Bondage - Loving It or Hating It?

25 Nov 2004

I had my first ever bondage session a couple of weeks ago and absolutely loved it.....it was so horny pretty much being at the mercy of someone else (someone I totally trust by the way)......and I had amazing fun.
So what I was wondering was...... is bondage sexy? Do you like doing it or having it done to you? If so, what do you like about it? Favourite positions?
My favourite position is being tied up with my hands behind my back and having my breasts roped up too.....very very horny :twisted:
And I wouldn't do it to someone else, would only ever have it done to me by a man......unless it was a woman, I'd tie another woman up..... wink

25 Nov 2004

OoOOooooh Helen .. don't get me started ;) I adore bondage :twisted:
The senses are heightened, the feeling of total submission and trust.
We have a number of toys for bondage here but I am very intrigued by rope bondage ..

25 Nov 2004

Is this were I can remind you of my black rope??
wink

25 Nov 2004

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Oh yes please!!!!!
Favourite position has to be good old spead eagled and blindfolded!!!
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Oh Ive got all excited just at the thought of it!!!

25 Nov 2004

Yes it was rope that tied me up.......left me with rope marks, but I liked that......it was so horny when he rolled me over and whipped my arse with a whip that we had both chosen from a sex shop together.... :twisted:

25 Nov 2004

Quote by foxylady 123
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Oh yes please!!!!!
Favourite position has to be good old spead eagled and blindfolded!!!
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Oh Ive got all excited just at the thought of it!!!

You'd like the new spreader bars we just invested in then :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

25 Nov 2004

Quote by Calista
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Oh yes please!!!!!
Favourite position has to be good old spead eagled and blindfolded!!!
:happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy:
Oh Ive got all excited just at the thought of it!!!

You'd like the new spreader bars we just invested in then :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Mmmmmm don't get me started Calista..... wink

25 Nov 2004

I'm a bit squeamish I guess. Never used anything more menacing than silk scarves to tie a lady up. Symbolic bondage kinda works for me but I draw the line at actual physical damage, and if I were to leave a mark like a rope burn I would just freak. :shock:

25 Nov 2004

Yes, it is very sexy being at the mercy of another.
The spreader bar is sooooooo good. :twisted:
Clamps are a no no for me though, i find them so painful.
Gill x

25 Nov 2004

Quote by Ice Pie
I'm a bit squeamish I guess. Never used anything more menacing than silk scarves to tie a lady up. Symbolic bondage kinda works for me but I draw the line at actual physical damage, and if I were to leave a mark like a rope burn I would just freak. :shock:

I actually love having marks on me, it really turns me on to look afterwards and see marks.....nothing serious though, I mean rope burns and lovebites and whip marks are the most I would accept.....

25 Nov 2004

Quote by dundeecpl
Yes, it is very sexy being at the mercy of another.
The spreader bar is sooooooo good. :twisted:
Clamps are a no no for me though, i find them so painful.
Gill x

I can't get clamps that fit my nipples (they aren't that big at all either!) prefer the clothes peg route personally ;)

25 Nov 2004

No, I don't want any marks on the bloke!!! Had a guy once who liked being splattered with hot wax :shock: I felt a tad squeamish about that one.
Symbolic tying up is good - the black rope is never pulled too tight - it just looks SO good on skin. Mental bondage is just as powerful as physical bondage.
redface

:P

25 Nov 2004

Quote by Calista
Yes, it is very sexy being at the mercy of another.
The spreader bar is sooooooo good. :twisted:
Clamps are a no no for me though, i find them so painful.
Gill x

I can't get clamps that fit my nipples (they aren't that big at all either!) prefer the clothes peg route personally ;)
OUCH, brings tears to my eyes just remembering the time i gave it a try. I do have fairly large nips and the clamps that were used were extra strong i am sure.
The marks left by ropes, straps etc is very erotic. Has to be done by someone who knows what they are doing though.
Gill x

25 Nov 2004

Yes I agree Gill......it DOES have to be done by someone who knows exactly what they're doing....fortunately this guy I was with knows exactly what he's doing...... :twisted:

