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Bondage - Loving It or Hating It?

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Bondage YES
pain NO
do i make myself clear??????????????????????????????????
I actually like a bit of pain.......whipping is fantastic as I first found out at the Sex Maniacs Ball (thanks WBB for looking out for me kiss)......now I love it as hard as possible and for ages until I'm red raw.....yummy.....
Well I'm a bit of a wimp so I'm not all for lots of pain althogh I do love bondage. I like being ordered around in a similar manner to which MISSCHIEF referred to. Tied up etc.
Being blindfolded is the best part I think cause you cant see what they are gonna do next :grin:
Quote by MISSCHIEF
I've gone all unnecessary now :shock: This thread has left me all of a fluster cool

Me too Misschief! :shock: Thinking back to being tied to the bedposts and blindfolded........ Time for me to invest in some more silk scarves and a decent blindfold I think 8-) 8-) :twisted:
oh damn yeah it's not so bad at all!
i'm a bit limited on this one . . . working on it tho! anyone who knows me knows dom just ain't me, and i struggle with it, so i've always been the one to get tied up! which is no bad thing! biggrin
being cuffed up and blindfolded, not knowing what's coming next, knowing there's just nothing you can do but take what happens as it comes. being completely submissive and giving your control of your body away for someone elses pleasure. being desperate to get your hands on them and it being denied. being teased and tempted. being played with. being stroked one minute and whipped the next. being offered someone elses body all on their terms. it's a very different kind of sex when a man can play the passive role for a change.
i love the marks afterwards when the cuffs come off, or the welts from a whip. it's just so erotic seeing the bruises sat at work or whatever the next day. it all comes back just rubbing them.
stop it i'll need a lie down soon . . . .
n x x x ;)
Quote by neilinleeds
oh damn yeah it's not so bad at all!
i'm a bit limited on this one . . . working on it tho! anyone who knows me knows dom just ain't me, and i struggle with it, so i've always been the one to get tied up! which is no bad thing! biggrin
being cuffed up and blindfolded, not knowing what's coming next, knowing there's just nothing you can do but take what happens as it comes. being completely submissive and giving your control of your body away for someone elses pleasure. being desperate to get your hands on them and it being denied. being teased and tempted. being played with. being stroked one minute and whipped the next. being offered someone elses body all on their terms. it's a very different kind of sex when a man can play the passive role for a change.
i love the marks afterwards when the cuffs come off, or the welts from a whip. it's just so erotic seeing the bruises sat at work or whatever the next day. it all comes back just rubbing them.
stop it i'll need a lie down soon . . . .
n x x x ;)

It's getting hot in here ya bugger :twisted:
I like light bondage ..biggrinont mind a bit of smackbottom I would love to try the nipple clamps.. the only ones I have seen are in the ann summer sure if I fancy those ones in particular rolleyes :roll:
Lucy
Love it all (except handcuffs - they terrify me!)
I'm mainly domme but do have a sub side which I'd love to explore more with the right person.
I love going to monthly fetish nights and the whole atmosphere is fantastic
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great thread. Nearly missed it....
I think bondage is the bees' knees and there is nothing I like more than being tied up and blindfolded by a sexy man. There is nothing better.
For me it is the ultimate . I love to be totally submissive and abused
(PAIN IS GOOOOOD), taken quite brutally.
I will say though, it is rare , very rare, that i find a guy who can satisfy that particular, burning desire. Most are afraid they will hurt me but I am stronger than I look. :twisted:
It is possible, they are out there...but please NO PMs from horny doms who think I want to be abused by any old swinger. I have found a suitable specimen. And speak to you with an arse that looks like a traincrash :moon:
Ow.
lol :lol: :lol:
The power
Quote by neilinleeds
oh damn yeah it's not so bad at all!
i'm a bit limited on this one . . . working on it tho! anyone who knows me knows dom just ain't me, and i struggle with it, so i've always been the one to get tied up! which is no bad thing! biggrin
being cuffed up and blindfolded, not knowing what's coming next, knowing there's just nothing you can do but take what happens as it comes. being completely submissive and giving your control of your body away for someone elses pleasure. being desperate to get your hands on them and it being denied. being teased and tempted. being played with. being stroked one minute and whipped the next. being offered someone elses body all on their terms. it's a very different kind of sex when a man can play the passive role for a change.
i love the marks afterwards when the cuffs come off, or the welts from a whip. it's just so erotic seeing the bruises sat at work or whatever the next day. it all comes back just rubbing them.
stop it i'll need a lie down soon . . . .
n x x x ;)

