I'd be interested in opinions on this scenario...
I was at a club recently, on my own in a cinema room. A couple came in and sat about 3ft away from me. I turned and smiled and said hello.
They ignored me and started playing. No problem, they obviously wanted to be left on their own.
As soon as it was discovered a couple were playing, the room filled up. Again,no problem with this.
A young chap then parked himself in the space between me and the couple and tried to push me back to make more space for him. I had nowhere to go so just sat still.
He was trying to push himself on the couple who ignored him then got up and walked away.
Am I being prissy or was his behaviour totally out of order.
I got out of the dogging scene some years ago because of this type of behaviour, it seems to be creeping in to some clubs. Having been on the scene as a single and a couple, I don't want to see the whole thing spoiled.
He was out of order !!
John & Shel
He was out of order, I only hope that you reported him to the staff, this sort of thing can happen so I am pleased to say it is a minority of idiots who do it, Staff at clubs can do nothing about it unless they are told, to report him is helping the club and making clubs a better place for everyone else, be that decent single guys, couples or single females.
I know some couples say "it's ok we can handle them" but think of the next couple perhaps a newer couple who cannot handle it or never return to the club because of one moron.
Club staff welcome your assistance in ousting such people, without your help they will end up with a bad reputation and may even close.
You should have just calmly laid your old boy on his shoulder...
Its a shame the Cpl playing didn't say something to him. We wouldn't have ignored you when you said Hi and then if someone got too close to us and was pushy, I would have said " Do you mind moving, we were chatting with him" meaning you and if he didn't I would have commented on how one idiot spoils it for all as we left.
He was out of order!
Hope he meets me next time, I'll deflate his ego no problem!
Hate rude people, there's just no need!
Out of order. No question about it.