25 Nov 2004

OMG I love bondage :bounce: .............. hate the pain thing tho :shock:
Love the restriction of it all. Only trouble is, that the couple of times I have indulged, the bloke has always been a bit worried about hurting and never tied the ties properly. I want it so I really am secured, so I can't get out of it whatever I try and do, where that 'safe word' really is a necessary part of the set up cool

As for the spreader bars ............. I am soooooooooo jealous!!!!!! Would just love to try them!! :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Also, would love to do the tying - that would have to involve one hell of a lot of trust from me tho, cos I'm not a naturally dominant person - and would feel a right berk if it wasn't with the right person......... to the point where I even cringe if I start imagining myself in domme mode :shock:
I'm a clumsy mare too, so essential I do it with the right person, a v. patient one for a start :lol2:
As well as bondage, love the talk, someone giving the orders ........ not in a bossy way tho :shock: bossy would just bring my heckles up..... In a firm, confident, horny way - at the same time quite gentle - hmmm difficult to explain.
Ooooooooh I just love the whole bondage thing :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:

25 Nov 2004

I mark very easily and can have bruises and marks on me for days even if no pain has been inflicted. This can be good at time as such a physical reaction is good. But bad if you are meeting someone else later in the week (or day redface

) But the effect does depend on who has left the marks. I recently had some crop marks which I would sneak off to look at in the mirror all the time!
I love rope. I love shibari and ritualistic binding which I think is beautiful. I have some different coloured and textured ropes which I love. The red and black together look really good. Shinju and breast binding are my fav things.
I would hate being bound if it was untidy or messy or knots that were not aesthetically pleasing - I'd be very distressed.

25 Nov 2004

I like the domme part lol

but sometimes want to be looked after too cos it's always the person being 'sub' who gets all the attention. I like marks (where they can't be seen in normal life) and, depending where they are) like the feeling of 'bruised' they give me - if I press the marked part I can 'feel' the scene and enjoy it once more.
Hope that makes sense?????
:P

25 Nov 2004

Quote by MISSCHIEF
OMG I love bondage :bounce: .............. hate the pain thing tho :shock:
Love the restriction of it all. Only trouble is, that the couple of times I have indulged, the bloke has always been a bit worried about hurting and never tied the ties properly. I want it so I really am secured, so I can't get out of it whatever I try and do, where that 'safe word' really is a necessary part of the set up
As for the spreader bars ............. I am soooooooooo jealous!!!!!! Would just love to try them!! :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Also, would love to do the tying - that would have to involve one hell of a lot of trust from me tho, cos I'm not a naturally dominant person - and would feel a right berk if it wasn't with the right person......... to the point where I even cringe if I start imagining myself in domme mode :shock:
I'm a clumsy mare too, so essential I do it with the right person, a v. patient one for a start :lol2:
As well as bondage, love the talk, someone giving the orders ........ not in a bossy way tho :shock: bossy would just bring my heckles up..... In a firm, confident, horny way - at the same time quite gentle - hmmm difficult to explain.
Ooooooooh I just love the whole bondage thing :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:

Safe words are a must no matter who you are playing with.
As for feeling a berk, no need to if you are only doing it all for fun.
I can understand what you are saying about doing it in a horny way without being bossy, it is easy to do if you keep thinking of it as fun and a laugh and also with someone you totally trust and has trust in you.
G x

25 Nov 2004

Quote by Jags
I like the domme part but sometimes want to be looked after too cos it's always the person being 'sub' who gets all the attention. I like marks (where they can't be seen in normal life) and, depending where they are) like the feeling of 'bruised' they give me - if I press the marked part I can 'feel' the scene and enjoy it once more.
Hope that makes sense?????
:P

God this thread is doing nothing to stop me feeling horny at all neutral

I can very very much relate to what you have written Jags :twisted: :twisted:

25 Nov 2004

A bit of soft bondage is fine........just to the point of kinkiness....but no pain thankyou very much!

