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Can good m8s be considered as a couple

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Me n my mat started out with a mutual atraction as were both bi but now its just a m8 thing with just good friendship but no sex , im sure if that had been a hetro thing we could still come here as a couple but is it ok to be here as we are, 2 same sex friends , is it within the rules to pay to change our status as a couple coz we still feel like a couple just without the sex "help"
Russ and i first started swinging as a cpl more by accident than thro planning redface We were both known as swingles and i was invited to meet a cpl and bring a friend. As russ and i were regular f/buddys and best friends he was my first choice,we were ribbed that we were like a old married cpl as we both knew each other so well both sexualy and mentaly :shock: This has now progressed to us being in a stable relationship and in the vanilla world we are now a couple too.
Below is just my personal opinion.
I would find it hard to think of you as a swinging couple if you do not enjoy sex between yourselfs,surely that makes you as you said just very good friends that share the lifestyle confused:
But then on the other hand if you make it clear in your profile that you dont have a sexual relationship between you and you dont arrange meets sugesting otherwise,i cant see what the problem would be other than possibly trying to get two memberships for the price of 1 dunno
Ok im confussing myself now still recovering from saturday but hope normal service will be resumed you get the gist and no offence intended just felt it worthy of a reply.
Nicky
Quote by swing_fun_cpl
I would find it hard to think of you as a swinging couple if you do not enjoy sex between yourselfs,surely that makes you as you said just very good friends that share the lifestyle confused:

Good point. However I swing with a male friend from this site, yet we don't have sex each other but we do play together with other people. Does that make sense? lol
Nothing makes sense to me today lol
But from what you said you would fall in to this part.....
But then on the other hand if you make it clear in your profile that you dont have a sexual relationship between you and you dont arrange meets sugesting otherwise,i cant see what the problem would be.
And im sure you would always make it known to potential playmates what your situation is,so np.
Nicky
ditto to what swing fun cpl said
as long as you are open honest and up front with your profile and the people you meet up with then i dont see a problem
some people on the site may not agree but if the mods know and are ok with it then its down to you to go for it'
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I would find it hard to think of you as a swinging couple if you do not enjoy sex between yourselfs,surely that makes you as you said just very good friends that share the lifestyle confused:

Good point. However I swing with a male friend from this site, yet we don't have sex each other but we do play together with other people. Does that make sense? lol
makes perfect sense to me Kiss :thumbup:
I'm still struggling with Anglesey's question though dunno
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I would find it hard to think of you as a swinging couple if you do not enjoy sex between yourselfs,surely that makes you as you said just very good friends that share the lifestyle confused:

Good point. However I swing with a male friend from this site, yet we don't have sex each other but we do play together with other people. Does that make sense? lol
makes perfect sense to me Kiss :thumbup:
I'm still struggling with Anglesey's question though dunno
I think it goes like this they are two single bloke who want to play with others and have one profile as a couple