Join the most popular community of UK swingers now
Login
CLOSET BI GUYS
Sex God
Certainly my profile gets checked out a lot by guys who are registered as couples or straight males 
Will
Will
Master of Sex
It comes down to any mouth is a mouth in my honest opinion, they arent necessarily bi as in my defination of bi . It is often about desperation for sexual contact. And yes I am ready to be slated for my opinion.
Joy x
Joy x
Sex God
Quote by
Certainly my profile gets checked out a lot by guys who are registered as couples or straight males
Will
Perhaps we just like your writing? That cute quil?Thanks for the compliment, but I was actually thinking of people who I've never seen in the forum. It's all quite flattering - just a little unexpected!
Will
Master of Sex
Quote by willxx69
Certainly my profile gets checked out a lot by guys who are registered as couples or straight males
Will
Maybe it's because your profile is a couples profile.
Sex God
Quote by Jewlnmart
Certainly my profile gets checked out a lot by guys who are registered as couples or straight males
Will
Maybe it's because your profile is a couples 's a fair point - but I was actually thinking of a time when we had separate profiles. Sorry, I didn't realy make that clear.
Will
Quote by I_am_joy
It comes down to any mouth is a mouth in my honest opinion, they arent necessarily bi as in my defination of bi . It is often about desperation for sexual contact. And yes I am ready to be slated for my opinion.
Joy x
I 100% agree, it does for lots of them Joy and desperate is never attractive (to me), male or female, anyway.
I used to like the idea ages ago and before I got any real mmf experience on here, of sucking some 'straight' bloke's cock while he went 'ohhh.... ahhh' but have now found that those ain't the kind of bi guys that make for a relaxed fun evening. They will often tolerate cock to get to pussy and can make the whole situation feel a bit awkward.. especially for any females involved. And when you go to kiss them the look on their face is often priceless
Chilled, sexy, smart bi blokes/bi-male couples and single females who like invovlement with such work for me ;) To be honest, I even find the idea of male-male meets a bit lame right now as there's much more fun to be had with the right kind of female involvement :thumbup:
It's funny - I continually hear from bi blokes that bi blokes don't put 'bi' on their profiles as 'some couples don't like it'... and then I continually hear from couples that I know that they can't find decent bi blokes... it's seems a bit like 'the blind trying to find the blind' to some degree.
It's just the stigma that's still attached to it I think - they think if people see it they will assume they are some big !
I find being honest and being yourself tends to work best in the long run. It works for me anyway.
BIoke x
Mod
I've found, from my experience, that a lot more females like bimales than are put off by the 'tag'. I know some prefer only straight males and wont meet bimales (which is a bit like asking for someone who is lefthanded and not considering those who are ambidextrous :lol2: ) why hide your lights under a bushel?
Being bi means you have more colours on your palette! :grin:
Mal
Being bi means you have more colours on your palette! :grin:
Mal
Sexpert
Should I come out of the closet, then?
Quote by Mal
I've found, from my experience, that a lot more females like bimales than are put off by the 'tag'. I know some prefer only straight males and wont meet bimales (which is a bit like asking for someone who is lefthanded and not considering those who are ambidextrous :lol2: ) why hide your lights under a bushel?
Being bi means you have more colours on your palette! :grin:
Mal
No its not, its a lot more personal than which hand you use. Why dont people accept that some peope dont wish to meet with bi or bi curious guys, its a matter of choice and not, as some think, a smoke screen for some guys to hide behind.
Mod
Quote by goldsmith
I've found, from my experience, that a lot more females like bimales than are put off by the 'tag'. I know some prefer only straight males and wont meet bimales (which is a bit like asking for someone who is lefthanded and not considering those who are ambidextrous :lol2: ) why hide your lights under a bushel?
Being bi means you have more colours on your palette! :grin:
Mal
No its not, its a lot more personal than which hand you use. Why dont people accept that some peope dont wish to meet with bi or bi curious guys, its a matter of choice and not, as some think, a smoke screen for some guys to hide behind.
My opinion disagrees with your opinion
Mal
:wink:
Quote by goldsmith
I've found, from my experience, that a lot more females like bimales than are put off by the 'tag'. I know some prefer only straight males and wont meet bimales (which is a bit like asking for someone who is lefthanded and not considering those who are ambidextrous :lol2: ) why hide your lights under a bushel?
