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Career swingers or dabblers

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Quote by westerross
Retired dabbler here.

Does that mean you've retired from dabbling to become a lifer then?? wink
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Alas, no lol
Yaknow NWC that is one of the most profound,open, honest and beautiful posts I have read in many a moon. I have sent a copy to Minx cos I think she will love it too.
Quote by benrums0n
Yaknow NWC that is one of the most profound,open, honest and beautiful posts I have read in many a moon. I have sent a copy to Minx cos I think she will love it too.

Thank you, and I thought I was just waffling again redface
Well said Wiggy, when the time comes I get into a relationship, what you have described would be something I would hope to find.
As well as a kinky pervert :twisted:
I think I will always be a dabbler unless I come across a lady that will become my partner and she feels the same way.
So on that note I think thats a life time dabbler rotflmao
Dabblers here. Given that we joined about 4 years ago and since then have only got round to (counts.....) 3 experiences lol
I wouldn't say we were here for the short term (4 years!!!) as we 'get' it and have made some fab friends along the way, loads of whom will be at our wedding in August (dangerous we know lol)
Who knows, maybe we'll have a few more experiences in the next couple of years :lol:
*Her*
I would consider myself a "swingerlite" the altogether more intesting version of socialite....
Taken from Wikipedia
A socialite is a person who is known to be a part of fashionable high society because of his or her regular participation in social activities and fondness for spending a significant amount of time entertaining and being entertained... biggrin :D
Quote by Ukwineman
I think I will always be a dabbler unless I come across a lady that will become my partner and she feels the same way.
So on that note I think thats a life time dabbler rotflmao

If you ask her to become yer partner first, she might let you come across her all the time...
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I formally apologise for that atrocious joke(?) - but I genuinely think the tone of the thread needed lowering after NWC's erudite post, which is exactly how it is for Angelica and me. kiss
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Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
I think we are definately lifetime/career swingers but only physically do it possibly three or four times a year. To us swinging is more than just having recreational sex, it is about how we relate to each other and other people we meet. It is a freedom that allows us to talk about our fantasis and about our desires, it is about being open and honest with each other and being able to say 'oh I fancy him/her' and knowing that there is definately no reason to be jealous or hurt by it.
So when it comes to the physical swinging I suppose we are 'dabblers' but the emotional side, we are definately lifers lol
and Mrs BD, I bet you are absolutely blooming as a result of all those little hormones doing somersaults all round your body kiss

WOW nothing like taking the words from my mouth, thats exactley how it is for us and although Im sure Dave would like to "dabble" more often, its finding a happy medium between lifer n dabbler.
Jane n Dave xx
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We've been swinging for about 12 years and wouldn't consider ourselves either. When we've been in the mood we've met some wonderful folks and had some fantastic experiences to spice up our own relationship.
Quote by Djcouple7
WOW nothing like taking the words from my mouth,


Dont worry, I will save your words and give them back to you at the next munch lol
We're dabblers I guess! We started out with an open relationship and it's stayed that way pretty much, we have the occasional fun through the site, both as a couple or as singles.
Haven't done much in the last few years though redface
Can't see us ever retiring for good though so I guess we're dabbling lifers LOL
Cal
Neither - we just go with the flow - wherever the juices may be lol
is there a catagory for "wannabee but no one will have"? lol :cry: