Body parts

7 Aug 2006

Now I know that everyone says that women are never happy with their bodies, but I was wondering, :confused2: if you felt that there was a part of your body that was unattractive, would you point it out to a person you were potentially going to play with or leave them to make up their own minds about it? would it depend on whether that body part were crucial to the proceedings or not?
I know that I'm supposed to give you a personal example here redface

, but I'm not asking to know about everyone's body parts just to know what the considered etiquette would be, so I won't :giggle: bolt

Love
Fire x

7 Aug 2006

what is or isnt attractive is in the eyes of the beholder, or at least thats what i beleive and have been told. One mans rubbish is another mans gold and all that pmsl
so let them make their own minds up :thumbup:
Nicky

7 Aug 2006

Oh alright then ffs, lets just say after 5 children I'm a little less elasticated than I once was .....happy now :scared: OMG can't believe I just said that!
Love
Fire x

7 Aug 2006

Nobody has the perfect body. As long as you have the initial attraction, get on with each other then it shouldn't matter. Just get down and have fun passionkiss

7 Aug 2006

Quote by firelizard
Now I know that everyone says that women are never happy with their bodies, but I was wondering, :confused2: if you felt that there was a part of your body that was unattractive,

I know this isn't the main question of the post but I'll have my say I always do lol

It'd be easier to name the parts I'm happy with as most of my body is fooked redface

I'm happy with my build and my arse and if I'm honest chuffed to bits with me cock :lol:
But the rest of me I genuinelly am very concious about and do have a tendency to point my faults out at first sight (i'm sure a certain blonde one will agree that I do). But I guess it's just me being over concious of myself biggrin

7 Aug 2006

xxx

7 Aug 2006

:thrilled: Hey, I'm feeling better already! So the general consensus so far seems to be that it's the person with the offending body part that has more problem with it than anyone else would have. So keep quiet, don't mention it and its not an issue? .........................so now I've advertised the fact that I have a less than taut undercarriage all over SH cafe when I did'nt need to :taz:
Fire xx

7 Aug 2006

Quote by AndyNudeUK
Nobody has the perfect body. As long as you have the initial attraction, get on with each other then it shouldn't matter. Just get down and have fun

I agree with you Andy, everyone's got their own ideal. I admit that I am far from perfect (by a long way rolleyes

) but at the end of the day I'm not the sort of person who tells others what they should think of me - hopefully they can make their own minds up and whether they're attracted or not! biggrin

And I would advise others to do the same! :D :D

7 Aug 2006

Quote by firelizard
.........................so now I've advertised the fact that I have a less than taut undercarriage all over SH cafe when I did'nt need to :taz:
Fire xx

Looks fine from where i'm sitting kiss

7 Aug 2006

Quote by sheddy
.........................so now I've advertised the fact that I have a less than taut undercarriage all over SH cafe when I did'nt need to :taz:
Fire xx

Looks fine from where i'm sitting kiss

I don't mean to perv (least I have a vaguely valid reson this time rotflmao

), but I have to agree with you there sheddy! biggrin

Nothing to worry about cool

7 Aug 2006

Just like my ass. The rest well my legs are spindly, my feet are small ( yes yes i know lol

) my arms are as spindly as my legs and i don't like mey stomach.
Hence the reason my ass is one off my avatars.

7 Aug 2006

Quote by firelizard
Oh alright then ffs, lets just say after 5 children I'm a little less elasticated than I once was .....happy now :scared: OMG can't believe I just said that!
Love
Fire x

I can sooooooooo relate to that!
I havent had five children tho.. confused

I keep telling people Im gonna have my V tightened..... and if I had the money I would too! I think :?:
xanaisx

7 Aug 2006

I really hate the fact that I have a bit of a belly now as I have always been slim up until the past couple of years. I know what I need to do to get rid of it though so only I can make myself feel better about it smile

Anyone want to offer hours and hours and hours of sex to help me work it off? :rascal:

7 Aug 2006

I have lots of parts of my body that I dont like but after reading a previous thread about a mans desire being related to his hunger I just dont go on dinner dates!!

7 Aug 2006

Quote by Abilene
I have lots of parts of my body that I dont like but after reading a previous thread about a mans desire being related to his hunger I just dont go on dinner dates!!