nows the time i wish i'd decorated the bathroom in stead of the kitchen ... might be able to go and get a cold shower!!!!
I love bondage! :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
I find I am quite good as a dom and also enjoy subbing too.
I love to tease and tell him what to do, to deny what he wants, keeping on the brink for ages.... tied down... looking deep into their eyes knowing they want to touch and feel you but you won't let them just yet! mmmmmmm I love it! :twisted:
Blindfolded, tied and teased, mabye with a satin ribbon, a feather or a whip tail...... mmmmmm....... :twisted:
I love it when I am told to take my punishment too. Bent over or tied down while I take the riding crop or paddle........ makes me so horny! :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Being all tied up, not being able to move, to have to put 100% trust in the other person, hightened senses to everything....... soooo erotic........
Omg! Such a good job it's friday tomorrow! :P
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It is possible, they are out there...but please NO PMs from horny doms who think I want to be abused by any old swinger. I have found a suitable specimen. And speak to you with an arse that looks like a traincrash :moon:
Ow.
lol :lol: :lol:
a traincrash ouch...bet his hand killed in the morning :shock:
The power
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redface

wey hey get ya coat ! whip smackbottom
always willing to explore new things
If anyone is interested in attending a rope workshop in January in Brum, please pm me and I'll pass on the details to you or give a link to where you can find out more information.
The last workshop they held was well attended. Its for people to come together to learn rope bondage in a safe envirnoment, with peoples from all levels. It is run by experienced people......
xanaisx
I just knew I shouldn't have read this thread.... too many sexy posts (mentioning no names).... looks like I just set myself up for for a bit of virtual denial. :cry:
virtual denial........ mmmmm..... that's almost like cyber bondage...... lol
I am way too horny for my own good right now! redface trying to save myself for tomorrow! :shock: 'tis not good! :shock:
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I like light bondage ..biggrinont mind a bit of smackbottom I would love to try the nipple clamps.. the only ones I have seen are in the ann summer sure if I fancy those ones in particular rolleyes :roll:
Lucy

Before you buy the nipple clamps, try clothes pegs, they do as good if not better job. Personallly i p refer the wooden ones and you can yse them in another place besides your nipples!!!
wooden clothes pegs are the best! I love them! redface the next best ones are the plastic coloured ones....... surprisedops:
and yes, they do go anywhere, don't they! :P
Pegs? Dont know what you're talking about rolleyes :roll: :roll:
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Pegs? Dont know what you're talking about rolleyes :roll: :roll:
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Clothes pegs, those things we used to use to peg out washing b4 tumble driers came along to shrink everything!!!
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Pegs? Dont know what you're talking about rolleyes :roll: :roll:
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Clothes pegs, those things we used to use to peg out washing b4 tumble driers came along to shrink everything!!!
I was being sarcastic! I have been known to use the odd professional-strength bulldog clip, myself...and find the plastic pegs are less slippery than wooden ones down below lol lol
Plastic clothes pegs are the best.......not too hard or too soft....
Having them whipped off your nipples is HOT though... :twisted:
Ive gone all unneccessary now after reading this thread,me thinks ive got a few ides for Steves Birthday :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Am I the only person here who has no inclinations whatsoever in the area of bondage?
Mike.
Quote by DreamerHelen
Plastic clothes pegs are the best.......not too hard or too soft....
Having them whipped off your nipples is HOT though... :twisted:

Those little hair clamps - the ones you need to squeeze together to open? redface
lol :lol:
Quote by midlandsman1970
BONDAGE bring it on !! :twisted:

Exactly midlandsman. Yes to any of the above rolleyes
Dawn :silly:
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Am I the only person here who has no inclinations whatsoever in the area of bondage?
Mike.

Yes :twisted:
Quote by MikeNorth
Am I the only person here who has no inclinations whatsoever in the area of bondage?
Mike.
lol :lol: :lol: I was just thinking the same thing! Kit and I have tried it 3 times, it freaked me out completly, - I shall keep trying though, and I must be getting better because I managed OK when Jags slapped the handcuffs on me. cool - I am so glad she did not think to bring her black rope though! :shock:
lhk
Kat