Hey all, I'm brand new to this and looking to build a responsible, trusted yet sexy as hell profile. Best advice for getting to know people, phrasing messages, basically an ABC of how swinging scene works!!
Hope you can all help!
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Master of Sex
welcome! Your profile looks good 
Only tip I can give (from personally having been contacted by a number of single guys), don't send generic messages! It's always obvious it is one.
Makes a massive difference when the recipient can see you've actually read their profile properly and made a bit of an effort :)
Have fun!
Only tip I can give (from personally having been contacted by a number of single guys), don't send generic messages! It's always obvious it is one. Makes a massive difference when the recipient can see you've actually read their profile properly and made a bit of an effort :)
Have fun!
Hi, and :welcome: to the Forums.
My tip, for what it's worth, is not to get too hung up on your profile. Yes, it pays to have something novel and appealing there - same with any photo ads you post - but that's only going to be seen by people who go out of their way to look for you.
The best way to get on, as eluded to by tyracer, is to be involved with The Site. In other words, become a regular in the Chatrooms, get involved with the forums, and perhaps put your name down for some of the socials listed in the Let's Meet Up forum.
But above all, just have fun! After all, that's what we're all here for! :thumbup:
My tip, for what it's worth, is not to get too hung up on your profile. Yes, it pays to have something novel and appealing there - same with any photo ads you post - but that's only going to be seen by people who go out of their way to look for you.
The best way to get on, as eluded to by tyracer, is to be involved with The Site. In other words, become a regular in the Chatrooms, get involved with the forums, and perhaps put your name down for some of the socials listed in the Let's Meet Up forum.
But above all, just have fun! After all, that's what we're all here for! :thumbup:
Sex God
Welcome 
Have a browse round and see what others have put on their profiles, but as others have said, just join in and have a look at all areas of the site. People prefer different areas of the site so no one can tell you how to use it. Have a mooch about and decide what's best for you
Have a browse round and see what others have put on their profiles, but as others have said, just join in and have a look at all areas of the site. People prefer different areas of the site so no one can tell you how to use it. Have a mooch about and decide what's best for you
Sex God
:welcome: I think you'll be just fine actually 
The forum is fun, so get posting. Chat can be fast & furious but stick with it. Have a look in the Let's Meet Up forum & check out events in your area. Ditto for Club Meets.
Nice to be virtually acquainted & all that :rascal:
x
The forum is fun, so get posting. Chat can be fast & furious but stick with it. Have a look in the Let's Meet Up forum & check out events in your area. Ditto for Club Meets.
Nice to be virtually acquainted & all that :rascal:
x
Sex God
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Hey all, I'm brand new to this and looking to build a responsible, trusted yet sexy as hell profile. Best advice for getting to know people, phrasing messages, basically an ABC of how swinging scene works!!
Hope you can all help!
since u dont smoke, put on yr profile if u dont mind meeting them if they do.
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