Blinkin ex partners!

14 Apr 2005

Can I have a moan???
I need to moan which is not very often cos I am a smile

gal on the whole.
My bloody ex partner has made me :cry: this morning. I'm sure it is a whole 'control' thing on his part but WHY do they have to do it? He is the only person who can reduce me to a blubbering wreck. I have to say we get on great the majority of the time and his wife is the tops she really is - we all holiday together with the kids and everything. Anyway this is how he left me feeling;
A. A crap mum
B. Useless
C. Dishonest
D. About 5 years old
Anyway that is my moan over - I know I'm not a crap mum, useless, dishonest and my tits tell me I am a good 33 years old. So I am off for a swim (first thoughts were to eat gross amounts of chocolate) and wash that man right out of my hair.
Thanks for letting me share!
Cathy x

14 Apr 2005

great tits too
dont worry be happy
its his loss

14 Apr 2005

Ex partners are horrid creatures and that is a fact.
Having said that, I've never got on as well with my ex wife. Now that my eldest is over 18 and living at my house. I don't ever see or talk to her. So after 14 years of BS, I am finaly free. It takes a long time, but it happens. biggrin

14 Apr 2005

Quote by Red(RHG)
He is the only person who can reduce me to a blubbering wreck.

Cathy x

I've been known to do that on odd ocassions, can I have a go? Won't leave you feeling like a
A. A crap mum
B. Useless
C. Dishonest
D. About 5 years old
though!
Chris

14 Apr 2005

Quote by marmalaid
He is the only person who can reduce me to a blubbering wreck.

Cathy x

I've been known to do that on odd ocassions, can I have a go? Won't leave you feeling like a
A. A crap mum
B. Useless
C. Dishonest
D. About 5 years old
though!
Chris
Welllllllll, snivel snivel you could try......... :twisted:
Shall I add fickle on to my list too??
smile

Cathy x

14 Apr 2005

Awwwww chin up babe. I have an ex partner. I keep his bits in a box under my bed :twisted:
(Cripes if there are any police type persons on this site that WAS just a joke)
confused

14 Apr 2005

Kate - I'm not a copper but can I look under your bed anyway, preferably for my CKs? biggrin

Cathy -

14 Apr 2005

why do ex partners always turn up at the wrong place at the wrong time all the while
and make situations difficult

14 Apr 2005

Hi Honey
Dont let him get you down babe, Ive got an ex partner and the best thing I did was get rid of him. If your kid(s) are happy and well looked after then you know that your one of the best mums.
I fecking hate it when ex partners try telling you how crap you are.
Keep your chin up and repeat after me, I am a beautiful vibrant confident woman who is a fantastic mum. When you have done this stick your two fingers up to your ex partner
Love
Tigersgobounce69
xxxxxxxxxxxx

14 Apr 2005

Quote by Red(RHG)
Anyway that is my moan over - I know I'm not a crap mum, useless, dishonest and my tits tell me I am a good 33 years old. So I am off for a swim (first thoughts were to eat gross amounts of chocolate) and wash that man right out of my hair.
Thanks for letting me share!
Cathy x

Because secretly he still thinks you are absolutely LUSH. Just look at yourself, woman, you are stunning and you know what, he't doing the man equivalent of pushing you around and snapping your bra straps that little boys do to girls in the school playground.
And as for making you feel like a crap mother, heaven is under the mother's feet they say. He should be buying you Jimmy Choo shoes and paying for chiropodist treatments

14 Apr 2005

Quote by Red(RHG)
Can I have a moan???
I need to moan which is not very often cos I am a gal on the whole.
My bloody ex partner has made me :cry: this morning. I'm sure it is a whole 'control' thing on his part but WHY do they have to do it? He is the only person who can reduce me to a blubbering wreck. I have to say we get on great the majority of the time and his wife is the tops she really is - we all holiday together with the kids and everything. Anyway this is how he left me feeling;
A. A crap mum
B. Useless
C. Dishonest
D. About 5 years old
Anyway that is my moan over - I know I'm not a crap mum, useless, dishonest and my tits tell me I am a good 33 years old. So I am off for a swim (first thoughts were to eat
gross amounts of chocolate) and wash that man right out of my hair.
Thanks for letting me share!
Cathy x

dont let him get too you' if he see's that he does he'll keep doing it.
oh by the way i agree with sxboy...nice tits.

