I was just wondering, one of my best friend's is gay....and I would seriously love to have sex with him......I HAVE asked him but his usual response is 'Ewww that's gross' LoL.....I've even offered him my arse......
My question is, do you think you could persuade a gay man (or a lesbian, for the men) to have sex? And if so, how?
DISCLAIMER: I'm not trying to say that if someone is gay that they're deluded or need to be 'turned' to the other side.....it's just a simple question.
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Can You Persuade A Gay Man
Orgasminator
drug him 
then say he pulled a guy who left early...
then say he pulled a guy who left early... 
Sex God
1 friend i know who has had sex with a guy who was on the gay end of the line but do agree with the line theiry
Sex God
I've had a few blokes who identify as gay, but truthfully they were bi but not admitting it 
. I also know a gay man who only watches straight porn cos watching man-female sex turns him on more than gay sex does - work that one out 
. But if your mate doesn't like the thought of straight sex at all, you've no chance, sorry!
. I also know a gay man who only watches straight porn cos watching man-female sex turns him on more than gay sex does - work that one out . But if your mate doesn't like the thought of straight sex at all, you've no chance, sorry! Orgasminator
perhaps wean him with a trannie or two...
Orgasminator
Quote by Rainbows
I also know a gay man who only watches straight porn cos watching man-female sex turns him on more than gay sex does - work that one out
Most lesbians I know watch straight porn for the same reason!
and most straight men watch lesbians...a LOT of straight women I know like gay porn too
Quote by DreamerHelen
I was just wondering, one of my best friend's is gay....and I would seriously love to have sex with him......I HAVE asked him but his usual response is 'Ewww that's gross' LoL.....I've even offered him my arse......
My question is, do you think you could persuade a gay man (or a lesbian, for the men) to have sex? And if so, how?
DISCLAIMER: I'm not trying to say that if someone is gay that they're deluded or need to be 'turned' to the other side.....it's just a simple question.
living in a dream world WAKE UP! :shock:
Quote by johnneuk1
I was just wondering, one of my best friend's is gay....and I would seriously love to have sex with him......I HAVE asked him but his usual response is 'Ewww that's gross' LoL.....I've even offered him my arse......
My question is, do you think you could persuade a gay man (or a lesbian, for the men) to have sex? And if so, how?
DISCLAIMER: I'm not trying to say that if someone is gay that they're deluded or need to be 'turned' to the other side.....it's just a simple question.
living in a dream world WAKE UP! :shock:
guess it depends on the individual Helen..many gay folks experimented with the hetero stuff when they were younger, so some may not be totally averse to it....he's probably more pissed off that as a friend, you keep hitting on him!! Go steady or find someone who's available :)
I have a lesbian friend who i have fancied for 25 years. A month after we first met we ended up in bed........ she was so stressed and uncomfortable, we gave up with idea of sex and had a cuppa instead and a good laugh. 25 years later i would not have remembered the sex, but we are still good friends.
Joe
Joe
Just a word of "warning" if you Do succeed - I ended up in bed with a good male friend of mine twice when I was a tad drunk. In both instances I wouldn't go near him for days after. It almost ruined our friendship. In fact we still haven't got quite back to how were were. So if he is a really good friend - maybe best not to go there even if you can persuade him.
Sex God
Quote by DreamerHelen
My question is, do you think you could persuade a gay man (or a lesbian, for the men) to have sex? And if so, how?
If you turned someone down and then they tried to "persuade" you to go against your nature, how would you feel?
Personally I'd be grossly offended.
Quote by Ice Pie
My question is, do you think you could persuade a gay man (or a lesbian, for the men) to have sex? And if so, how?
If you turned someone down and then they tried to "persuade" you to go against your nature, how would you feel?
Personally I'd be grossly offended.
with you on that one Ice...poor bloke must hyper-ventilate when Helen (innocently) asks him round for coffee
Quote by wave_dancer
I have a lesbian friend who i have fancied for 25 years. A month after we first met we ended up in bed........ she was so stressed and uncomfortable, we gave up with idea of sex and had a cuppa instead and a good laugh. 25 years later i would not have remembered the sex, but we are still good friends.
Joe
Good story. I can imagine doing something similar myself, if I had such a friend! :thumbup:
Sex God
I have friend who is six feet three . Do think if I ask him really nicely he'll get shorter ?
Ouch!!! it was an innocent question and slightly tongue in cheek....sorry if I offended anyone.....
Me and him have a teasing thing going on.....he knows that I used to be in love with him and would love to go to bed with him....but he also knows that we're much better as friends....and I know that too......
Me and him have a teasing thing going on.....he knows that I used to be in love with him and would love to go to bed with him....but he also knows that we're much better as friends....and I know that too......
Sex God
Quote by DreamerHelen
Ouch!!! it was an innocent question and slightly tongue in cheek....sorry if I offended anyone.
I'm not saying I am offended, I'm just saying I would be if someone put me in that position, and would therefore think twice before doing it to someone else. If he has said no, I think you need to consider that he might actually mean no.
Sex God
Quote by james02
Some people remain hetral sexual half there lives; and at this moment they are happy with them self, and wouldn’t consider them self’s buy or gay
And one day they have a complete change of mind and say hetral is not for me, and then stop fancying the other sex,
Your point being......?
Sex God
Quote by james02
I wondered if this could be reversed
Errrrrrrrrr......... yeah, I used to like cottage cheese, but I don't any more
Sex God
Quote by cool4catz
Well now we open up a whole new debate, don't we? The idea of a scale of sexuality, from 100% straight to 100% homosexual, was first put forward by Alfred Kinsey in the 1920s or 30s. Another aspct of human sexuality that he suggested, was that a person's sexuality can alter throughout their lifetime. I agree with the first, but am not quite sure about the second.
1. 1948, just off the top of my head
2. Hmmm... tricky one. Some people stop being in denial about their true feelings later in life, so may appear to change from, say 100% hetero to bi, or gay. They have always felt that way, they just didn't admit it. I bet a lot of us know people like that.
However, there are others who say that they only started to have desires for a certain sex at a certain point in their life, whereas previously they didn't. Who's to say they're not telling the truth? I'm sure it happens. Our tastes change in a lot of things, why not also the type of people we want to shag. As I said I used to love cottage cheese. Don't any more, so I don't buy it now. Really, why is sexuality any more a big deal than that?
Sex God
Personally I doubt that a person's true sexuality ever really changes - more likely that they don't always know until well into adulthood, usually down to conditioning/expectations. I have no evidence of that, just my gut feeling.
How about the guys who come to bed wit a couple, thinking they're just gonna get pussy, (even though they've been trold it's a couple thing or nothing) and end up getting/giving head to the man in the couple? You know the ones, them that get all sheepish the next day and say "I'm not gay!" as if you were accusing them of a crime?
I think it depends on the person and the circumstances.
I think it depends on the person and the circumstances.
