I have to say that on occasions I have said that I like to see Sue with a black guy which I have on a few occasions but must agree with what your saying.
I have been guilty of not thinking before speaking but to be honest it didn't occur to me that it was a problem, my mistake.
We all have our fantasies. Some guys like blondes while others like brunetts but that doesn't mean they are being offensive by saying so.
If I have caused offense to anyone may I take this oppertunity to say SORRY.
Pete.
To be honest, thats whats good about this forum - unless a picture is added or something is given as info all people have to go on is the essence of the contributor.
No preconceptions are (hopefully) made and it's the humour and the attitude (good or bad) that seeps through the moniter.
I've been laughing, sighing and consoling people on here and I've not a clue as to 99% of their physical attributes - it's actually nice to not know for my part.
I, for example, had not seen the post you mention and had not assumed you were of any particular colour - but I could tell that you were a humourous and articulate lady joining the board and finding her feet like many of us on here.
I'd like to think I'm not unique in this thinking ?
Carpathian
Some people think that going with a black or asian lady has some kind of novelty live in multi cultural society.I treat people as a person,rather than anything thing you are different in taste or ethnic background im not bothered,i wish more people had a similar the person inside that is the important thing.
This below is for all those who insult ethnic peoples in general and not for the majority of forum users.....
CROCODILES HAVE LITTLE EARS AND BIG MOUTHS
An old addage, but one I kinda like. Some people are just never gonna learn, and that is life innit? It is like the guys who say they have never slept with a proper blonde, or had a twosome.....to these sorts it is a trophy hunt? Most guys, the decent sort I assume frequent this forum have an idea about a thing they would like to do, but do not brag about it in company because we all have a fetish to some extent? Please excuse the ASSHOLES, their are many and many more yet to surface. So if anyone fancies painting up in bright flourenscent colours and pretending we are all aliens...drop me a line? We are all the same in the dark for goddams sakes and we just wanna shag after all....? Basic truth here for all you dumb assholes who have no tact, no thought and no furkin brains
Hi Red Velvet,
We cant believe that some people are so crass, however no matter what your ethnic background there appears to be a minority of people within the swinging community who consider any swinger as an easy lay and that they can say what they wish to you. Apparently us swingers have no feelings and this minority can treat us as they wish.
Hang in there Red Velvet, we are not all bad I promise you!! Some of us consider the person and the personality first and foremost.
Go girl!!!
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{hugs Mandy, as a whole}
Some of us understand, Mandy, fear not !
Carpathian
P.S. Oh, and thank you !
I can feel a group hug coming up!!!
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Hi RedVelvet and welcome to the Forum.
As Carpathian has eloquently expressed, generally speaking we are responding to people on here without having a clue what they look like. I think that is rather nice as it means that there are no preconceptions - we are merely responding to what they have written.
I hope you have a great time here. Most of the people are fabulous and very genuine. Look forward to meeting you at the NW munch.