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Quote by tall_dark_n_havesome
Just as an interseting thought following all the recent musings over cheating i thought a Poll was in order!!
That would probably overload the server with all the moral judgement flying around.
Love your sig though. I hope you don't mean you are a naughty 'married' person - tut tut, that just would never do would it?!
Jess
be happy folks
lol..would be interesting to find out...I tried to post a Poll but it doesnt seem to have worked..Maybe one of the kind moderators would help. Interstingly ...to date only 1 in 10 have posted an answer!!!
Oh and by the way...admired your balls in your stand in those debates...would love to admire more than your balls!!
Oh and by the way...admired your balls in your stand in those debates...would love to admire more than your balls!!
Sex God
I'll kindly post your poll if you tell me what question you want to ask?
Quote by tall_dark_n_havesome
lol..would be interesting to find out...
Oh and by the way...admired your balls in your stand in those debates...would love to admire more than your balls!!
Balls? I don't personally have any but my partner Dan has two in a bag he carries with him
Oh and of course all the married men who haven't yet confessed to their wives what they get up to still have balls - but maybe not if she finds out . . .
Ssh! I won't tell if you don't :P
Jess (Jessica)
Balls? I don't personally have any
Me think the woman may protest too much.
I'd gladly hand mine over next time our swords clash. :idea: Or should that be oor willy's :lol:
Whatever the answer somebody stop me from getting involved in this one. I should have learnt my lesson by now. I've never yet left a debate with a woman with my sanity intact.
Jess my balls are yours. Although I fully expect you to reject the offer, despite the fact it is a reasonable compromise :boxing: Billy (now increasingly worried where this thread is leading
uch: ) Quote by ScotsCpl
Billy (now increasingly worried where this thread is leading
Billy, get those balls on a plate - my knife and fork are waiting eagerly. :evil2: Hot saute` balls - my fav
On second thoughts, have you got your wife's permission to let me have them? Don't want you to get shouted at by the Morals police :wink:
Jess (who is also enjoying this thread!)
Sex God
OMG! - She's orf agin! :crazy:
Warming the Bed
That is 3 seperate posts where you poke fun at people who have differing opinions/morals to your own. Is this going to continue?
Warming the Bed
Expressing an opinion is fine, as we did, but to continually poke fun and shove it down our throats is not.
Sex God
I don't think she was - just stating her own opinion 
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: Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, but asking others to live as one wishes to - Oscar Wilde
Sex God
I'm glad someone brought Oscar into this debate, he would have loved the challange, being a cheater and all 8)
Sex God
"Bigamy is having one wife too many, monogamy is the same".
"I can resist everything, except temptation".
I love Oscar too, and apologies to the Great Wilde one if I haven't got his quotes quite right, I haven't read his complete works for a while
"I can resist everything, except temptation".
I love Oscar too, and apologies to the Great Wilde one if I haven't got his quotes quite right, I haven't read his complete works for a while
OMG! - She's orf agin!
Has she ever stopped!!!
It's often the case that those who think they are in the wrong scream the loudest they are in the right. Take Dubbya for example!!!!!!
Sorry prob too many glasses of vino and cutechick beginning to make me belive I is going mad :shock: . Is it just me or does anybody else get the point that if a married person cheats then it goes against everything us swingers are for, i.e. consent and respect. At what point does the partner of someone who cheats get to consent to sleeping with all the potential diseases sex can involve. What chance does the partner of a cheater get to turn round and say 'I respect your honesty!'
I really do accept folk that want to cheat on partners can go out dogging and that sometimes we swingers will be swinging with people that are lying about their status. But at least lets be honest about it. If you're married and want to cheat go doggin. If you want to mix with people that enjoy sex and still have a sense of what respect and consent means then swing with those of us that are fool enough to trust peoples honesty. We dont always get it right but at least we are trying to honestly open up the world to what is possible in an honest, consentual, and respectful relationship. The alternative is to accept that lying, manipulation, deciet, disrespect and potentially infecting our partners is an acceptable way forward.
Now I really is on my wee Scottish soap Box. Sorry CuteChick
, I really like your humour and spirit but i just can't agree with you. Billy (now beginning to take this all too seriously me thinks!)
Sex God
Quote by ScotsCpl
I really do accept folk that want to cheat on partners can go out dogging and that sometimes we swingers will be swinging with people that are lying about their status. But at least lets be honest about it. If you're married and want to cheat go doggin.
If you want to mix with people that enjoy sex and still have a sense of what respect and consent means then swing with those of us that are fool enough to trust peoples honesty.
Billy (now beginning to take this all too seriously me thinks!)
Billy, I really take execption to your stance here. It appears that you are saying only those swingers who have partners who swing with them or with their knowledge, are morally right and honest. Am I correct? I sincerely hope not
Just because we go dogging, perhaps with married men, does that make us less honest as a swinging couple?
We do what we enjoy, with whoever we enjoy doing it with. It is not our place to judge them and their social/family/marital conditions. Being a married man does not mean they have to stop having fun does it? We're not asking them to seek a divorce or swear an oath of truth before joining us!
I suggest this thread is locked soon before we all get overheated, or drink too much vino and say something we may later regret :cry:
Terry
(sneaking off before cutechick crashes back into the frame!)
Sexpert
Quote by we2wantu
Expressing an opinion is fine, as we did, but to continually poke fun and shove it down our throats is not.
But poking IS fun.
I never ram anything down anyones throat... unless they ask nicely.
Remember this is all meant to be fun - its good that we can talk and have a discussion like this, but we all have our own viewpoints, and we should live and let live.
We all make decisions, good or bad, and the consequences are are own too. :)
Be excellent to each other, and party on dudes (and dudettes) :)
Quote by ScotsCpl
But at least lets be honest about it. If you're married and want to cheat go doggin.
If you want to mix with people that enjoy sex and still have a sense of what respect and consent means then swing with those of us that are fool enough to trust peoples honesty.
Billy, I am surprised and indeed disappointed at your comments above. I thought we had something beautiful going :cry:
I can only echo what redhot has said. We have spent hours now debating the moral rights and wrongs of swinging and dogging. However, now the time for pesonal insults has begun, I will have no more to do with it. ( I hear you all shouting hurray
)I have my own opinions and of course so do you all, but at the end of the day, I do not wish to have my moral fibre called into question by anyone, who is in my opinion, not suitable to do so. Since when was it written in stone that swingers have more morals than doggers?
I have not questioned anyone's personal morals, merely questioned how they feel they can tell other people what is morally right and wrong.
I hope you will continue to enjoy your chosen form of fun, as Dan and I will.
Jessica