Being bi means you have more colours on your palette! :grin:
Mal
No its not, its a lot more personal than which hand you use. Why dont people accept that some peope dont wish to meet with bi or bi curious guys, its a matter of choice and not, as some think, a smoke screen for some guys to hide behind.
i was not talking about whether people wish to meet bi guys or not, it's a free world and people meet who they want to. my gripe is men who put on their profile that they are "straight" and then contact bi guys who as in my case when I query their profile they say things like "oh the wife doesn't know" or "if I put bi it restricts the people I can meet".
Sex God
It is rarely straight forward, or cut and dry
I am not a bi male, but on the other hand, I could not consider my self straight either.
Although I have never been with, I find convincing pre-op transsexual's, transvestite's, shemale's, or lady boys very sexually appealing
*Mr Bluefish*
I am not a bi male, but on the other hand, I could not consider my self straight either.
Although I have never been with, I find convincing pre-op transsexual's, transvestite's, shemale's, or lady boys very sexually appealing
*Mr Bluefish*
Quote by goldsmith
I've found, from my experience, that a lot more females like bimales than are put off by the 'tag'. I know some prefer only straight males and wont meet bimales (which is a bit like asking for someone who is lefthanded and not considering those who are ambidextrous :lol2: ) why hide your lights under a bushel?
Being bi means you have more colours on your palette! :grin:
Mal
No its not, its a lot more personal than which hand you use. Why dont people accept that some peope dont wish to meet with bi or bi curious guys, its a matter of choice and not, as some think, a smoke screen for some guys to hide behind.
i understand and respect the personal choice part 100%,the only thing i fail to understand is what reasoning the choice is based on?.a guy who's profile states str8 is never going to own up to being curious or bi after he reads your profile,so you have probably played with a few you ever notice the difference? or think later "i bet he was bi "?.
Quote by goldsmith
I've found, from my experience, that a lot more females like bimales than are put off by the 'tag'. I know some prefer only straight males and wont meet bimales (which is a bit like asking for someone who is lefthanded and not considering those who are ambidextrous :lol2: ) why hide your lights under a bushel?
Being bi means you have more colours on your palette! :grin:
Mal
No its not, its a lot more personal than which hand you use. Why dont people accept that some peope dont wish to meet with bi or bi curious guys, its a matter of choice and not, as some think, a smoke screen for some guys to hide behind.
I don't think that was the OP's point and think we know your opinion already on the bum-sex thing. It's likely you will have played with bi guys anyway, you just won't know it ;)
Sex God
Quote by BIoke
I've found, from my experience, that a lot more females like bimales than are put off by the 'tag'. I know some prefer only straight males and wont meet bimales (which is a bit like asking for someone who is lefthanded and not considering those who are ambidextrous :lol2: ) why hide your lights under a bushel?
Being bi means you have more colours on your palette! :grin:
Mal
No its not, its a lot more personal than which hand you use. Why dont people accept that some peope dont wish to meet with bi or bi curious guys, its a matter of choice and not, as some think, a smoke screen for some guys to hide behind.
I don't think that was the OP's point and think we know your opinion already on the bum-sex thing. It's likely you will have played with bi guys anyway, you just won't know it ;)
For me, I have no problems playing with bi guys.
As a couple, it is the wife who swings while I watch or if pre arranged I may join in. Things are discused before hand so we all know what the score is. We all know that in a threesome there will always be contact between all three partys.
There are a lot more bi guys than many people realise.
IF you have played with a guy then to me that constitutes you are also bi.
How the heck people say they are not bi when they suck another guys dick ffs?
Or is it a subconscious thing that you are only deluding oneself,. that you are not bi?
If you suck another guys dick, then sorry guys you are bi, and no ammount of saying different will change that.
Oh yes and without doubt you have already played with bi guys if you have met more than a couple of guys.....trust me on that one.
IF you have played with a guy then to me that constitutes you are also bi.
How the heck people say they are not bi when they suck another guys dick ffs?
Or is it a subconscious thing that you are only deluding oneself,. that you are not bi?
If you suck another guys dick, then sorry guys you are bi, and no ammount of saying different will change that.
Oh yes and without doubt you have already played with bi guys if you have met more than a couple of guys.....trust me on that one.
Sex God
I agree with 777 on this - If you suck wank fuck snog or skip hand in hand with another guy and your either gay or bi. If You do this only if the guy your doing it with comes as part of a playing m/f couple then still it makes no odds.
