Clubs or swingingheaven chatrooms - What are the differences

24 Apr 2006

Hello,
Never been to a club so I wondered if the more experienced members could tell me what is similar and what is different with chatrooms?
What also prompted me to write was the fact that certain rooms seemed to attract a hectoring group of males co-ercing women to get their kit off which might not happen face to face?
Also there seemed to be some debate about men and women masturbating on cam in the same room - does that happen in clubs?
Anyway, whatever you think - educate me!
best wishes,
Shay

24 Apr 2006

Post moved from LMU to the cafe :thumbup:

24 Apr 2006

We are a little bemused by this one...we mean, a club is 'real' whereas the chatrooms are just 'cyberspace'...surely the main difference? :shock: :shock: :shock:

24 Apr 2006

edit: actually you are probably better off not knowing.

24 Apr 2006

Quote by shayz1
Hello,
Never been to a club so I wondered if the more experienced members could tell me what is similar and what is different with chatrooms?
What also prompted me to write was the fact that certain rooms seemed to attract a hectoring group of males co-ercing women to get their kit off which might not happen face to face?
Also there seemed to be some debate about men and women masturbating on cam in the same room - does that happen in clubs?
Anyway, whatever you think - educate me!
best wishes,
Shay

well if you go in the playrooms men can be pushy in the same way . they reach over & start touching you without you asking. But club rules state to watch only unless invited but guys sometimes dont follow the rules just as in the chatrooms they whisper without asking & direct people on cam. So the club rules are to protect & in every club there will be a room or 2 which is private or invites only ie no single males allowed in unless invited.
In clubs the sauna is real which is nice. lol

the sex looks 100 times better than on cam. They usually have a big tv with porn on it & you can play with lots of people instead of just yourself in front of a keyboard. The whole atmosphere is soooooooo sex y fgs just go!!!!!!!!!!! its brillaiant & you WILL love it!!!!!!!!!! cool

24 Apr 2006

ps people dont masturbate in club cause they got playmates to do it 4 them 69position

69 beats wanking anyday yeahhhhhhhh :twisted:

24 Apr 2006

well from them replies im off to a club at the weekend biggrin

24 Apr 2006

Quote by lets_kiss
ps people dont masturbate in club cause they got playmates to do it 4 them 69 beats wanking anyday yeahhhhhhhh :twisted:

Ummm, which clubs have you been to????
Can't say we've ever been to one where men aren't masturbating whilst watching others wink

:wink:

:lol:

24 Apr 2006

Hello,
Sorry Dawn_Mids, I had a bit of a headache today - not the best day for posting - all i could do to pose the question.
having read a lot about clubs, without any opportunity to go I just wondered what I moght be missing. I understand the difference between watching sport on TV and participating and I figure that is the main difference. However, I was also curious to know if people meet for the first time more at SH or clubs. Seems that most people are already teamed up at clubs?
Thanks for the replyPoloLady, I am not unshockable and usually I prefer to know, so don;t be coy, cos someone will tell me. It might as well come from you?
Thanks lets_kiss and flidais-media for an the information, especially the write-up lets_kiss - so enthusiastic!
Hopefully I will get a few more replies?
Shay

24 Apr 2006

The difference between a club and the SH chatrooms is that you can usually get into a club...........