After taking free advantage of Swinging Heavens site since 30 September, with an excited attitude towards our new adventure, we threw ourselves into searching for our IDEAL!! In the beginning we found this quest all absorbing, we checked our in box morning noon and night, and in between we could not keep our hands off each other.
What a shocking surprise awaited us. Understand when there is no mutual attraction, trying to understand the nutters and picture collectors (why??????) But what we do not understand is the people who, after ongoing contact (week or so MSN) and early picture exchanges and having given every indication that they definitely want to meet etc., then seem to disappear??????? Why go through all of that just to lead someone on??? Just a wind-up, seems very elaborate to us.
Is it because they have had second thoughts and don't know what to say??? What's the problem with a one line email to say 'changed our minds'?? Its only text, they don't have to face anyone?? Anybody any thoughts on this because it's driving us crazy??
We are now back to sex 7 times a week (need the rest) and check our in box if one of us has the heart to??????? will understand if this is old territory, suspect it's a well worn PATH. at least we have been able to whinge!!!!! :cry: :cry:
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After taking free advantage of Swinging Heavens site since 30 September, with an excited attitude towards our new adventure, we threw ourselves into searching for our IDEAL!! In the beginning we found this quest all absorbing, we checked our in box morning noon and night, and in between we could not keep our hands off each other.
What a shocking surprise awaited us. Understand when there is no mutual attraction, trying to understand the nutters and picture collectors (why??????) But what we do not understand is the people who, after ongoing contact (week or so MSN) and early picture exchanges and having given every indication that they definitely want to meet etc., then seem to disappear??????? Why go through all of that just to lead someone on??? Just a wind-up, seems very elaborate to us.
Is it because they have had second thoughts and don't know what to say??? What's the problem with a one line email to say 'changed our minds'?? Its only text, they don't have to face anyone?? Anybody any thoughts on this because it's driving us crazy??
We are now back to sex 7 times a week (need the rest) and check our in box if one of us has the heart to??????? will understand if this is old territory, suspect it's a well worn PATH. at least we have been able to whinge!!!!! :cry: :cry:
It's been said COUNTLESS times - make an effort and do a search of the site. What we need is a thread about the WONDERFUL times that members have had with each other!
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