14 Apr 2005

You are a lovely and wonderful woman......so keep yer chin up okay?
Hope you enjoyed your swim hun....

14 Apr 2005

Quote by Maia
And as for making you feel like a crap mother, heaven is under the mother's feet they say. He should be buying you Jimmy Choo shoes and paying for chiropodist treatments

Gigglin! So he should!
Ta all!!! (Tiggersgo kiss

)
Cathy x

14 Apr 2005

My daughter's dad is a total wanker. Despite living with us both for the first 2 1/2 years of her life, he did absolutely sweet FA in teh way of bringing her up or even so much as "quality time". Since he's been chucked out he suddenly thinks he has the right to criticise my parenting skills, money-management, career choices, decor etc etc etc. Tosser evil

The more recent ex is one of those who appears to just pop up for the hell of it. He's nothing but a minor blemish and I don't give a shit if he wants to waste his money texting and ringing my mobile. I'm changing my number soon anyway.
Don't worry, chicken. He's probably had a crap day and is taking it out on you. Maybe he's jealous that you are so sorted and getting on with life without him? Exes are exes for a very good reason cool

14 Apr 2005

Quote by DreamerHelen
You are a lovely and wonderful woman......so keep yer chin up okay?
Hope you enjoyed your swim hun....

Off to meet Mrs WibblyWobbly in a bit and hit the baths.....
Watch out Sheffield eh?
Kisses Helen x
Cathy x

14 Apr 2005

Quote by Marya
My daughter's dad is a total wanker. Despite living with us both for the first 2 1/2 years of her life, he did absolutely sweet FA in teh way of bringing her up or even so much as "quality time". Since he's been chucked out he suddenly thinks he has the right to criticise my parenting skills, money-management, career choices, decor etc etc etc. Tosser )

Me and the ex hubby get on ok, but this post rang bells.
When we were all together, he had zero time for the kids. Now he has them every weekend, needless to say he is favourite person, in the kids eyes. Me? I'm just the one who makes them do homework and go to bed on time. rolleyes

BTW Red.....
Nice tits. lol

14 Apr 2005

Quote by Red(RHG)
Can I have a moan???
I need to moan which is not very often cos I am a gal on the whole.
My bloody ex partner has made me :cry: this morning. I'm sure it is a whole 'control' thing on his part but WHY do they have to do it? He is the only person who can reduce me to a blubbering wreck. I have to say we get on great the majority of the time and his wife is the tops she really is - we all holiday together with the kids and everything. Anyway this is how he left me feeling;
A. A crap mum
B. Useless
C. Dishonest
D. About 5 years old
Anyway that is my moan over - I know I'm not a crap mum, useless, dishonest and my tits tell me I am a good 33 years old. So I am off for a swim (first thoughts were to eat gross amounts of chocolate) and wash that man right out of my hair.
Thanks for letting me share!
Cathy x

Take no notice of your ex love, I'm sure you are a lovely girl. xxx

14 Apr 2005

Red, have some hugs.
I'm lucky, the destructive ex I don't see cos he moved to London! biggrin

and the other ex is a really nice guy, just not right for me in so many different ways.
Take care and know that he was just saying those things to hurt you becasue of his own insecuritites not your faults.
Take care and chin up! kiss

Gem. x

14 Apr 2005

Chin up babes - biug cuddles to you. xx

14 Apr 2005

Can I ask a question about ex-partners?
I don't want to just blurt it out because I'm asking out of curiosity, and not having an ex in my past I don't know how it feels, and I don't want to go blundering around trampling on sensitive issues just because I am nosey! confused

lhk
Kat

14 Apr 2005

Go on then ya nosy bugger, ask away.
Jas
XXX
Red tell him he's a stupid head and to bog off. If he wants to treat you like a child insult him like one.
I've yet to come across a supercilious twat who could respond to utterly childish insults when thrown at them in the middle of an argument.
Nice tits by the way, just in case you hadn't realised.

14 Apr 2005

My ex behaves like that towards me at times,
Normally it happens when he has had an agrument with his g/f, so he rings me and takes it out on me.
When will ex's ever learn??

14 Apr 2005

Quote by Sarah1448
My ex behaves like that towards me at times,
Normally it happens when he has had an agrument with his g/f, so he rings me and takes it out on me.
When will ex's ever learn??

