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Can't see you, need time to think

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How do I delete this post............. coz the question is irrelevant now...........
Thanx for the replys tho !!!!
"I have already decided I don't want to see you again but haven't got the balls to tell you.. yet"
biggrin or maybe I'm cynical... as it coud be:
"I've started to see someone else but ain't sure if it's a dead cert yet so want you to stick around until I am."
Um, if a bloke says it it means, i need some time apart to assess the situation, do i want to be with you or not. (i think)
If a woman says it, it means i cant see you cos i need time to think. lol

Bloke.......
Thanx babe, that's what I thought it meant..........lol lol lol lol
Just needed to check I wasn't jumping to conclusions.......
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Bloke.......
Thanx babe, that's what I thought it meant..........lol lol lol lol
Just needed to check I wasn't jumping to conclusions.......

Ok - hope it helped - just being honest and hope you're OK x
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I hope nobody was stupid enough to say that to you Blondie? When someone wants time to think the answer is NO (I know from years of sales) C68 x

It was said to me............... so I guess I shouldn't wait for the phone to ring then????
alone and unloved again?????? lol lol lol
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....... or am I just being stupid and it means the same to everyone???
Blondeslave

Or are you just being clever and letting all the other guys that were chasing after you in the chatroom last night know that your attentions are being directed elswhere? rotflmao
Steve
Blondie....I could say dont be a slave to anyone but that would be a bit poor. I am in Noth Yorkshire tomorrow in Bransby (half an hour North of York). Maybe I could give you a tonic to ease that aching heart? x
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Blondie....I could say dont be a slave to anyone but that would be a bit poor. I am in Noth Yorkshire tomorrow in Bransby (half an hour North of York). Maybe I could give you a tonic to ease that aching heart? x

Cricket68,
Is that an offer.???...................
Washing my hair 2moro........... dying it RED............... maybe thats what wrong.......... too long and too blonde........?????
P.S......... dont drink Tonic without a gin in it........
Hey blondeslave, easy girl, blondes are best...might have started something there...
I think he hasn't got the balls or his wife won't let him out...just my opinion
In that case you can read my last post as not being an offer! Its called flirting. I need to think now...
It's an abbreviation for "I need time to think of a convincing reason why I appear to be actually 5ft3, chubby, bald and over 50 rather than 6ft slim, blonde and 30 like I said when we started chatting."
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alone and unloved again?????? lol lol lol

never unloved babes, never happen, alone perhaps cuz you stepped out the room where we are but never unloved
Personally it sounds like this bloke just needs time to think to me confused
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Personally it sounds like this bloke just needs time to think to me confused

I hope you are right babe.... xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Washing my hair tomorrow...........

This is the female equivalent of "Can't see you cos I need time to think." ;)
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Um, if a bloke says it it means, i need some time apart to assess the situation, do i want to be with you or not. (i think)
If a woman says it, it means i cant see you cos i need time to think. lol

So is your "woman" thinking of her relationship or nothing in particular? wink
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Hi all,
Can I have the opinion of the panel............. exactly what do u think this phrase means..........
CANT SEE YOU COZ I NEED TIME TO THINK?????

From a single male aged under 35 it means......
I am not that into you, but, I don't want to tell you to fuck off just in case I get desperate for a shag.
It is featured on page 45 of the Guide Book for Tossers - Lines to use when you don't fancy someone but they might be useful for a shag sometime.
I forgot to mention....
from a woman it means....
I am taking this situation seriously and need to think it over more.
From a male 35+ it means...
I am just not sure and don't want to be impulsive.
From a woman's pov : I can't stop thinking about you and need time to focus on work
Male pov: I think my wife suspects I'm being unfaithful
rolleyes

Oh My God.............lol................ I thought you lot would help.....................
I am even more confused now..........lol
Thanx anyway............. I think???
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Washing my hair tomorrow...........

This is the female equivalent of "Can't see you cos I need time to think." ;)
OMG............ U have a point...........lol lol lol
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Hi all,
Can I have the opinion of the panel............. exactly what do u think this phrase means..........
CANT SEE YOU COZ I NEED TIME TO THINK?????
Bet the girls and the boys see this as something totally different....... or am I just being stupid and it means the same to everyone???
Blondeslave

I am surprised at all of you ladies.... It doesn't matter what is means.... surely the important thing is that it translates to 'Time to go shopping!' lol
what it means probably depends on what happened or what you did or said just before he said it. God, that's sounds convoluted! As polo says, might depend on how old he is! You're so cynical Polo wink
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"I've started to see someone else but ain't sure if it's a dead cert yet so want you to stick around until I am."

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From a single male aged under 35 it means......
I am not that into you, but, I don't want to tell you to fuck off just in case I get desperate for a shag.

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You're so cynical Polo wink

She's not the only one who's cynical. She is spot on, as is Bloke.
Happened to me.
Let us not forget that thinking is something only people who think about things do. The single male aged under 30 (35 is a bit steep Polo) has been known to thinkvery differently, with another part of the body, lower down, often hard.
I'm sorry, I use this one all the time. And it means exactly what I'm saying. Give me space I need to sort my head before I fuck this up altogether. Plain as. confused