Clubs for a newbie

Hi, thanks for taking the time to read, me and hubby are extremely new to the scene and we don’t intend to be full swingers. Our desire is purely for me to enjoy women and women me. What’s the stance regarding clubs as the thought of men approaching me - it’s just not my things and the same for hubby, are they respectful? Can you go, chill, drink and chat with ease? I appreciate what We seeks might be tame in comparison. But what could we expect? Sorry but naive and shy I guess ? Mrs R.

anyone? ??

The best club in the country, in my opinion, is Chameleons in Darlaston, near Walsall. It's well established and the ideal place whether you're experienced or new to the scene. There's no pressure to play. You can do as much or as little as you feel comfortable with.

The staff are great and you will be made to welcome and at ease.. Don't worry about people hassling you. Everybody knows that 'no means no' and if you have any issues with people bugging you, just mention it to the staff and they will sort it out for you. They take a very dim view of people, especially 'newbies', being hassled. 

I used to go there 2 or 3 times a week when I lived in the West Mids and miss the place since I moved away. 

I appreciate the response thank you. Yes I had heard good reviews about Chams we may venture over one night, even if just for a drink 

Chams doesn't have a license to sell alcohol, so you have to take any booze with you. The staff will keep it behind the bar and pass it to you on request. 

Chams is great fun and Monday night is Bi night. We haven't found many Bi females present on other nights. Liberties used to have a system where those with an interest in Bi fun could wear a wrist band so others knew where similar interested guests were, they have a newbie night on one Thursday in the month.

Went to Chams on Saturday night our first club experience  was very impressed  ,  was very friendly and felt  no pressure  would definitely going again