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A conversation has got me thinking...
Exactly what is it about breasts that turns (some) people on?
Now I'm not complaining wink because I do alright thanks to a few artfully taken boob pics on my profile :rascal: but I really don't quite 'get' the obsession that some people have.
I'm sure Freud et al would give me some high falutin' psychoanalysis type of answer, but I'm not sure I buy all that. I reckon the good folk of SH are better placed to tell me!
Boobs: what're your thoughts on the subject?
not just the boobs but the female form.
a smile and eyes do it for me but ok im a man and will admit to liking a nice pair of boobs (nola take note).
you see guys lusting after big pairs but i guess thats just the way of the world.
each body is different and no two pair are the same.
my eyes are not drawn to them first like i smile and eyes do it for me and when you look at a woman usually everything is the correct size and shape for that body.
some people ruin themselves with boob jobs and other cosmetic surgery as mostly its a confidence thing and the reason they have it done in the first place.
stay as you are girls. your lovely.
Note taken Mr tyracer, sir wink
But yes, I get the whole female form, curves etc thing. I think what I don't get is the fact that some guys (because the original convo that sparked the thread was with a guy, I apologise for generalising a tad!) will overlook other stuff "as long as she's got a cracking pair" and yes, that's what I was told.
That's what I meant: what is it about boobs for some that make them *such* a turn on? I mean I like cocks... but not so much that I would be interested in a guy purely for his handsome penis :wink:
I do agree boobs are best natural. They tend to fit the body. As for why I find them attractive; who knows? Perhaps it is something ladies have and I enjoy ladies.
On the other hand boobs are not the most attractive thing about a lady. A smile, a laugh and willingness, however I do have to admit a pretty figure is what catches my eye. May be that’s why I like the chat rooms, it’s the person that I notice.
its because the boobs are 'out there' in front and grabs the attention.
little boys look over dads shoulder at page 3 so it begins learn.
but i know there is much more to a woman than that.
as you said,curves etc. and some will be excited by the legs.
oh but,aren't they soooooooooo nice????????????
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oh but,aren't they soooooooooo nice????????????

anne in your case.
i agree wink
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I like em.

"Snap"
I like little ones best....I think, but I especially like those which are really sensitive to the lover's touch and lips. Guess that makes me fairly ordinary.
Although I am approximately 93.7% straight, lol I can still appreciate some nice boobage ... and a nice arse.
I'm not sure why, I guess it's cos they say "woman" and the curves are appealing to the eye. Not too big, not too small and nicely rounded.
Unfortunately, mine don't seem to be wired up correctly, I like them to be appreciated but don't get much of a turn on from them. :sad:
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Unfortunately, mine don't seem to be wired up correctly, I like them to be appreciated but don't get much of a turn on from them. :sad:

:thumbup: I have that problem too. They have to *really* be worked into a state of sensitivity. Although, to be fair, the working them is a bit pleasurable too wink
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Unfortunately, mine don't seem to be wired up correctly, I like them to be appreciated but don't get much of a turn on from them. :sad:

:thumbup: I have that problem too. They have to *really* be worked into a state of sensitivity. Although, to be fair, the working them is a bit pleasurable too wink
im writing all this down :small-print:
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Exactly what is it about breasts that turns (some) people on?

I thought it could be the cleavage - so I looked into it sillyhwoar:
I remember that time at school, 13 or 14, just starting to really notice girls and the growing lust coincided with growing boobage. The two things have been extricabley linked ever since.
I wouldn't say I'm booby centric but I definitely enjoy getting my dirty little paws on a pretty pair - which to me could be big or small wink
There is no doubt that around the town a nice cleavage will always draw my admiration, but when it gets down to actually playing with them I prefer 34's, upto 36 if the cup is C maybe a D at a push, enhanced boobs turn me off unless they are only enhanced upto a C cup preferably a B as then they still look and feel natural.
My favourite boobs are the ones I have in my hand, anytime, anyone lol
I love boobs smile thats the joy of having some of your own :rascal: and being able to play with other peoples too , there is some sort of softness you get from feeling another ladys other than your own , mind you both have there advantages sillyhwoar:
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I love boobs smile thats the joy of having some of your own :rascal: and being able to play with other peoples too , there is some sort of softness you get from feeling another ladys other than your own , mind you both have there advantages sillyhwoar:

see you wait long enough and a right boob comes along.
just like a bus lol
Nice sized ones will do me lol :lol:
From what I remember I like all shapes and sizes :-)
I can explain this.
Boobs are awesome.
Done.
Boobs mmmmmm
Just a part of the complete make up of the utterly wonderful female form.
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A conversation has got me thinking...
Exactly what is it about breasts that turns (some) people on?
Now I'm not complaining wink because I do alright thanks to a few artfully taken boob pics on my profile :rascal: but I really don't quite 'get' the obsession that some people have.
I'm sure Freud et al would give me some high falutin' psychoanalysis type of answer, but I'm not sure I buy all that. I reckon the good folk of SH are better placed to tell me!
Boobs: what're your thoughts on the subject?

I love having my nipples bitten and teased so maybe its just that a a bloke I automatically think everyone is as sensitive and therefor I love boobs as a turn on. sam
I love boobs and am very lucky that Mrs Livelife has 32E's however for me its more about the shape of the boobs that the size! Also I am more into female bums! A nice bubble butt gets me every time :-)
Well I have some :lol2:
I have to admit that I like the soft skin on my boobies confused
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Well I have some :lol2:
I have to admit that I like the soft skin on my boobies confused

You have boobies too as well as a pert arse Dawnie?! dunno lol
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Well I have some :lol2:
I have to admit that I like the soft skin on my boobies confused

You have boobies too as well as a pert arse Dawnie?! dunno lol
I'm not pert anywhere :lol2:
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Well I have some :lol2:
I have to admit that I like the soft skin on my boobies confused

You have boobies too as well as a pert arse Dawnie?! dunno lol
I'm not pert anywhere :lol2:
But your boobies are very mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm innocent
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Well I have some :lol2:
I have to admit that I like the soft skin on my boobies confused

You have boobies too as well as a pert arse Dawnie?! dunno lol
I'm not pert anywhere :lol2:
But your boobies are very mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm innocent
:lol2: You are not supposed to know young lady :lol2:
I have a friend who is a total boob-man and even he can't explain it to me.
Maybe it's 'cos it's the first sign of sexual maturity that boys notice and for some, it just sticks in their mind? Yeah, sure Freud has some maternal thing going on, comfort, safety blah blah ... dunno ... it's all guesswork.
Personally, very happy with my lot. Don't want them any bigger or smaller but now I'm getting on a bit, I wouldn't mind if they were a bit more perky!
I used to hate having big(ish) boobs then I lost loads of weight, went to a size 6 and all of a sudden had a flat chest and then decided I missed them as I didn't feel so feminine anymore. Then I put a little weight back on and now I'm a size 10 my boobs are back to a 34F which is just fine! When I was slimmer I considered getting a boob job but I am glad I didn't as a friend of mine had hers done and regrets it and there's nothing she can do about it now!
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I guess it's cos they say "woman"

:thumbup: Just that. Secondary sexual characteristics are much more important we are talking about visual attraction - most gender constructions that we learn to recognise as appealing or sexually arousing are based on fashioning those secondary characteristics.
Freudian psychology may say we have a fixation on breasts because so many of us are stuck in the oral phase, but there's also an evolutionary theory that suggests boob cleavage has substituted butt cleavage as visual attraction in the upright human.
Personally I also used to be obsessed with breasts, both my own and others', but six years of breastfeeding and being around other women that did the same has cured me of it. I think there is a lot of anxiety and hunger surrounding boobs, not unlike male genitalia.
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will overlook other stuff "as long as she's got a cracking pair" and yes, that's what I was told.

nola this really is objectification at its most powerful. I'd say anybody who would be happy to do this has a fetish rather than a mere fixation.