Psst, Sarah... Look at Red(RHG)'s tits! Oi loikes they, oi do's.

14 Apr 2005

Quote by Vix
When we were all together, he had zero time for the kids. Now he has them every weekend, needless to say he is favourite person, in the kids eyes. Me? I'm just the one who makes them do homework and go to bed on time.
BTW Red.....
Nice tits.

Left my ex when daughter was 7 months old and she genuinely thinks I'm dumb and do nothing but make her life miserable! ( probably do but hey that's my job) ... her real daddy on the other hand, hasn't paid a penny towards her, has to be reminded of birthdays, easter christmas etc, even though he does have her every other weekend! Feeds her real shite and yet the sun shines out of his arse!!
Don't get me wrong my ex and I get on really really well (much better than when we lived together etc), he backs me up when I snitch on her being naughty and occasionally startles us with a surprise for her.
BTW Red ... great tits honey ;)
C x

14 Apr 2005

Quote by Red(RHG)
Can I have a moan???
I need to moan which is not very often cos I am a gal on the whole.
My bloody ex partner has made me :cry: this morning. I'm sure it is a whole 'control' thing on his part but WHY do they have to do it? He is the only person who can reduce me to a blubbering wreck. I have to say we get on great the majority of the time and his wife is the tops she really is - we all holiday together with the kids and everything. Anyway this is how he left me feeling;
A. A crap mum
B. Useless
C. Dishonest
D. About 5 years old
Anyway that is my moan over - I know I'm not a crap mum, useless, dishonest and my tits tell me I am a good 33 years old. So I am off for a swim (first thoughts were to eat gross amounts of chocolate) and wash that man right out of my hair.
Thanks for letting me share!
Cathy x

Red, there's a little thing I keep coming across in my line of work - IF YOU SPOT IT, YOU GOT IT! If he sees you as useless, dishonest, a bad parent, and exceedingly immature, then it's probably because that's what he doesn't want to face about himself.
And your breasts are, indeed, delicious.

14 Apr 2005

Red hunni

((((hugs))))
I've lifted my floor-boards if that will help you any wink

14 Apr 2005

Quote by Red(RHG)
Off to meet Mrs WibblyWobbly in a bit and hit the baths.....
Watch out Sheffield eh?

She made me swim oodles of lengths... drink copious amounts of alcohol and then shop for clothes! ;-)
Had fun chick! xx
Wibble

14 Apr 2005

I'm sorry but I don't know why your ex behaves the way that he does, I only came in to reflect the sentiments of so many in this thread............
nice tits babe wink

14 Apr 2005

Quote by blissed
Can I have a moan???
I need to moan which is not very often cos I am a gal on the whole.
My bloody ex partner has made me :cry: this morning. I'm sure it is a whole 'control' thing on his part but WHY do they have to do it? He is the only person who can reduce me to a blubbering wreck. I have to say we get on great the majority of the time and his wife is the tops she really is - we all holiday together with the kids and everything. Anyway this is how he left me feeling;
A. A crap mum
B. Useless
C. Dishonest
D. About 5 years old
Anyway that is my moan over - I know I'm not a crap mum, useless, dishonest and my tits tell me I am a good 33 years old. So I am off for a swim (first thoughts were to eat gross amounts of chocolate) and wash that man right out of my hair.
Thanks for letting me share!
Cathy x

Red, there's a little thing I keep coming across in my line of work - IF YOU SPOT IT, YOU GOT IT! If he sees you as useless, dishonest, a bad parent, and exceedingly immature, then it's probably because that's what he doesn't want to face about himself.
And your breasts are, indeed, delicious.
Never thought I'd see that quote on here :!: Read it in my notes only today, he he. How about "name it and claim it" and one I found on the web doing research for my essay (title "Do we ever see another as they really are?") is from Carl Jung: "Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves."
And while I'm at it how about "It is wisdom to know others; It is enlightenment to know one's self." - Lao-Tzu :idea:
Just showing off redface

And finally: "Nice breasts!" - Mark

14 Apr 2005

Ya buggers redface

Gracious thanks to all -
could swear they have perked a little......
dunno if it's the swimming or the thread :twisted:
Mrs WibblyWobbly is a bad influence, daytime drinking tut tut, cider as well.
But we did swim foookin miles wink

Cathy x