25 Nov 2004

Quote by Calista
I like the domme part but sometimes want to be looked after too cos it's always the person being 'sub' who gets all the attention. I like marks (where they can't be seen in normal life) and, depending where they are) like the feeling of 'bruised' they give me - if I press the marked part I can 'feel' the scene and enjoy it once more.
Hope that makes sense?????
:P

God this thread is doing nothing to stop me feeling horny at all neutral

I can very very much relate to what you have written Jags :twisted: :twisted:
Thanks!! kiss

I had a slight sensation of being more odd than usual there. :shock:
:P

25 Nov 2004

Quote by MISSCHIEF
As well as bondage, love the talk, someone giving the orders ........ not in a bossy way tho :shock: bossy would just bring my heckles up..... In a firm, confident, horny way - at the same time quite gentle - hmmm difficult to explain.

Well Missy lets see what we can do for you tonight!.....now be a good girl and lay down for me!......................thats a good girl!.....................now let me slip these over your hands upps they have just locked!......its OK i will be gentel!.....................now lets see your legs oooooooooooo they do look nice mmmmmmmmmmm now bend over and on your front babes and i shell ......................and the next part is :twisted: :twisted:

25 Nov 2004

Quote by Debbiewebs
Well Missy lets see what we can do for you tonight!.....now be a good girl and lay down for me!......................thats a good girl!.....................now let me slip these over your hands upps they have just locked!......its OK i will be gentel!.....................now lets see your legs oooooooooooo they do look nice mmmmmmmmmmm now bend over and on your front babes and i shell ......................and the next part is

Wooooooohooooooooo Debbiewebs! :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: That wasn't bossy at all passionkiss

............ shame about the :rotflmao: at the end you moo!!!!!! smackbottom

I've gone all unnecessary now :shock: This thread has left me all of a fluster cool

25 Nov 2004

Quote by Jags
I like the domme part but sometimes want to be looked after too cos it's always the person being 'sub' who gets all the attention

Oh yes as a bottom its all about me me me me me me - everything that happens is because of me me me me me.

Quote by Jags
I had a slight sensation of being more odd than usual there. :shock:

Definately not!

25 Nov 2004

Quote by MISSCHIEF
Well Missy lets see what we can do for you tonight!.....now be a good girl and lay down for me!......................thats a good girl!.....................now let me slip these over your hands upps they have just locked!......its OK i will be gentel!.....................now lets see your legs oooooooooooo they do look nice mmmmmmmmmmm now bend over and on your front babes and i shell ......................and the next part is :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

Wooooooohooooooooo Debbiewebs! :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: That wasn't bossy at all passionkiss

............ shame about the

at the end you moo!!!!!! smackbottom

I've gone all unnecessary now :shock: This thread has left me all of a fluster cool

what :rotflmao: i cannot see one!.......ooooooo missy must be your fluster! rolleyes

Flusters have been known to do all kind of srtange thing to the mind :roll:

25 Nov 2004

I like my arms being held/tied down and I like a little bit of pain, a couple of slaps on my bum but not too much! I like the idea of blindfolding but I think I would feel very nervous if I did it.
I'm sure after Saturday night I will look at everything in a new light and feel I was very naive before lol

:lol:

25 Nov 2004

I've never had the opportunity to try. Not yet at least, any way.

25 Nov 2004

Quote by MQ
I like my arms being held/tied down and I like a little bit of pain, a couple of slaps on my bum but not too much! I like the idea of blindfolding but I think I would feel very nervous if I did it.
I'm sure after Saturday night I will look at everything in a new light and feel I was very naive before :lol:

A blindfold enhances the whole esperience, its the thing about not knowing what the other person(s) are doing.
Also when one sense is closed off the others become hightened!!

25 Nov 2004

We love a bit of bondage, got a few bits and pieces - hand cuffs, leg restraints and blindfold. Brought some bondage tape eventually as got fed up of N ripping the carpet tape off me ouch!
F

25 Nov 2004

Quote by nealfiona
We love a bit of bondage, got a few bits and pieces - hand cuffs, leg restraints and blindfold. Brought some bondage tape eventually as got fed up of N ripping the carpet tape off me ouch!
F

My kids once bought my roll of bondage tape downstairs complaining that it wasn't sticky redface

ops: :oops: :oops: :oops: :oops: :oops: must have forgotten to put it away :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: