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Ever since prostate removed I am very horny but can't cum. Get close but that's it
Any advice PLEASE.
Marquand
Maybe you would get good advice from your own GP !
I once took "horny goat weed" and, though the results cannot be considered to be scientific proof, I found that it caused me to be extra sensitive, and therefore likely to climax more easily.
Not the sort of place I'd be seeking advice. Try the NHS helpline of better yet, your GP.
Whereas seeking the advice of your healthcare professional is always good advice, it's highly unlikely that you'll find anyone with as much experience to draw upon as you will find here. I recommend that you actually liaise with your G.P., as I have often done myself, thereby sharing any information which then increases the doctor's own knowledge base.
I would always say seek specialist advice from the usual.. NHS, GPS, Psychologist, but it sometimes the alternative stuff does help.
I personally went through a period where i didn't have a problem getting erect, but climaxing was becoming an issue.
To the point where sex sessions would last a very long time, my partner would climax numerous times, i would finish unsatisfied (physically, mentally and emotionally frustrated), not to mention sometimes i would end up in a lot of pain.
Some people would argue.. wow lucky woman, but it did start affecting her emotionally as well, she felt she wasnt good enough or i didnt turn her on.
Eventually after trying the usual Psychologist, GP's etc i resorted to the other type of pharmacist. What ever he gave definitely changed my view of the world whilst under the influence, but also helped with the problem.
After the chemical intervention, which also happened to enlighten me in making me feel like i forgot how to orgasm.
Which led my partner into suggesting the following:
Lay of all penetrative intercourse with your partner. Give your self a dose of the feminine treatment, a good soak, candles etc. Then lock your self in a room with media (magazines, videos, photos) that excite you and some good lube and just focus on pleasuring your self, but not actually climaxing. Actually i would say avoid climaxing altogether a few times.
If it doesnt work, go through the process again.
For me it worked really well.
I do hope things get better for you soon.
And if it works.. a dinner invite would be great!
;)
Having said that the usual word of caution:
#NOTE: please do not take substances that are not officially supplied as you dont know what you will be taking and the affects it may have.
I had the same op and as they remove all the prostate you will not be able to produce semen or the fluid that the semen travels in, therefore you will have what they call a dry orgasm. The feelings are the same just no fluid a bit strange at first but you get used to it?
Quote by fishnchips
Eventually after trying the usual Psychologist, GP's etc i resorted to the other type of pharmacist. What ever he gave definitely changed my view of the world whilst under the influence, but also helped with the problem.

Hate to sound negative about this because obviously it worked for you - but ANY illegallly obtained substance is a bad move - you don't know how its going to affect your body - Only have to look at the news and see people that have taken stuff for the first time and lost their life sad
Quote by skinny
I once took "horny goat weed" and, though the results cannot be considered to be scientific proof, I found that it caused me to be extra sensitive, and therefore likely to climax more easily.

:laughabove:
I don't know what is is about the name 'Horny Goat Weed' that makes me properly chuckle.
I am curious though? Is it because goats are horny?? Or is it that goats like weed? The label must have some under-current of logic?
Yep, that's me. Thinking about important things such as the above. Roll on my work half day bolt
Quote by the_magik_s
I once took "horny goat weed" and, though the results cannot be considered to be scientific proof, I found that it caused me to be extra sensitive, and therefore likely to climax more easily.

:laughabove:
I don't know what is is about the name 'Horny Goat Weed' that makes me properly chuckle.
I am curious though? Is it because goats are horny?? Or is it that goats like weed? The label must have some under-current of logic?
Yep, that's me. Thinking about important things such as the above. Roll on my work half day bolt
I read somewhere, obviously on the internet, that the name "horny goat weed" had originated from the observations of the goatherds, who noticed their charges becoming extra horny whilst feeding on the stuff. I don't claim this to be true, but google it maybe.