club virgins

8 May 2005

hi there,
i know i do some pretty shit topics ................................. but me and my fella have never been to a swinging club before and was woundering what it was like(appart from the obvious!!)
your comments will be much appreciated and maybe we will venture out !!!!! hee hee lol

thnx guy's n gals lou xxxxxx

8 May 2005

Hi guys
We've been to a couple of clubs and would say it depends what your looking for from teh experience....... are you looking to play? be watched? watch? ect. From our experience each club has its very own feel.
Liberations is very good, Garden of Eden was good too.
On a practical note you can check the reviews on the 'Clubs & Parties' tab.
Morb x

8 May 2005

thnx very much lol i knew the link was there just wanted tip's we are looking to play (obviously as a couple) we have no idea of the erm i hate to put it like this but the procedure!!!!(i really hate that word,im sure ur understanding minds will know what we mean)
louxx

8 May 2005

Quote by bailiffs
hi there,
i know i do some pretty shit topics ................................. but me and my fella have never been to a swinging club before and was woundering what it was like(appart from the obvious!!)
your comments will be much appreciated and maybe we will venture out !!!!! hee hee
thnx guy's n gals lou xxxxxx

Good thread Lou because I too am new to this and have never been to a swingers Party / Club. Do any of you guys know of any down south (East Anglia)
Roni B xx

8 May 2005

Quote by bailiffs
thnx very much lol i knew the link was there just wanted tip's we are looking to play (obviously as a couple) we have no idea of the erm i hate to put it like this but the procedure!!!!(i really hate that word,im sure ur understanding minds will know what we mean)
louxx

The 'procedure' is the same wherever you decide to go...... you go as fast or slow as you like. The vast majority of people respect the 'no means no' rule and we have always found we havent needed to use it.
Liberation is definately worth a look.

8 May 2005

Quote by morbiusUK
Liberations is very good, Garden of Eden was good too.
Morb x

Would I be right in saying that you and your good Lady gave a pretty good review of aforementioned establishment in Electrical Times Magazine?
Ah Showbiz eh? cool

8 May 2005

Quote by the_Laird

Liberations is very good, Garden of Eden was good too.
Morb x

Would I be right in saying that you and your good Lady gave a pretty good review of aforementioned establishment in Electrical Times Magazine?
Ah Showbiz eh? cool

bastard
Thought that had been forgotten lol

8 May 2005

Clubs vary quite a lot in terms of atmosphere, 'unwritten rules', average age, dress code etc. We have tried most of the clubs in the NW, Yorkshire and Midlands and they are all very different. As Morbius said, it would help if you let people know what you are looking for and what area you are looking in.
Some advice would be to decide exactly how far you want to go before you go to a club and then stick to it. If you want to go further, save it till next time when you've discussed it in the cold light of day. Also, unless you are looking for mfm, a couples only session would be a good choice because a club full of single guys can feel a little overpowering if you are not used to it.

8 May 2005

Quote by northwest-cpl
Clubs vary quite a lot in terms of atmosphere, 'unwritten rules', average age, dress code etc. We have tried most of the clubs in the NW, Yorkshire and Midlands and they are all very different. As Morbius said, it would help if you let people know what you are looking for and what area you are looking in.
Some advice would be to decide exactly how far you want to go before you go to a club and then stick to it. If you want to go further, save it till next time when you've discussed it in the cold light of day. Also, unless you are looking for mfm, a couples only session would be a good choice because a club full of single guys can feel a little overpowering if you are not used to it.

we are looking for ffm and or a couple(full swap/swing) we are from derby ??? so anywhere around here
thnx lou xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

8 May 2005

Quote by bailiffs
we are looking for ffm and or a couple(full swap/swing) we are from derby ??? so anywhere around here
thnx lou xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Chameleons is nice. It's just off J9 of the M6 and is couples only on a Saturday night. Don't hold your breath for the ffm but finding a couple with a bi-fem should be no problem there at all. It is our second favourite club after Liaisons and we would probably visit it more if it wasn't for the drive and being spoiled for choice in manchester.
Dress code is towels or underwear/lingerie. It's a friendly place, very busy, with a great jacuzzi and lots of playrooms, some small and private others large and open. It's well worth a visit. Take id to join on a first visit but there is no joining fee for couples.

8 May 2005

thats helped sooo much thanks very much its much appreciated
lou xxxxx biggrin

9 May 2005

Hi Lou we go to the clubs as it is soooo relaxed and you can do what you wanna do, party, play or simply sit back and relax. All the clubs we have been to show you round the facilities and explain any rules etc that they have. Chameleons is our favourite, even though it takes 2 1/2 hours to get there we love it ! Staff are excellent and will look after you. Towels/sexy lingerie is dress code. look up clubs link at top of page get phone number and give them a ring. Couples night is Saturday and should have no prob with bi. fem. Have fun. wink

:love: xxx

9 May 2005

*takes notes*
I think we need a map... Seems any fun from here requires planning and a navigator lol

9 May 2005

Hiya Lou ^ mr Bailiff
We go to a club in west mids called Xtasia we cant reccomend it enough lol
we are from south yorks and travel down every now and then we stay in a hotel 50 yards from club and once parked up can enjoy ourselves without worry of whos to drive etc
The club is very clean, cliantel not pushy and v sexy lol you can go as far as u want or just dance night away in what could be called a night club
we are sure if you do go to Xtasia club you wont be dissapointed! if you read reports on club then you can get a feel to what to expect lol

If you want any more help or info give us a pm :lol:
Have fun!
T & G xxxx

9 May 2005

Considering your age and beauty, I'd definitely recommend a couples only night at least at first, otherwise you are going to get a lot of male attention. Yes, most guys understand no means no, but you probably won't want to spend your entire night fending them off. smile

And no matter which club you go to, remember that the owners will be borderline fanatical about making sure you have a good time, so don't be afraid to approach them with any problems you are having. Not that you should have any, but it's nice to know they're always there to help.

9 May 2005

Quote by goodtimez
Hiya Lou ^ mr Bailiff
We go to a club in west mids called Xtasia we cant reccomend it enough lol
we are from south yorks and travel down every now and then we stay in a hotel 50 yards from club and once parked up can enjoy ourselves without worry of whos to drive etc
The club is very clean, cliantel not pushy and v sexy lol you can go as far as u want or just dance night away in what could be called a night club
we are sure if you do go to Xtasia club you wont be dissapointed! if you read reports on club then you can get a feel to what to expect
If you want any more help or info give us a pm :lol:
Have fun!
T & G xxxx

thanks very much isnt T&G a works union??? lol thanks will pm soon if thats ok
lou xx :lol:

9 May 2005

yes we hear it all time
Tongue & Grooved
other way rround G&T
gin & Tonic lol
BIg Yaaaaaawn lol
Hope u find what your looking for xxxxxxxxx
T & G xxxxxxxx