Can you still flirt...?

25 Sep 2006

Quote by PoloLady
Just a thought (or five).... When you are online:
Can you still flirt with people you know you do not find attractive in RL?
Yes, flirting is fun and I am willing to have fun with people I like.
Can you still flirt with people you don't really respect/like or does their have to be at least something about the person you like to freely flirt?
No!
Is it easier to flirt with people you don't know or those you do know?
About the same I don't find it difficult to flirt.
Do you finding it easy to flirt with pretty much anyone or do you need to want to flirt with your flirtees?
If you mean do you want it to go further than flirting? then the answer is no I can flirt just for fun too
As a flirtee - do you take any serious notice of the flirter?

Unfortunately yes redface

I would be mortified if I thought someone liked me and I had got it wrong. I don't do rejection very well Oh and I'm crap at signs too!

25 Sep 2006

I have bouts of being uncomfortable with even rubbing two words together for people I don't particularly like or who have offended me personally, let alone flirting with them. The thought makes my skin crawl and I simply don't want to encourage any behaviour that might be misunderstood as my reciprocated interest.
Everyone else is fair game! :rascal: ;) lol

Yeah, as if! :lol: I'm a bit of a natural flirt but knowing when and where it's appropriate wouldn't go amiss sometimes with folk. If it's asking to play, better to be straight out with it and get a no. At least you all then know where you stand and the harmless flirting can continue or stop depending on which suits the situation.
Not sure whether anyone takes me seriously anyway, flirting or not... dunno

:lol: Oh well... could be worse, could be labelled a troll instead! ;) :lol:
kiss

Gem. x

25 Sep 2006

Quote by firelizard
Unfortunately yes I would be mortified if I thought someone liked me and I had got it wrong. I don't do rejection very well Oh and I'm crap at signs too!

Signs?
What signs?

25 Sep 2006

Quote by Kiss
Unfortunately yes I would be mortified if I thought someone liked me and I had got it wrong. I don't do rejection very well Oh and I'm crap at signs too!

Signs?
What signs?

Cor nothing like being straight and to the point eh blink

25 Sep 2006

Quote by PoloLady
What if you don't flirt at all and just head straight for the pants? :twisted:

I'm liking your thinking PL!!
No point in wasting valuable time with niceties! lol

Fee
XX

25 Sep 2006

Quote by LadyFeeBee

What if you don't flirt at all and just head straight for the pants? :twisted:

I'm liking your thinking PL!!
No point in wasting valuable time with niceties! lol

Fee
XX
nice arse mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm..
RWL
xxx

25 Sep 2006

Quote by redwine_lover
nice arse mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm..
RWL
xxx

:lol: :lol:
Is that your idea of flirting young man??!!
Mind you, it worked before :giggle:
Fee
XX

25 Sep 2006

Quote by LadyFeeBee
nice arse mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm..
RWL
xxx

:lol: :lol:
Is that your idea of flirting young man??!!
Mind you, it worked before :giggle:
Fee
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"young man"...is that your idea of flirting tooo.....well it worked before !!! hahahah
RWL
xxx

25 Sep 2006

Now I like to flirt, and I think Im quite good at it, but getting into the knickers is proving a tad difficult.

25 Sep 2006

Quote by Rising
Now I like to flirt, and I think Im quite good at it, but getting into the knickers is proving a tad difficult.

Hey Rising I find that hard to believe hun. I saw your ear on cam and I thought it was damned attractive redface

25 Sep 2006

Quote by Rising
Now I like to flirt, and I think Im quite good at it, but getting into the knickers is proving a tad difficult.

try a larger size?????
dunno

RWL

25 Sep 2006

Quote by PoloLady
Just a thought (or five).... When you are online:
Can you still flirt with people you know you do not find attractive in RL?
no, well I probably could, but I wont, simply because i do not want to give off any wrong signals. as has been said in another thread, it's hard enough to read the signs in here as it is, without confusing the issue, rest assured if I flirt with you, I fancy you.
Can you still flirt with people you don't really respect/like or does their have to be at least something about the person you like to freely flirt?
As above
Is it easier to flirt with people you don't know or those you do know?
no differance really
Do you finding it easy to flirt with pretty much anyone or do you need to want to flirt with your flirtees?
Despite being a tart, I do realy have to want to flirt with someone.
As a flirtee - do you take any serious notice of the flirter?

Ah now here's the crux of the matter, either no-one has ever tried to flirt with me, or I'm just not seeing it

25 Sep 2006

ok, maybe its time for a serious answer..........
Can you still flirt with people you know you do not find attractive in RL?
yes. especially older ladies who are blatantly flirting with me..............in a sort of "harry enfield show "young man" way........
Can you still flirt with people you don't really respect/like or does their have to be at least something about the person you like to freely flirt?
just about...but not full on flirting....... but people i dont respect normally dont get so much as "hello"
Is it easier to flirt with people you don't know or those you do know?
no difference
Do you finding it easy to flirt with pretty much anyone or do you need to want to flirt with your flirtees?
yes, i can flirt with pretty much anyone.. but there has to be some signals going on somewhere........ im not that much of a sleaze-bucket.......
As a flirtee - do you take any serious notice of the flirter?
most definately

25 Sep 2006

flirting?
also;
reading the signs?
absolutely hopeless me...

25 Sep 2006

Quote by LondonPlaything
flirting?
also;
reading the signs?
absolutely hopeless me...

So if I knocked you over the head and dragged you off to my cave would you finally get the message? rolleyes

25 Sep 2006

Ah - I've just realised something.
Again - which thread to put this in ? This one or the "signs" thread :confused: dunno

:shock:
I often don't flirt outrageously, or my flirting will become less outrageous with people I'd actually like to get together with in a 1 to 1, or 3/4/moresome level. You know the "take things further" stage.

25 Sep 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
flirting?
also;
reading the signs?
absolutely hopeless me...

So if I knocked you over the head and dragged you off to my cave would you finally get the message? rolleyes

posibly... though I may be concussed!

25 Sep 2006

Quote by LondonPlaything
flirting?
also;
reading the signs?
absolutely hopeless me...

So if I knocked you over the head and dragged you off to my cave would you finally get the message? rolleyes

posibly... though I may be concussed!
bloody fool :roll:
OfA

25 Sep 2006

Quote by oneforall

posibly... though I may be concussed!

bloody fool rolleyes

OfA
keep your nose out monkey-boy, can't you see I have a headache?

25 Sep 2006

Quote by LondonPlaything

posibly... though I may be concussed!

bloody fool rolleyes

OfA
keep your nose out monkey-boy, can't you see I have a headache?
You might like some of the painkillers I'm on. I've still got a headache but I just don't give a fuck anymore :crazy:
:giggle:

25 Sep 2006

just throw me the bottle... Im sure it'll help
>aside: years back I burnt my hand quite badly, was qiven very strong tablets at A&A, though this was in my drinking days.. the two combined had me flying for days!
Fantastic!<
londonpainkillerthing

25 Sep 2006

Can you still flirt with people you don't really respect/like or does their have to be at least something about the person you like to freely flirt?
Personally I couldnâ€™t flirt with someone I disliked , I wouldnâ€™t necessarily have to fancy them or even like them ( you can flirt with someone you have just met after all, and therefore wouldnâ€™t really know if you liked them yet ).
Is it easier to flirt with people you don't know or those you do know?
Hummmm, For me, Iâ€™d the same, it would depend on the person and the situation
Do you finding it easy to flirt with pretty much anyone or do you need to want to flirt with your flirtees?
?
As a flirtee - do you take any serious notice of the flirter?
I take notice, its nice to have the attention from someone, but Iâ€™d only take it seriously if were a sustained flirtâ€¦over time and consistent.