Tried to read that a few times i just can't get my head round it. rolleyes

7 Aug 2006

Hey fire just perved your pics and all i can say is wow,wish i looked like you after 5 kids silly

hwoar: all i can say is i have 5 kids and i rekon now they must all have been twins, the other 5 must still be in there some where dunno

Nicky

7 Aug 2006

Sorry to dispute your view of yourself Fire, but I'm guessing you're actually looking for some (probably deserved) reassurance.
Looking at your photos I'm pretty sure that any woman who's only had one child would envy you your body. Your boobs are beauties, and there's no tummy to speak of. So what if you don't have the vagina of an 18 year old.... that's all part of the experience of life. Lets face it, if you could turn back the clock, would it stop you having the kids? I doubt it. Anyway, it just means you have to look for more well endowed men lol

As for me... I'm old, bald, and getting a bit wide round the middle, but I prefer to accentuate the positives. I have a beautiful wife and kids who I love dearly and I have a great circle of close friends. What could be bad enough to offset that?

7 Aug 2006

I dont care what a persons body looks like
But Goose u do have a lovely bum
candjnwuk

8 Aug 2006

well, personally, i like my body, i like how it feels and responds...the only time i hate being fat is when im clothes shopping! mad

in terms of other peoples bodys, if im liking you enough to be getting naked with you then i will accept whatever i find......hairy shoulders, spotty backs, wobbly bellies, knobbly knees.......in the grand scheme of things thers more to it than simple aestethics......if there wasnt then i would never get laid lol

8 Aug 2006

Quote by firelizard
if you felt that there was a part of your body that was unattractive, would you point it out to a person you were potentially going to play with

I'd be there all day pointing out this and that.. sad

8 Aug 2006

Quote by firelizard
if you felt that there was a part of your body that was unattractive, would you point it out to a person you were potentially going to play with

Have done, yes.
Having said that, the people I/we have played with, have all met me/us before deciding whether they want to play, so often there's no need to point anything out - they've seen it already (with clothes on, obviously).

8 Aug 2006

Being in a relationship with someone who u feel is perfect, bodywise, has its draw-backs.
I'm about to have my second date with a fella who, I feel, is much more attractive than I am - and it's making me feel insecure and "grateful" that he's seeing me - NOT a sign of a healthy relationship!
I've been out with a balding, stout shortish chap - and he was one SEXY guy!

8 Aug 2006

Quote by Cherrytree
Being in a relationship with someone who u feel is perfect, bodywise, has its draw-backs.
I'm about to have my second date with a fella who, I feel, is much more attractive than I am - and it's making me feel insecure and "grateful" that he's seeing me - NOT a sign of a healthy relationship!
I've been out with a balding, stout shortish chap - and he was one SEXY guy!

Same here but i feel all the women i been out with are more attractive than i feel. I thought that was normal but maybe wrong.
Nice shoes btw lol

8 Aug 2006

Quote by goose35
Nice shoes btw

Thanks!

8 Aug 2006

Quote by goose35
Nice shoes btw

What a surprise Goose! :lol:
I was going to buy you something spectacular and expensive for Christmas but I'm starting to think you would be happier with a pair of high heels! :giggle:
wink

8 Aug 2006

Quote by Kiss_Me
Nice shoes btw

What a surprise Goose! :lol:
I was going to buy you something spectacular and expensive for Christmas but I'm starting to think you would be happier with a pair of high heels! :giggle:
wink

Maybe just a catalogue rolleyes

:roll:

8 Aug 2006

Quote by Cherrytree
I've been out with a balding, stout shortish chap - and he was one SEXY guy!

I missed this bit innocent

Sorry hijack done

8 Aug 2006

I've got bits of me that I don't like, as we all do but I wouldn't mention them unless it was to have some impact on the event itself.
Superfast Fixodent - check
Spare clips for the wig - check
Glass eye in the right way round - check
Extra screws for the wooden leg - check
:thumbup:

8 Aug 2006

its not that I don`t like any particular part of my body it just that.........well.....I prefer a darkened room........or everyone to be wearing a blindfold

8 Aug 2006

Just wanted to say thanks for all the varied replies to this. It has altered my thinking slightly and made me feel abit more confident.
:rose: so ta very much!!
Love
Fire x