It does get me smiling when single guys approach us as a couple and say they are not bi but they will suck cock if that's what it'll take presuming that just because we are cool with bi guys that I must be. Unfortunately they misread the profile,
Guys messing with guys is bi or gay simple as. what the problem is fuck knows just admit it and get on with life jeez some people would love the idea of being so adaptable and unnaffected.
It does get me smiling when single guys approach us as a couple and say they are not bi but they will suck cock if that's what it'll take presuming that just because we are cool with bi guys that I must be. Unfortunately they misread the profile,
Guys messing with guys is bi or gay simple as. what the problem is fuck knows just admit it and get on with life jeez some people would love the idea of being so adaptable and unnaffected.
I agree, I think that there are an awfull lot of guys who are advertising as couples - they may or may not be bi though sometimes they may believe they will have "better luck" with couples and single women if they advertise as as a couple.
I had one (local to me) guy proposition me the other night - supposed to be part of a couple but "the wife was away do you fancy coming round for a bit of fun". When I thanked him but politely told him I was, as my profile says, straight but would consider playing with both him and his wife he became abusive (swearing in whispers etc), there were no female pictures on his profile and I must confess I then came to think the guy was on his own.
I have no problem at all with bi men or gays, male or females , but I personnaly just don't get turned on by naked men (though I think MMF threesomes are the hottest thing in the world - work that one out cause I can't!!!)
Wish I was bi - I envy bi people of both sexes they have a lot more options and probably more fun!!!!!!
I had one (local to me) guy proposition me the other night - supposed to be part of a couple but "the wife was away do you fancy coming round for a bit of fun". When I thanked him but politely told him I was, as my profile says, straight but would consider playing with both him and his wife he became abusive (swearing in whispers etc), there were no female pictures on his profile and I must confess I then came to think the guy was on his own.
I have no problem at all with bi men or gays, male or females , but I personnaly just don't get turned on by naked men (though I think MMF threesomes are the hottest thing in the world - work that one out cause I can't!!!)
Wish I was bi - I envy bi people of both sexes they have a lot more options and probably more fun!!!!!!
Warming the Bed
I have had some Bi experiences in the past in the right mood but I do not consider myself a Bi, since it is not my primary choice. I would interact as a Bi if the mood is right and with the right people. I do not identify as a Bi, but I explain the fact on my profile. Should I put myself as Bi just because it would be more acceptable?
Dark.
Dark.
Quote by Darkduma
I have had some Bi experiences in the past in the right mood but I do not consider myself a Bi, since it is not my primary choice. I would interact as a Bi if the mood is right and with the right people. I do not identify as a Bi, but I explain the fact on my profile. Should I put myself as Bi just because it would be more acceptable?
Dark.
Not sure about it being more acceptable, but its certainly more practical though, after all, sexual preferences are very important on a sex related site, it's not as if your standing in the high street holding a placard up, it's merely to show what you like or are comfortable with on here, the bit about the mood being right should be the case with any meet, whether bi or straight, although if a couple is searching for a bi male then surely you’ll be missed out in the search results??
Warming the Bed
You are totally correct and I agree with you, except the part about being missed out in some searches. If I rather prefer act as Straight then I do not want to be missed out on the searches that look for exactly that, and if the ones searching that do not want someone that is confortable with Bi experiences in the right mood, then they have that info on my profile. I am being fair to me and to others. Or am I wrong?
Dark
Not sure about it being more acceptable, but its certainly more practical though, after all, sexual preferences are very important on a sex related site, it's not as if your standing in the high street holding a placard up, it's merely to show what you like or are comfortable with on here, the bit about the mood being right should be the case with any meet, whether bi or straight, although if a couple is searching for a bi male then surely you’ll be missed out in the search results??
Dark
Quote by risky-n-frisky
I have had some Bi experiences in the past in the right mood but I do not consider myself a Bi, since it is not my primary choice. I would interact as a Bi if the mood is right and with the right people. I do not identify as a Bi, but I explain the fact on my profile. Should I put myself as Bi just because it would be more acceptable?
Dark.
Not sure about it being more acceptable, but its certainly more practical though, after all, sexual preferences are very important on a sex related site, it's not as if your standing in the high street holding a placard up, it's merely to show what you like or are comfortable with on here, the bit about the mood being right should be the case with any meet, whether bi or straight, although if a couple is searching for a bi male then surely you’ll be missed out in the search results??
Quote by Darkduma
You are totally correct and I agree with you, except the part about being missed out in some searches. If I rather prefer act as Straight then I do not want to be missed out on the searches that look for exactly that, and if the ones searching that do not want someone that is confortable with Bi experiences in the right mood, then they have that info on my profile. I am being fair to me and to others. Or am I wrong?
Dark
But isn’t preferring to act straight a bit different to being straight? Hence this thread.
Surely people that search for straight guys would be somewhat confused by you’re profile? But it’s you’re profile and you can use it as you wish, but still think you’ll be attracting the wrong audience when it comes to the search facility.
Warming the Bed
Maybe!!!
But it is all about choices and having to deal with the duality of criteria. I choose to do it this way. Maybe in the future I will choose to do it another way. The point is that not everyone is trying to deceive. You will have to read a well structured profile to know if it fits your criteria. Being able to be Bi it is just one of the thousands of individual choices when looking for a match. It would be wrong if it is not stated anywhere. When you go and buy a car you know what you looking for, but the true status of the vehicle is in more details inside the advert and only after test driving it you will know if you want it. Not that you will test drive everyone that interest you. But I think I make my point.
Dark.
But isn’t preferring to act straight a bit different to being straight? Hence this thread.
Surely people that search for straight guys would be somewhat confused by you’re profile? But it’s you’re profile and you can use it as you wish, but still think you’ll be attracting the wrong audience when it comes to the search facility.
But it is all about choices and having to deal with the duality of criteria. I choose to do it this way. Maybe in the future I will choose to do it another way. The point is that not everyone is trying to deceive. You will have to read a well structured profile to know if it fits your criteria. Being able to be Bi it is just one of the thousands of individual choices when looking for a match. It would be wrong if it is not stated anywhere. When you go and buy a car you know what you looking for, but the true status of the vehicle is in more details inside the advert and only after test driving it you will know if you want it. Not that you will test drive everyone that interest you. But I think I make my point.
Dark.
Quote by risky-n-frisky
You are totally correct and I agree with you, except the part about being missed out in some searches. If I rather prefer act as Straight then I do not want to be missed out on the searches that look for exactly that, and if the ones searching that do not want someone that is confortable with Bi experiences in the right mood, then they have that info on my profile. I am being fair to me and to others. Or am I wrong?
:)
Dark
But isn’t preferring to act straight a bit different to being straight? Hence this thread.
Surely people that search for straight guys would be somewhat confused by you’re profile? But it’s you’re profile and you can use it as you wish, but still think you’ll be attracting the wrong audience when it comes to the search facility.
Sex God
Quote by brucie
There is nothing wrong with being bi
thats a matter of opinion. maybe its better for society if they stay in the closet. anyway what if they get their kicks out of it being illicit?
Out of interest brucie, do you think that about bi women too?
Sex God
Quote by BIoke
It comes down to any mouth is a mouth in my honest opinion, they arent necessarily bi as in my defination of bi . It is often about desperation for sexual contact. And yes I am ready to be slated for my opinion.
Joy x
I 100% agree, it does for lots of them Joy and desperate is never attractive (to me), male or female, anyway.
I used to like the idea ages ago and before I got any real mmf experience on here, of sucking some 'straight' bloke's cock while he went 'ohhh.... ahhh' but have now found that those ain't the kind of bi guys that make for a relaxed fun evening. They willoften tolerate cock to get to pussy and can make the whole situation feel a bit awkward.. especially for any females involved. And when you go to kiss them the look on their face is often priceless
Chilled, sexy, smart bi blokes/bi-male couples and single females who like invovlement with such work for me ;) To be honest, I even find the idea of male-male meets a bit lame right now as there's much more fun to be had with the right kind of female involvement :thumbup:
It's funny - I continually hear from bi blokes that bi blokes don't put 'bi' on their profiles as 'some couples don't like it'... and then I continually hear from couples that I know that they can't find decent bi blokes... it's seems a bit like 'the blind trying to find the blind' to some degree.
It's just the stigma that's still attached to it I think - they think if people see it they will assume they are some big !
I find being honest and being yourself tends to work best in the long run. It works for me anyway.
BIoke x
Tell me about it, sick of it! You don't know who is genuine and who isn't. Don't always believe profiles either - someone contacted us and it had bi-male. Went bck a cpl of days later and he was straight....hmmmmmm
Sex God
Quote by mrs-cream123
Tell me about it, sick of it! You don't know who is genuine and who isn't. Don't always believe profiles either - someone contacted us and it had bi-male. Went bck a cpl of days later and he was straight....hmmmmmm
Maybe he bit off more than he could chew.
