Hello girls
Long time, no see, as I had been abroad.
A strange thing happened to me a few days ago and would love it if someone could explain it to me.
I was with a regular sex partner. Had just had an earth shattering orgasm when he inserted his fingers into my vagina and began masturbating me again. It felt weird but pleasant until it got a bit too much and I had to beg him to stop. I got the feeling I was going to explode but not in an orgasm kind of way, more like wanting to have a wee but having your urethra blocked. I had strong pain internally and the feeling I was going to wee myself. He kept encouraging me, telling me this is how it should feel before a woman 'ejaculates', so I went along for a while hoping for the scientific answer to that big question but it got unbearable.
Was I a step away from ejaculation? I tried to relax my muscles but it was an impossible task. I tried to relax my brain but I was in panic. I felt that some harm was about to happen, maybe my kidneys would explode or something.
Should I let him try this again or forbid it totally? Can I actually be harmed this way? Is there an actual outlet for this tremendous built-up?
Grateful for your answers.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/76468.html
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/62867.html
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/47835.html
And LOADS more - they should help for starters
:P
Thanks Jags. Most of those threads are debating whether female ejaculation exists or not - they are not describing the feeling for the woman in detail so I can compare whether what I felt was a precursor to ejaculation or not.
However, a person called Woodface seems to have some interesting points about technique and I can agree that a finger rubbing outside, near the urethra, whilst a couple of fingers are rubbing inside can cause a wonderful sensation that can lead to orgasm but it is not as unbearable as what I experienced.
I shall keep reading the posts. In the meantime, if anyone has any first-hand experience and can either verify or disclaim the possible outcome of my experience, I would be grateful to hear it.
Hi Tania
I've been squirting since I lost my virginity and I have never felt pain. Are you sure it was pain and not just an intense but entirely new sensation?
I would suggest you do try it again, the effort is worth it, as Shaz says these are very powerfull orgasms. If it is hurting then you should stop ( assuming you are not into pain! )
Hope that helps xxxx
Velvet Lips
The sensation was painful and very intense. And there was no relief to it. I am scared to try again but also curious.
Tanina - MUAH!
If it was painful, I would check it out fully before trying again.
If you ever see Lucyfingers in here - it may be worth asking him.
He has a certain knowledge in that region and may be able to offer an explanation.
Take care and hugs to you and Stuart
Alex x x x
Rather than "pain" I think the sensation is "fear"...
Its a fear that you're not about to ejaculate but instead about to wet yourself...
Getting past that fear takes real trust with the person you're with, you need to relax and allow it... I mean whats the worst that can happen? You actually do wet yourself? If your with a regular partner that shouldn't be a problem but I think its highly unlikely...
The first time this happened for me with my partner now, we both kinda paused in absolute shock... there was just sooo much liquid everywhere!!! TAlking afterwards we both admitted that at that time, just for a moment we had wondered whether I had wet myself, but my partner soon realised that wasn't the case...
The only problem now is I don't cum like this very often and HE sometimes questions just how much I have enjoyed myself and needs reassurance occassionally...
But on the few times when it DOES happen... HE sleeps in the wet patch!!!
hee hee.. got that one sussed! :twisted:
The pain was not in the bladder, more in the kidney region and very internal (so it probably WAS the kidneys!) Oh I don't know... it is all too much for me sometimes. I think I will just be happy with what I've got and leave exploring for another time. Thanks to everyone for their answers, I have a clearer idea now of what is happening.
I have to say that i have had the experience only once but not from finger insertion, it was with a guy that had a piercing.
The feeling was very scary at first as i felt i had lost complete control & yes there was also the embarrassment of feeling you were going to wet yourself but there was never any pain so i would be very careful if it is hurting you.
I have to say that i have had the experience only once but not from finger insertion, it was with a guy that had a piercing.
The feeling was very scary at first as i felt i had lost complete control & yes there was also the embarrassment of feeling you were going to wet yourself but there was never any pain so i would be very careful if it is hurting you.
Just a quick question for all the girls that have experienced the feeling ........................strongbow , fosters . or stella ??
