Are you good at them boys and girls ?
How do you know ? because the guy always said it was great, of course we do, how many guys are going to say "hey your really crap at this aren't you" let's be honest guys know that to say that means they are never going to get another one aside from the fact that most of us are actually polite and wouldn't want to offend you.
I am straight so can't reflect much on the gay or bi guys abilities but my experience with women is that almost all of them think they give a great blow job, in reality very few have ever hit the spot to the extent that makes me think "wow" that was fantastic.
I am sure women feel the same about recieving oral but that's for someone else to post a topic about, this is about blow jobs on men.
So why do you all think you give the best ever blow jobs, do you have a trick that tells you exactly how each guy likes it done, like women we differ in our preference, some women like an inserted tongue some like oral only on the clit and so on, well us guys are the same.
For some of us deep throat is the ultimate for others it is manipulation by the tongue on the head for some it is a tongue run along the shaft, I know there are guys who like thier balls sucked during oral and some that don't, the sensative spot between the balls and the anus can drive some guys wild and make some wonder where you went.
So how do you eat yours ? do you try all the methods and gauge the reaction of the guy to see which each partner prefers (that's what I do with new female partners) or do you have a sure and tested method that you think is the only way to go ?
Guys, what do you prefer ?
Is cumming in thier mouth necessary to make it a great blow job or is that a bonus or just something that some do and some don't but doesn't bother you.
Ladies (and guys that give blow jobs) do you like them to cum in your mouth ? tollerate it ? avoid all together ? puke at the thought ? believe it unnecessary ?
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Sex God
never thought of it befor....
can i have yr wife for a hour or so ?
n i start trying out yr idea. :twisted:
:lol:
can i have yr wife for a hour or so ?
n i start trying out yr idea. :twisted:
:lol: If coming is the be all and end all of a BJ then I suppose there can be bad BJ's. Personally I have never failed to enjoy all female oral attention to my member.
The contrast between a good and a mind blowing blow job was once crystalised for me whn being seduced by a newly aquired G/f ...she reclined my car seat(fortunately when we had parked up)and after saying she wouldnt invite me up to her flat as she didnt want to end up in bed with me on the first night then subsequently snogged my face off in a hugely sexual way. Having raised my blood pressure several pounds she slid down and freed my then fully erect cock from my pants and gave me a blow job lastingsome 30 minutes or sp that was hugeley enjoyable to the pint that I never wanted it to end..... but it stopped well short of ever making me come. After 30 minutes she lifted her head and apologised for teasing me all that time.... She then proceeded to take me in her mouth again and give me a bj that literally blew my mind and stopped my legs working for the next hour or so! I was powerless to stop my self from coming and boy how good did that feel.
The contrast between a good and a mind blowing blow job was once crystalised for me whn being seduced by a newly aquired G/f ...she reclined my car seat(fortunately when we had parked up)and after saying she wouldnt invite me up to her flat as she didnt want to end up in bed with me on the first night then subsequently snogged my face off in a hugely sexual way. Having raised my blood pressure several pounds she slid down and freed my then fully erect cock from my pants and gave me a blow job lastingsome 30 minutes or sp that was hugeley enjoyable to the pint that I never wanted it to end..... but it stopped well short of ever making me come. After 30 minutes she lifted her head and apologised for teasing me all that time.... She then proceeded to take me in her mouth again and give me a bj that literally blew my mind and stopped my legs working for the next hour or so! I was powerless to stop my self from coming and boy how good did that feel.
There are blowjobs and blowjobs. It is always easier to ask a lady to do things and encourage her rather than ask/tell her what not to do. For some it is a combination of hand and mouth. Some seem to think they are pumping a bicycle tyre up and forget that lubrication is required just as it is for them. Once you you have the rough treatment and it gets uncomfortable then although you may come in her mouth or not, the ultimate peak of pleasure is gone. For me and I have to thank a very special friend who does this, she takes me in her mouth and very very slowly slides up and down and swirls her tongue around the head. This builds me up to my body literally being rigid and then bursts when I come in her mouth. She does not swallow but is very discreet. There is no way that I or probably many others can achieve the 'toe curling' as we call it pleasure through normal intercourse........not bad for a pensioner (not me)!
Smooth1
Smooth1
Sex God
I like them but I dont seem to get as over enthusiastic as most blokes do about them 
I prefer other kinds of interactions.
I prefer other kinds of interactions. 
Sex God
Am I good at them? Yes. As it happens I'm damned good at them.
I know that cos people have said so.
I think being good at something is often about really enjoying doing it.
I know that cos people have said so.
I think being good at something is often about really enjoying doing it.
Sex God
I've been told I'm 'Great' at them... and I also love giving them. So I guess, practice does make perfect I also like guy's cumming in my mouth. For me it's a great finish to a job 
I also like guy's cumming in my mouth. For me it's a great finish to a job 
Casanova
Quote by foxylady2209
Am I good at them? Yes. As it happens I'm damned good at them.
I know that cos people have said so.
I think being good at something is often about really enjoying doing it.
Hiya tis kinks,
I would have to agree with the above quote. I must say i do really enjoy giving blow jobs. I think a good mixture of techniques, deep throat, teasing and general sexy kinkiness make it more fun and more of a turn on to add to the wow factor rather than same old, same old till jobs done, but i would say that.... they are a turn on for me too!! and well apey never complains........... moans yes lol
Blow jobs are, in my opinion, overrated by most guys. I personally couldn't care less whether a woman wants to take my cock in her mouth. I've had too many blowjobs to count, not all of them good, and from guys as well as girls; you would be astounded at the number of guys who want to suck cocks. I enjoy pleasing a woman and I'm always happy to go down on her....really difficult to know how enjoyable this is for the lady as compared to other means of stimulation, but I think that generally speaking it's well received. If we are to make a scientific study on oral sex, giving and or receiving, I'd happily be a guinea pig.
I love blow jobs but they definitely vary in quality, the pun here is that some women suck at it! My wife does not enjoy giving them but when she does it's rubbish, turns me off more than arouses, too much teeth grating like she won't fully allow my cock in. Some woman try and yank it off thinking it's a race to get you finished. I have some wonderful experiences though, where slow deep oral has taken me to the edge and back, I don't need to cum in a girls mouth but I love it when she asks me too and wants it. The best blow jobs I found are from those females who are prepared to listen. Likewise I am sure the best oral for a woman is when the man listens too.
Sex God
The art of being good at blowjobs, I think, is to be able to adapt your technique to pleasure the person that you are with. Every man is different so if I said "I have this one technique that makes me amazing" I would be full of crap. The only consistency that I have found when asking what a man likes, is that they all like you to be obviously enjoying it. The other specifics have been so varied that I couldn't list them all here.
I believe I am good at them as I've been lucky to have some extremely honest partners and I'm a quick learner Also the fact the Mr Payne tries to put his in my mouth at every opportunity is a bit of a giveaway. (either that, or he is very easily pleased)
I believe I am good at them as I've been lucky to have some extremely honest partners and I'm a quick learner
Also the fact the Mr Payne tries to put his in my mouth at every opportunity is a bit of a giveaway. (either that, or he is very easily pleased) Quote by payne
The art of being good at blowjobs, I think, is to be able to adapt your technique to pleasure the person that you are with. Every man is different so if I said "I have this one technique that makes me amazing" I would be full of crap. The only consistency that I have found when asking what a man likes, is that they all like you to be obviously enjoying it. The other specifics have been so varied that I couldn't list them all here.
I believe I am good at them as I've been lucky to have some extremely honest partners and I'm a quick learner
Could be that he is trying to get a word in edge ways :lol:
Dave_Notts
Sex God
Quote by Dave__Notts
The art of being good at blowjobs, I think, is to be able to adapt your technique to pleasure the person that you are with. Every man is different so if I said "I have this one technique that makes me amazing" I would be full of crap. The only consistency that I have found when asking what a man likes, is that they all like you to be obviously enjoying it. The other specifics have been so varied that I couldn't list them all here.
I believe I am good at them as I've been lucky to have some extremely honest partners and I'm a quick learner
Could be that he is trying to get a word in edge ways :lol:
Dave_Notts
That was naughty! He has plenty of time to put across his opinions.... when I'm asleep! :lol: 
Sex God
different guys like different things
So true, everyone is different.
You cant please all of the people, all of the time!
Sex God
Quote by Bambi
different guys like different things
So true, everyone is different.
You cant please all of the people, all of the time!
I know... but it's fun trying :twisted:
Sex God
Quote by brucie
I know... but it's fun trying :twisted:
try me...
Is that like a 'try before you buy' type offer?
Sex God
Quote by brucie
different guys like different things
So true, everyone is different.
You cant please all of the people, all of the time!
you dont need to hunnie. i told you, as long as brucie is happy the other guys dont matter. capise?
Understood....................over and out!
:lol: 
Warming the Bed
One of my best memories is of going to a naturist afternoon in a club with a pool and garden. We got picked up by a lovely lady with a good-looking husband (a rare combination in our experience). When we got to the stage where limits came into question (we didn't go all the way at that time) I asked her what we should do. Her straight answer was 'you can fuck me or cum in my mouth'. That phrase has stayed branded on my frontal lobes ever since. Ten minutes later I tried to stand up only to find I'd lost control of my legs. Cumming in the lady's mouth is different.
Time for my annual visit to the forum.........
I now consider myself a connoisseur of the old fellatio. So much so that this is the make and break part of play time for me!! I know that its horses for course and each to their own but there are some appalling cock suckers out there.
I have been well and truly spoilt in this department and I have yet to meet a man who doesn't enjoy the attention of my wife when she has her "Gums round their plumbs" many have gone as far as informing their partners with a "Sorry, hun but that was by far the best blow job I have ever had".
So many women apply so little pressure to the little fella that he just falls asleep. The key is about pressure (by actually sucking the feckin thing), rhythm, speed, depth and variations of the 4 combinations. The "deep throat" is nice but it is more of a visual stimulation rather than a physical one as is the "flashing tongue" on your bell end. Great for film not so good in real life.
Another key point is the eyes!!! If a woman looks like she is lusting for your "man goo" then it would be rude not to deliver it! :twisted:
We could go onto the biting, gagging and face fucking but people need to get the basics right before we move onto the advanced stuff!
I now consider myself a connoisseur of the old fellatio. So much so that this is the make and break part of play time for me!! I know that its horses for course and each to their own but there are some appalling cock suckers out there.
I have been well and truly spoilt in this department and I have yet to meet a man who doesn't enjoy the attention of my wife when she has her "Gums round their plumbs" many have gone as far as informing their partners with a "Sorry, hun but that was by far the best blow job I have ever had".
So many women apply so little pressure to the little fella that he just falls asleep. The key is about pressure (by actually sucking the feckin thing), rhythm, speed, depth and variations of the 4 combinations. The "deep throat" is nice but it is more of a visual stimulation rather than a physical one as is the "flashing tongue" on your bell end. Great for film not so good in real life.
Another key point is the eyes!!! If a woman looks like she is lusting for your "man goo" then it would be rude not to deliver it! :twisted:
We could go onto the biting, gagging and face fucking but people need to get the basics right before we move onto the advanced stuff!
Sex God
Quote by twiceasmuchfun
Time for my annual visit to the forum.........
I now consider myself a connoisseur of the old fellatio. So much so that this is the make and break part of play time for me!! I know that its horses for course and each to their own but there are some appalling cock suckers out there.
I have been well and truly spoilt in this department and I have yet to meet a man who doesn't enjoy the attention of my wife when she has her "Gums round their plumbs" many have gone as far as informing their partners with a "Sorry, hun but that was by far the best blow job I have ever had".
So many women apply so little pressure to the little fella that he just falls asleep. The key is about pressure (by actually sucking the feckin thing), rhythm, speed, depth and variations of the 4 combinations. The "deep throat" is nice but it is more of a visual stimulation rather than a physical one as is the "flashing tongue" on your bell end. Great for film not so good in real life.
Another key point is the eyes!!! If a woman looks like she is lusting for your "man goo" then it would be rude not to deliver it! :twisted:
We could go onto the biting, gagging and face fucking but people need to get the basics right before we move onto the advanced stuff!
Awwwwww thanks babe
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