hi...i need some advice regarding my profile (ad no. 538495)
ive been on this site for a couple of months and as yet have not had one enquiry from any ladies or couples and im starting to wonder if this site is like all the others such as . . i.e full of fake adverts in order to cream off your hard earned cash by letting you assume its full of horny ladies who wanna meet for no strings...
i consider myself very polite, very hygienic and a gentleman who very much respects ladies....and yet ive had no response to my ad.
i know not all ladies are 'gagging for it' as some guys think but you would think at least 2 or 3 girls in my area wouldve contacted me for no strings seeing as there are soooo many on this site.
Can anybody advise me on where ive slipped up in my descriptive profile? ive stated my age, my preference, my likes, included a pic or 2 albeit not facial but i need to remain anon....im certainly not going to broadcast myself facially on the net.....
im not brad pitt but then again im not the elephant man either......everythings where it should be and ive been told im quite good looking,,,,,,,so ....any suggestions ?
many thanks for reading and responding...xx
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hi...i need some advice regarding my profile (ad no. 538495)
ive been on this site for a couple of months and as yet have not had one enquiry from any ladies or couples and im starting to wonder if this site is like all the others such as . . i.e full of fake adverts in order to cream off your hard earned cash by letting you assume its full of horny ladies who wanna meet for no strings...
i consider myself very polite, very hygienic and a gentleman who very much respects ladies....and yet ive had no response to my ad.
i know not all ladies are 'gagging for it' as some guys think but you would think at least 2 or 3 girls in my area wouldve contacted me for no strings seeing as there are soooo many on this site.
Can anybody advise me on where ive slipped up in my descriptive profile? ive stated my age, my preference, my likes, included a pic or 2 albeit not facial but i need to remain anon....im certainly not going to broadcast myself facially on the net.....
im not brad pitt but then again im not the elephant man either......everythings where it should be and ive been told im quite good looking,,,,,,,so ....any suggestions ?
many thanks for reading and responding...xx
Yes-patience.
Sex God
We get a post like this every few days - and although I'm a mere male I can tell you that about 98 per cent of women here say that cock pics are a turn-off. Do a search if you don't believe me - there are plenty of threads where this topic has been don't actually say very much about you as a person....and you have not just one but THREE cock pics.
i cant think what else you expect. or maybe i can.
the pics have sold you down the river, it looks like you have something to hide when you only have your genitals in pics.
i see no problem with having a face pic on here, i am not embarrased about being on here, but there again i am not on here trying to get my leg over with anything that moves.
the pics have sold you down the river, it looks like you have something to hide when you only have your genitals in pics.
i see no problem with having a face pic on here, i am not embarrased about being on here, but there again i am not on here trying to get my leg over with anything that moves.
Sex God
Quote by cheshireguy4fun
hi...i need some advice regarding my profile (ad no. 538495)
ive been on this site for a couple of months and as yet have not had one enquiry from any ladies or couples and im starting to wonder if this site is like all the others such as . . i.e full of fake adverts in order to cream off your hard earned cash by letting you assume its full of horny ladies who wanna meet for no strings...
i consider myself very polite, very hygienic and a gentleman who very much respects ladies....and yet ive had no response to my ad.
i know not all ladies are 'gagging for it' as some guys think but you would think at least 2 or 3 girls in my area wouldve contacted me for no strings seeing as there are soooo many on this site.
Can anybody advise me on where ive slipped up in my descriptive profile? ive stated my age, my preference, my likes, included a pic or 2 albeit not facial but i need to remain anon....im certainly not going to broadcast myself facially on the net.....
im not brad pitt but then again im not the elephant man either......everythings where it should be and ive been told im quite good looking,,,,,,,so ....any suggestions ?
many thanks for reading and responding...xx
I have had a read of your ad... and i would like to ask you a Q...
What makes you any different from all the other thousands of single guys looking for no-strings fun????
I will give you my honest advice.... Im a single fem.....
I personally will not reply to any bloke who mails me either with cock pics attatched to his email or with them on his profile. It puts me off!!! Some women like it.... but i don't.
There is much more to a person bar what is in there trousers.
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Knob shots are a negative thing it seems (I think there was a recent pole on here which was practically all people saying knob shots are pants).
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The above is correct. The cock shot could be anyones except mine, its much too big
.Jude.
Judy hun xxx Tut-tut bragging again I see :wink:
phredd :love:
Casanova
dfinitely the best advice is patience,put no limit on how long you wait and expext no replies,then you won't face dissappointment and will one day hopefully find what you seek 
If I was l,ooking and I am not, I would be looking for humour, interesting fact abouts yourself that would grab my attention and make me want to meet you. I think you mean you want to meet a bi female not a gay female. I dont think you need to show your face totally but partially may help and say things that would attract someone to meeting you eg - meet for a social drink, coffee etc . But the successful guys are those that make the effort to get to know people on the forum by posting and joining in the conversations on here. The site you mentioned is different as it hasnt got a forum and success rates for men are you are genuine then make the effort and you will have fun. Enjoy
I don't think anyone's mentioned this yet, but have youactually replied to any adverts?
Bear in mind the ratio of men to women on this site, women have the luxury of just sitting here doing nothing and just waiting for pm's (whether they want them or not).
My advice would be to let people get to know you so you stand out from the rest of the crowd add up your odds a bit
Bear in mind the ratio of men to women on this site, women have the luxury of just sitting here doing nothing and just waiting for pm's (whether they want them or not).
My advice would be to let people get to know you so you stand out from the rest of the crowd add up your odds a bit
i agree with most of the females in here pictures of your cock are not very appealing and not only that all the guys when pm you tell you that they are a genuine bloke then in the next breath tell you that they want no strings attached good sex or as they put it a good hard fuck, swinging for me is not about one night stands and good hard fucking i think you seem to be in the majority that believe swinging is one mass orgy ( which in some cases it has been know to be that lol) but most of it isn't lets take some other adverts for instance one man says "business man available tonight" well go and get a prostitute then! So basically what me and hub are saying is re think what swinging is about and then see if it still what you want.
i agree with most of the females in here pictures of your cock are not very appealing and not only that all the guys when pm you tell you that they are a genuine bloke then in the next breath tell you that they want no strings attached good sex or as they put it a good hard fuck, swinging for me is not about one night stands and good hard fucking i think you seem to be in the majority that believe swinging is one mass orgy ( which in some cases it has been know to be that lol) but most of it isn't lets take some other adverts for instance one man says "business man available tonight" well go and get a prostitute then! So basically what me and hub are saying is re think what swinging is about and then see if it still what you want.
It's like shooting fish in a barrel mate, except the fish are really small and the barrels the size of London, and you're blindfolded using a peashooter. Perseverance and patience as others have said is the key.
You could also try being more active and e-mailing all those other women and couples out there. You get a lot more results if you put yourself out there for all to see instead of sitting around waiting for others to come to you, a lesson I've only just learnt with great success.
Organising your profile will undoubtedly help. Be direct but not blunt, honest, open and with a pinch of humour and it will make people warm to you. Unless discretion is absolutely necessary, a few pics of yourself including a face would be good. Women don't only want to see your cock. No matter how nice a set of tits might be, you wouldn't necessarily want to be between them if the owner is unattractive.
Other than that you're a single guy amongst thousands of others, you have to find something that you and only you can give, that the ladies want and market it in an effective and attractive way.
You could also try being more active and e-mailing all those other women and couples out there. You get a lot more results if you put yourself out there for all to see instead of sitting around waiting for others to come to you, a lesson I've only just learnt with great success.
Organising your profile will undoubtedly help. Be direct but not blunt, honest, open and with a pinch of humour and it will make people warm to you. Unless discretion is absolutely necessary, a few pics of yourself including a face would be good. Women don't only want to see your cock. No matter how nice a set of tits might be, you wouldn't necessarily want to be between them if the owner is unattractive.
Other than that you're a single guy amongst thousands of others, you have to find something that you and only you can give, that the ladies want and market it in an effective and attractive way.
Sex God
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If I was l,ooking and I am not, I would be looking for humour, interesting fact abouts yourself that would grab my attention and make me want to meet you. I think you mean you want to meet a bi female not a gay female. I dont think you need to show your face totally but partially may help and say things that would attract someone to meeting you eg - meet for a social drink, coffee etc . But the successful guys are those that make the effort to get to know people on the forum by posting and joining in the conversations on here. The site you mentioned is different as it hasnt got a forum and success rates for men are you are genuine then make the effort and you will have fun. Enjoy
i may be male m8 but i think u should listen 2 the good advice belive me it works
hi corrie u sexy minx!
