Great question
I wouldn't ever want to pay for it... primarily because for it to have any worth, I'd want to feel fancied, and paying for it would certainly put into question the woman's motives!
As a guy, I'd not want a freebie from a prostitute based partly on prejudice and partly fear.
I'd suspect the number of partners she'd had would be very high, and I'd be extremely concerened about potential diseases (even thous some might argue she's a safer bet).
I think one real danger in terms of raising questions about a prostitute and a swinging are that people can often equate the two as being about money (prostitue) or desire (swinger). The danger is, people think swinging is about high numbers of partners too. For some this IS the case, but for many it's not, they just enjoy swinging with a select few.
For this reason, I (as a man) couldn't accept a freebie from a prostitute (it's the numbers and safety issue).
btw, as a slight aside, does anybody else think along these lines (like I do)....
if a person has a high number of partners... it's not just a matter of them having slept with say 100 instead of 10, but also the people they slept with also probably sleep around a lot more too... so their 100 partners probably have had 100 too... thus increasing the potential risks of STD not by a factor of 10, but 10*10 ?
/Kid
but we all pay for it one way or the other dont we?
Thats an age old punter cop out Mark mate .
Lets try it from another angle . Your fella is in a new job , hes been there six months and loves the place . His boss comes over for drinks one night and he seems pleasant enough , polite and curteous , and not bad looking for an older fella even if he isnt really your type .
Later that week your bloke tells you that his boss has recognised you from a swingers picture site , and he has made it quite clear ( although in not so many words ) that were he to be invited to make the beast with two backs with you then your man would be almost guaranteed a promotion and better pay and conditions . You hadnt ever really thought of shagging his boss , and arent really excited at the idea ...............but what would ya do ??
Rather than risk the wrath of WBB if this comes over like a thread hijack please tell me to piss right off and ill delete it rofl
xxxBusty xx
LOL well its G here , but keep thinkin ;-)
In response to Silk & Big G's question
No job is worth that and I have more respect for myself!
Hugs, Alex xx
in answer to big Gs q:
i would not agree to the boss's demands for 2 reasons. firstly because i do not think i COULD have sex with someone unless it was from attraction to them, i can not just "go through the motions" regardless of what is to gain from it.
secondly.. if someone is swayed into giving you a promotion in that way..... they are not likely in my opinion to have high moral values.. so what is the chance that when they get a better bribe you are not going to be out of the door and on ur arse?
Yes WBB, i would be put off meeting him if i knew he paid for sex but i would probably still meet him. One would instantly think, no chance. I always give the benefit of the doubt. At least he has been honest enough to tell you that he has paid for sexual services and obviously won't mind me asking in depth about this. How many guys have paid for it and not told females, quite a few i imagine.
Personally I wouldn't be interested sexually in someone who I knew to be a prostitute. I'm not knocking it per se, but someone for whom sex is a commodity to be bought and sold has a fundamentally different attitude to sex from me, and I couldn't be with anyone who was that far removed from me philosophically, because for me physical compatibility alone is not enough.
lol, it is just something that has just come up.
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