are after... just move on!!! i am guessing that you have preferences in your women/couples..... so why shouldn't they???
sean xxxxxxxxx
p.s vix..... i play basketball, can dance and can talk jive............
biggrin

:D :D :D can't sing to save me life so you can't have everything.....

15 Jun 2005

Quote by fabio grooverider
yeah of course im sorry for offending any one.
Its just to me I see no difference in black women or white women, so I dont understand why some people will only go for a black person.
Also I have been slightly frusterated when i have read an ad from a woman who sounds my cup of tea, and then at the bottom it says BLACK MEN ONLY, like im not good enough.
also If i put up and ad saying WHITE WOMEN ONLY id be called a rasist, double standerd may be? (i would put an ad up like that as I said befor I dont see a difference)

i have looked at this since you wrote it.... and have be debating whether to put a reply on this thread....in the end since alspals my "brother" had his say.. i thought i'd have mine.... smile

:)
obviously you haven't seen some of the ad that i have seen because for every ad that you see where they want a black guy... i will show you one where i have seen they they want a white guy... or where i have had a reply which has said the words "sorry we don't do inter-racial" ....
everyone has preferences.... whether is it lardy black guys like me and al... or whether it is a "fit young white guy" like yourself....
so what would you rather happen.. they didn't put any desciption of what they want??? if they put in tall guys... the short ones would complain, if they put up slim guys... fat ones would complain.... and so on
so if you don't match what they are after... just move on!!! i am guessing that you have preferences in your women/couples..... so why shouldn't they???
sean xxxxxxxxx
p.s vix..... i play basketball, can dance and can talk jive............
biggrin

:D :D :D can't sing to save me life so you can't have everything.....
couldnt of put it better myself hun!!!!!
louxxxxxxxx

15 Jun 2005

Completely agree with you Fabio.....
People have their preferences and so state them in their ads..... its all about choices...
Thats what makes this world the place it is..... different people wanting different things...
equi-princess xxx

15 Jun 2005

Quote by fabio grooverider
p.s vix..... i play basketball, can dance and can talk jive............
:D :D :D can't sing to save me life so you can't have everything.....

Well, I do remember the singing. You have a point there.

16 Jun 2005

Quote by Vix
Oh! You're black, Alspals?
So you can play basketball, and dance and talk jive and everything?!?

.

:laughabove:
..hey Vix..Derek from Big Brother is my role model...and I wonder why I can't get a bird!!

:rotflmao: