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Got to agree with you adventurer. Have had my time wasted with this person as well. Asked me to send photos so they could recognise me. After that nothing - no reply to e-mails despite asking for a simple yes or no. Not too much to ask now is it?
If you're reading this and thinking of replying I wouldn't bother unless you enjoy having your time wasted.
The guy is bi as well which he doesn't say in his ad !!
If you're reading this and thinking of replying I wouldn't bother unless you enjoy having your time wasted.
The guy is bi as well which he doesn't say in his ad !!
Mod
Being Bi shouldn't be read as something bad or good, just something he is. However, the issue of whether he responds to emails or PM's or sets up meetings and fails to turn up, is. Bobo, perhaps you would like to PM me and defend your corner? Then we can put the record straight.
Mal
Mal
Orgasminator
Quote by bobo
whitly bay
Since when has Whitly Bay been in Newcastl ?
TS
Mod
Hi guys
I have spoken with Bobo and I am happy with his explanation. However, if anyone feels strongly about that, then please PM me with any relevent information.
Mal
I have spoken with Bobo and I am happy with his explanation. However, if anyone feels strongly about that, then please PM me with any relevent information.
Mal
What's the point of PM ing you? You've already made up your mind. Presumably you've never had your time wasted by these people.
As regards sexual orientation: surely letting people know what you're looking for isn't too much to ask, is it? If the guy is straight, bi or whatever that's not a problem but he could let people know beforehand what he is looking for. It will save a lot of people a lot of time as I'm sure he receives a large number of replies.
If you let him continue to post he WILL waste a lot of people's time with his vague adverts which appear once or twice a week.
If bobo disagrees why doesn't he post a response himself? Better still why doesn't he place a useful advert and stop messing people around?
As regards sexual orientation: surely letting people know what you're looking for isn't too much to ask, is it? If the guy is straight, bi or whatever that's not a problem but he could let people know beforehand what he is looking for. It will save a lot of people a lot of time as I'm sure he receives a large number of replies.
If you let him continue to post he WILL waste a lot of people's time with his vague adverts which appear once or twice a week.
If bobo disagrees why doesn't he post a response himself? Better still why doesn't he place a useful advert and stop messing people around?
I receiverd an e-mail direct from Bobo himself asking for a face and cock pic BEFORE they would consider meeting me. Well, I dont know about you guys but I'm not sure abouyt sending face pics to all and sundry and apart from that I have'nt got any cock pics. Anyway why does he want a cock pic if all we are invited to do is watch ?
having discussed this openly in the chat room, I have yet to
come across anyone who has actually met Bobo.
having discussed this openly in the chat room, I have yet to
come across anyone who has actually met Bobo.
On a point raised by TS - Whitley Bay is only 7 miles from Newcastle and the Tyne melds with the North Sea at Tynemouth (get it??). People say 'Newcastle' as it's the nearest easily recognisable main city in the area. Don't think he was meaning to confuse there. There is a big lighthouse (St Mary's) in Whitley Bay too.
As for him not turning up - I have no appropriate opinion on that, but if anyone has firm evidence of him being a persistent timewaster then please PM a mod. But do remember that life sometimes intervenes in frolic.
As for him not turning up - I have no appropriate opinion on that, but if anyone has firm evidence of him being a persistent timewaster then please PM a mod. But do remember that life sometimes intervenes in frolic.
Mod
GrantWhite
Can I just address a few issues you have raised.
First - I gave him the same choice that you had, to pm me with info as to why he shouldn't be banned as a timewaster. He responded to that and has also done so publicly. I don't close my mind to the banning. I did say that if you felt strongly about my decision, then to pm me. You have decided to go public, fair enough. Your choice. so your reply is public.
He asked for pics before meeting, his choice. Remember, they are laying on a show or allowing you to participate, so he gets the choice of who he wants or doesn't want. Just the same as pretty much all the doggers I know. What are you offering him?
You joined the site yesterday and your first post was a winge against Bobo. Your second was to winge at me.
You said he was Bi and should let everyone know in his ad. Try looking back through his previous ads and you would see he normally does.
Other people have responded by email who have seen them out and laying on a show, so they don't post just to get you out there. At least they tell you when they may be out. In most cases, dogging entails sitting around in a car park hoping someone turns up. Who do you blame then as a timewaster?
Your reference to me saying I had already made up my mind is just bollocks. I listened to the complaints about him and contacted him. I listened to what he had to say in his defence. I weighed up both sides of the situation and made a judgement call - no bias whatsoever. I even gave you lot the option of coming back with more information to back up your case, but you didn't bother. So I made a decision based on what was in front of me and acted accordingly. I take it you wouldn't want me to do that for you one day?
I was going to continue, but I think I've said enough. If anyone has anything constructive to say on this, please do. If anyone feels aggrieved at my decision, please feel free to contact me, either in open forum or by PM. I will respond accordingly.
Mal
Can I just address a few issues you have raised.
First - I gave him the same choice that you had, to pm me with info as to why he shouldn't be banned as a timewaster. He responded to that and has also done so publicly. I don't close my mind to the banning. I did say that if you felt strongly about my decision, then to pm me. You have decided to go public, fair enough. Your choice. so your reply is public.
He asked for pics before meeting, his choice. Remember, they are laying on a show or allowing you to participate, so he gets the choice of who he wants or doesn't want. Just the same as pretty much all the doggers I know. What are you offering him?
You joined the site yesterday and your first post was a winge against Bobo. Your second was to winge at me.
You said he was Bi and should let everyone know in his ad. Try looking back through his previous ads and you would see he normally does.
Other people have responded by email who have seen them out and laying on a show, so they don't post just to get you out there. At least they tell you when they may be out. In most cases, dogging entails sitting around in a car park hoping someone turns up. Who do you blame then as a timewaster?
Your reference to me saying I had already made up my mind is just bollocks. I listened to the complaints about him and contacted him. I listened to what he had to say in his defence. I weighed up both sides of the situation and made a judgement call - no bias whatsoever. I even gave you lot the option of coming back with more information to back up your case, but you didn't bother. So I made a decision based on what was in front of me and acted accordingly. I take it you wouldn't want me to do that for you one day?
I was going to continue, but I think I've said enough. If anyone has anything constructive to say on this, please do. If anyone feels aggrieved at my decision, please feel free to contact me, either in open forum or by PM. I will respond accordingly.
Mal
Warming the Bed
Quote by mal609
GrantWhite
Can I just address a few issues you have raised.
First - I gave him the same choice that you had, to pm me with info as to why he shouldn't be banned as a timewaster. He responded to that and has also done so publicly. I don't close my mind to the banning. I did say that if you felt strongly about my decision, then to pm me. You have decided to go public, fair enough. Your choice. so your reply is public.
He asked for pics before meeting, his choice. Remember, they are laying on a show or allowing you to participate, so he gets the choice of who he wants or doesn't want. Just the same as pretty much all the doggers I know. What are you offering him?
You joined the site yesterday and your first post was a winge against Bobo. Your second was to winge at me.
You said he was Bi and should let everyone know in his ad. Try looking back through his previous ads and you would see he normally does.
Other people have responded by email who have seen them out and laying on a show, so they don't post just to get you out there. At least they tell you when they may be out. In most cases, dogging entails sitting around in a car park hoping someone turns up. Who do you blame then as a timewaster?
Your reference to me saying I had already made up my mind is just bollocks. I listened to the complaints about him and contacted him. I listened to what he had to say in his defence. I weighed up both sides of the situation and made a judgement call - no bias whatsoever. I even gave you lot the option of coming back with more information to back up your case, but you didn't bother. So I made a decision based on what was in front of me and acted accordingly. I take it you wouldn't want me to do that for you one day?
I was going to continue, but I think I've said enough. If anyone has anything constructive to say on this, please do. If anyone feels aggrieved at my decision, please feel free to contact me, either in open forum or by PM. I will respond accordingly.
Mal
Well Put, i could'nt have done it better myself
Sex God
I don't know the ins and outs of this situation and I'm on no-ones side - these are just a few observations...
I've no idea whether Bobo has been timewasting or whether he has genuine reasons for not turning up etc. but what I can say is that if I were organising a meet where I was inviting selective guests to either watch or join in with me and my partner, I would want to see pics first. It is not unusual to request both face and/or dick pics before meeting. The fact that bobo is bi is irrelevant. As Mal says, this is just something he is. Guys who do not like the fact that bobo is bi shouldn't contact him with the hope of meeting, it really is as simple as that! My partner and I are both bi but we don't have to be all the time. Bisexuals can control themselves just as well as everyone else you know!
GrantWhite, I have to say you sound like you are here just to be a whinger - I would love you to prove me wrong, but that's how it looks to me.
Mal has this situation well in hand so I'll bow out now - like I said, just making a few observations
I've no idea whether Bobo has been timewasting or whether he has genuine reasons for not turning up etc. but what I can say is that if I were organising a meet where I was inviting selective guests to either watch or join in with me and my partner, I would want to see pics first. It is not unusual to request both face and/or dick pics before meeting. The fact that bobo is bi is irrelevant. As Mal says, this is just something he is. Guys who do not like the fact that bobo is bi shouldn't contact him with the hope of meeting, it really is as simple as that! My partner and I are both bi but we don't have to be all the time. Bisexuals can control themselves just as well as everyone else you know!
GrantWhite, I have to say you sound like you are here just to be a whinger - I would love you to prove me wrong, but that's how it looks to me.
Mal has this situation well in hand so I'll bow out now - like I said, just making a few observations
Orgasminator
Quote by Jags
On a point raised by TS - Whitley Bay is only 7 miles from Newcastle .
Sorry, Jags but when I lived in the area and wanted to meet guys I put the area I was in and not Newcastle.
I lived in Tynemouth, Bladon and Gateshead untill i was in my 20 and Whitley Bay is just up the coast from Tynemouth.
Plus I find when talking on other boards the guy's use the name of the town they are in.
TS
Quote by Twisted - Sister
On a point raised by TS - Whitley Bay is only 7 miles from Newcastle .
Sorry, Jags but when I lived in the area and wanted to meet guys I put the area I was in and not Newcastle.
I lived in Tynemouth, Bladon and Gateshead untill i was in my 20 and Whitley Bay is just up the coast from Tynemouth.
Plus I find when talking on other boards the guy's use the name of the town they are in.
TS
That's OK if you actually know where Whitley Bay is.. I'm not a geordie and it took me a few years to learn the detailed geography of the area. I'm from a town outside Glasgow and almost no-one I know or have met has EVER EVER said they are from it cos most folk haven't heard of it...we always say Weegie!! And for those who may know it's the home town of Jesus Mary Chain....so...I think it is feasible to say Newcastle when he's in Whitley Bay!!
Right - I would like to put the matter straight.
I have just established that I have already met Bobo and his partner once before. They were advertising under a different name in the adverts section.
I met them and enjoyed a great hour or so in their company. So in that respect I must apologise and state that they were genuine.
As to the reason they have not been replying to their recent posts I do not know.
I have e mailed "Bobo" and put the matter straight with them.
I have just established that I have already met Bobo and his partner once before. They were advertising under a different name in the adverts section.
I met them and enjoyed a great hour or so in their company. So in that respect I must apologise and state that they were genuine.
As to the reason they have not been replying to their recent posts I do not know.
I have e mailed "Bobo" and put the matter straight with them.
Mod
Thanks for putting the matter straight. That will certainly help to show they are genuine.
Mal
Mal
Sex God
Alls well that ends well 8)
