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broaching the subject of a 3 sum !

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Hi any tips how any couples decieded about thier first 3 sum , i have always wanted my girlfriend to enjoy mm and possibly a girl to join us
thanks P.
its normally a case of small talk enging up in a conversation.
e.g watching a3some on TV and one person watching says.."id love to do that"
answer "really" "yes, sure would"
worst thing you can do is to suggest it out of the blue. youll give the partner a heart attack.
or use a tale like "i was talking to dave the other night and he was telling us that a few years ago he was in a 3some"
and watch their reaction
Put on "Wild Things" if your after a MFF!! (oh hell yes!)
For two guys and girlie... the film world is actually quite sparse,,, suggestions?
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its normally a case of small talk enging up in a conversation.
e.g watching a3some on TV and one person watching says.."id love to do that"
answer "really" "yes, sure would"
worst thing you can do is to suggest it out of the blue. youll give the partner a heart attack.
or use a tale like "i was talking to dave the other night and he was telling us that a few years ago he was in a 3some"
and watch their reaction

Oh Great, now I get the blame ..... cheers
David
hehehe well David, you just seem to be the victim smile
Thanks to all who have replied , i think i will get a good dvd film with a 3 sum in it and watch it with Susan , and broached the subject , i have had a few 3 sums many years ago but since being married i would love to have another one or two
i find them a real turn on , as i say its amatter of being in the right situation if any ladies read this or couples may i have your thoughts
Lucky people, I wish my gf would suggest a 3sum
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Hi any tips how any couples decieded about thier first 3 sum , i have always wanted my girlfriend to enjoy mm and possibly a girl to join us
thanks P.

Try talking through both your fantasies and see if the idea of any of them excites enough to be willing to try them out. You never know she may be having the same thoughts. lol
You speak of a girlfriend in one post:
Quote by nudepaul
Hi any tips how any couples decieded about thier first 3 sum , i have always wanted my girlfriend to enjoy mm and possibly a girl to join us
thanks P.

Then mention being married in another:
Quote by nudepaul
Thanks to all who have replied , i think i will get a good dvd film with a 3 sum in it and watch it with Susan , and broached the subject , i have had a few 3 sums many years ago but since being married i would love to have another one or two
i find them a real turn on , as i say its amatter of being in the right situation if any ladies read this or couples may i have your thoughts

Maybe if you told your girlfriend/wife that you're seeking a threesome anyway, she'd let you know whether or not she's interested?
Quote by nudepaul in Let's Meet Up
Hi any couples fancy a naughty afternoon of fun
well up for a 3 sum if you fancy it attractive male 47 non smoker disctrete
and clean non pushy and easy to get on with
hoping to hear from you cheers P.
It was made quite obvious to me that L wanted another woman involved, but goddamnit its difficult finding the ever elusive bi-fem that fits her requirements! rolleyes Mind you, if you are young and blond (and female) feel free to get in contact!
Just talk to her and let her know your feelings, or get her to describe some fantasies while you go down on her....you never know, she may be thinking the same thing! :twisted:
Best of luck mate
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You speak of a girlfriend in one post:
Hi any tips how any couples decieded about thier first 3 sum , i have always wanted my girlfriend to enjoy mm and possibly a girl to join us
thanks P.

Then mention being married in another:
Quote by nudepaul
Thanks to all who have replied , i think i will get a good dvd film with a 3 sum in it and watch it with Susan , and broached the subject , i have had a few 3 sums many years ago but since being married i would love to have another one or two
i find them a real turn on , as i say its amatter of being in the right situation if any ladies read this or couples may i have your thoughts

Maybe if you told your girlfriend/wife that you're seeking a threesome anyway, she'd let you know whether or not she's interested?
Quote by nudepaul in Let's Meet Up
Hi any couples fancy a naughty afternoon of fun
well up for a 3 sum if you fancy it attractive male 47 non smoker disctrete
and clean non pushy and easy to get on with
hoping to hear from you cheers P.

Maybe he has a wife and a girlfriend dunno
Quote by nudepaul
Hi any tips how any couples decieded about thier first 3 sum , i have always wanted my girlfriend to enjoy mm and possibly a girl to join us
thanks P.

Why leave it at just a threesome......our first was a foursome...we've done a couple of sixsomes as well lol