club meets- etiquette

26 Sep 2007

We arranged to meet a single guy to take with us to a club (chameleons) Sadly he was a no show so we went as a couple, we only meet single guys. We went to the club anyway and saw lots of guys that f liked but they were all with wives or gf's. She didnt fancy any of the single guys there. The question-Is it ok to go and ask a couple if the guy can be taken from the lady and played with alone? We were too embarrased to ask. Advice welcome so we know for our next visit

26 Sep 2007

Hi

after you replied to my post, Kevin and i acutally discussed how we would feel if only one of us was approached and invited to play but we were both unsure about it. I think it would be ok for us if we played separately in different rooms but not sure about what you suggest. Thats how we feel anyway at this moment. Would the partner be allowed to watch??
Pheline x

26 Sep 2007

No harm in asking... so long as put in a way that explains you only see single guys as such.. Not making the Fem feel like a minger etc!!
can't see any harm done...
Mike x

26 Sep 2007

hiya
no harm in asking a guy of a cpl at all we get it often with lee l ol
i even asked a guys mrs in infusions on fri night if i could take her guy in a room and she said ask him which i already had but he told me to ask his mrs so we went off together smile

jo xxx

26 Sep 2007

As others have said - no harm to ask. My partner and I sometimes play separately and I wouldn't think twice if we were asked for him to play alone, we would be fine with it.

27 Sep 2007

Ive let me bloke play in rooms alone, and i get quiet a buzz after when he tells me what went on, its a better turn out sometimes not being there lol

but waiting somewhere else and wondering whats going on xxj