Well we all know the answer to that one hey Redhot xx lol xx
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I think those same people pop in the Lets Meet Up part of the forum when they've finished in the Chatroom !!! :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
I've never been in this Chatroom thing - and,judging from the blokes who've e-mailed me their cock shots etc - perhaps its best I don't with this posting name!!!!
i agree with you funin_n_mike
i think that all newbies should be made to read your post before being allowed in the chat room being a single male i hate the way some of them just jump on people as soon as they come in the chat room
Hello funinandmike,
I couldn't agree with you more. Manners maketh the man and woman, that's just as true in the Chatroom as it is elsewhere. People who cannot be bothered to take the time to get known, and participate in both the chatroom and the various forums, don't deserve a reply.
It's been several months since I moderated in the Chatroom, but these problems had already started before I retired from active participation.
In a dance hall, similar questions would get the questioner a lot of black eyes, and not many visits or nights in bed with any lady asked such questions.
The fact that a woman may be wanting sexual relations with a man, does not entitle any man to treat her like a slut. Unfortunately many men do. Women are not, in my view, to be treated like sluts if they want occasional sexual encounters with a man, and I see no reason at all why they should be treated so.
Having been a Swinger for more than 40 years. My experience is, that I have always found the best way to a ladies bed, is to be curteous, kind and appreciative of her wishes. Ladies like to be appreciated, and accepting that, has worked for me. The fact that I have been invited back again and again, to their beds, is evidence that my method works, and that the current mode of approach by many newbies, is not at all acceptable.
The men who approach ladies in the way you describe, deserve to be ignored. Hopefully they will take the hint, and leave Swinging Heaven for good. I have met many female members of S/H, some of them I have bedded, others are just good friends whom, I may be fortunate enough, to bed in the future, but in all cases I do not push my luck. Getting to know them first is a pre-requisit for far better mutual sexual pleasure.
Harry0
I haven't used the chatroom for many months now. But even when I did (March/April time), it always seemed to be filled with idiots saying their ASL every five seconds, or moaning about a lack of action, or boasting about all the sex they had the night before, or talking up their cock-size. There were some nice people in there, but for me the not-nice people drowned them out without breaking a sweat.
And that was six months ago.