Well it is looming fast. It started with hinted fantasy and has now developed into the plunge. We are off to a club as our first venture into live swinging...and I am bloody scared!...excited...but scared!
As a married man of 22 years in my mid 40s how will it be? I am sure Sensual will enjoy it. She has always enjoyed has gone to buy a dress especially today, but will I end up sat there like a gooseberry..watching her have a great time. Will the female half of the other couples take to me? What is the etiquette of approaching people. I would probably sit and wait for a lady to start a conversation...but does that mean I will be sat on my own?
I have read all the rules, etiquette and general advice about agreeing limits etc, but any practical advice for a frightened virgin would be appreciated!
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Bloody Scared!!
It is scary, i agree, but you're also right when u say it's so bloody exciting.
Major piece of advice - just enjoy it.
Make sure you both know what each other's limits are wrt what your partner can do with you (or without you, if you have that agreement) and other people. And stick to those limits unless you both talk and agree to stretch that limit.
Just chill and you'll be fine, first time we went we just played together with other people around playing in the same room, amazing experience.
Whatever happens - enjoy & good luck.
h
Major piece of advice - just enjoy it.
Make sure you both know what each other's limits are wrt what your partner can do with you (or without you, if you have that agreement) and other people. And stick to those limits unless you both talk and agree to stretch that limit.
Just chill and you'll be fine, first time we went we just played together with other people around playing in the same room, amazing experience.
Whatever happens - enjoy & good luck.
h
I went to my first club last saturday and far from being scared, i just loved every moment. I couldnt see the need for clothes within moments of getting in the door.
Having sex in front of strangers and walking round naked just seems such a natural thing to do
I went with a couple but soon made new friends too. i cant wait to go to the next.
Any takers?
Having sex in front of strangers and walking round naked just seems such a natural thing to do
I went with a couple but soon made new friends too. i cant wait to go to the next.
Any takers?
Sex God
Have never been to a club... yet! :scared:
Hope you have a fab time... you will pop in tomorrow and let us know how it goes won't you?! :smile:
Hope you have a fab time... you will pop in tomorrow and let us know how it goes won't you?! :smile:
ive been to a few clubs and really enjoyed it, i didnt get naked in front of anyone i didnt want to and didnt have sex in front of any strangers, you really can make of it what you want strong and sensual.
you can wear lingerie or take your own big towel and there are lockable rooms if you want privacy, hell, you can even stay in the bar area for your first visit if that will make you feel safe, thats what i did!
only do what youre up for at the time and dont feel like you should be writhing round in the orgy room just because youre at a swingers club, at the end of tha day...just remember everyone is there to have a nice time and you wont be the only ones feeling nervous.
have a great time :P
you can wear lingerie or take your own big towel and there are lockable rooms if you want privacy, hell, you can even stay in the bar area for your first visit if that will make you feel safe, thats what i did!
only do what youre up for at the time and dont feel like you should be writhing round in the orgy room just because youre at a swingers club, at the end of tha day...just remember everyone is there to have a nice time and you wont be the only ones feeling nervous.
have a great time :P
