Club dark room

What’s the rules in a club dark room. My wife had a unhappy experience in there . We was having fun and someone pushed his finger hard in my wife . Wouldn’t mind if it was gentle and slower . 

I guess it depends on the club?  Perhaps best to complain to the management there at the time. 

That is so out of order, im guessing it wasn't someone she was playing with at the time, it's dreadful that people consider it their right to interfere with others on such an intimate scale, during what should be sensual and fun.

I found dark rooms hit and miss, I know the clues in the name but I can't see anything, lot's of touching going on, mostly men touching other men, which I'm not into, when a lady or couple go in they shouldn't be treated roughly (unless that's what she wants) but one problem with dark rooms is some arseholes will feel they can act shitty as it's fairly anonymous.

You go in a public room you expect people to watch but not touch (unless you invite them), you go in a dark room and you can only expect to get touched and more without being asked, that's probably why it's mostly guys in there.

I've only been in a dark room twice, both times with a guy. The first time it was pretty quiet and it was just a bit of bum groping, the second time it was heaving. I ended up on my knees with my f/b's cock in my mouth and two others in each hand, and hands all over me. If anyone went a bit far I grunted and kept my knees closed, they soon got the message.

Just don't go in on your own!

Good advice above, people (men), will always try to take advantage of a naked lady, especially if it can be anonymous. I do feel that intimate touching or inserting anything without permission is an assault on the other party.

Best advice ladies, don't go in on your own!

Been to several with different girlfriends....Very erotic, safe, sexy, pleasurable  and successful in couples only clubs, like Fata Morgana in Holland...not a great experience with any of them in mixed clubs....they tend to be full of the wanking dead....