I saw this on another site when reading through a few articals, i think it pretty safe to say there is some good advice for us guys to be taken from it.
"Women have to see a guys face to want to fuck him. Usually
his cock will be in one of her orifices at the time and she
will be looking at his face not his cock. A nice clothed shot
will get a guy far.
After a guy sends the all important face shot and there is
a little erotic email back and forth maybe it might be ok
to send a penis picture. But it is no way to introduce yourself.
Disembodied parts do not arouse most women.
All these pictures you guys send look so weird, it's
as if you are all at home full of self love and taking pictures
of yourselves in the bathroom mirrors and thinking you
are God's gift to women. Just too strange.
All you guys are sending penis pictures and some gay guys
have caught on to this fact and it is really only they that
are interested in seeing your cock. Stop with the penis
pictures and you won't get so many posers.
As for appropriate photos, how about a nice outdoor shot.
Look like you might have an interest in something other
than sex. Guys with interests and talents are attractive."
P.S i did ask the author if i could "borrow" it, she said it was fine
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cock pics Vs Face pics
Absolutely spot on!
Here in the chatroom we have the same thing.
The women go on cam - and 99% of the time they have their faces on.
But the vast majority of the fellahs - chicken strangling!
(or Murder Most Foul (tm Voddy & terry))
Do they think they are being sexy? Perhaps they do..... I suspect it does more for them than the women who they are trying (and failing) to impress.
Personally I will only watch cams where I can see a face. I realise that some other women may be different, however from the people I have chatted to recently, I think I am probably in the majority.
So fellahs - if you want to charm someone on here - do it with your personality and face. You may just find you have better, quicker and far more satisfying results,
Being a member of a swinging site does not mean that you always have to throw the normal rules of common decency and repect for others.
Alex x
Here in the chatroom we have the same thing.
The women go on cam - and 99% of the time they have their faces on.
But the vast majority of the fellahs - chicken strangling!
(or Murder Most Foul (tm Voddy & terry))
Do they think they are being sexy? Perhaps they do..... I suspect it does more for them than the women who they are trying (and failing) to impress.
Personally I will only watch cams where I can see a face. I realise that some other women may be different, however from the people I have chatted to recently, I think I am probably in the majority.
So fellahs - if you want to charm someone on here - do it with your personality and face. You may just find you have better, quicker and far more satisfying results,
Being a member of a swinging site does not mean that you always have to throw the normal rules of common decency and repect for others.
Alex x
Quote by Alexandra
Absolutely spot on!
Here in the chatroom we have the same thing.
The women go on cam - and 99% of the time they have their faces on.
But the vast majority of the fellahs - chicken strangling!
(or Murder Most Foul (tm Voddy & terry))
Do they think they are being sexy? Perhaps they do..... I suspect it does more for them than the women who they are trying (and failing) to impress.
Personally I will only watch cams where I can see a face. I realise that some other women may be different, however from the people I have chatted to recently, I think I am probably in the majority.
So fellahs - if you want to charm someone on here - do it with your personality and face. You may just find you have better, quicker and far more satisfying results,
Being a member of a swinging site does not mean that you always have to throw the normal rules of common decency and repect for others.
Alex x
Exactly !
Sex God
Quote by Alexandra
Absolutely spot on!
Here in the chatroom we have the same thing.
The women go on cam - and 99% of the time they have their faces on.
But the vast majority of the fellahs - chicken strangling!
(or Murder Most Foul (tm Voddy & terry))
Do they think they are being sexy? Perhaps they do..... I suspect it does more for them than the women who they are trying (and failing) to impress.
Personally I will only watch cams where I can see a face. I realise that some other women may be different, however from the people I have chatted to recently, I think I am probably in the majority.
So fellahs - if you want to charm someone on here - do it with your personality and face. You may just find you have better, quicker and far more satisfying results,
Being a member of a swinging site does not mean that you always have to throw the normal rules of common decency and repect for others.
Alex x
I'd go one further alex... and say that a fair few blokes feel the same way...... that should get me hated in the chatrooms now!!!
a smile for me is as.... if not even more sexy.... than just seeing a pic of a body..... so to be honest the advice could go both ways........
intelligence and a smile are the first things i notice about a person.......
sean xxxxxxxxxxxx
Quote by fabio grooverider
I'd go one further alex... and say that a fair few blokes feel the same way...... that should get me hated in the chatrooms now!!!
a smile for me is as.... if not even more sexy.... than just seeing a pic of a body..... so to be honest the advice could go both ways........
intelligence and a smile are the first things i notice about a person.......
sean xxxxxxxxxxxx
'Eyes and Smiles, combined with a great sense of humour and being able to hold an intelligent conversation is a winning combination in my book!
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Quote by Alexandra
'Eyes and Smiles, combined with a great sense of humour and being able to hold an intelligent conversation is a winning combination in my book!
That let's me out, then, Doris!!!
Bert
xx
Sex God
I rarely venture into the chatroom or ads anymore, but an endless display of kebeb shots (or cock shots in the other ad sections) gets a bit tedious.
hopefully a few people will take note of the advice, now if you can go back to that site and find a post for 'is my cock big enough and should i shave it?' and our old friend 'why doesn't my ad work, theres only 10,000 others to look at?' we might be able to put the troll cannon back in the cupboard
hopefully a few people will take note of the advice, now if you can go back to that site and find a post for 'is my cock big enough and should i shave it?' and our old friend 'why doesn't my ad work, theres only 10,000 others to look at?' we might be able to put the troll cannon back in the cupboard
Quote by Alexandra
I'd go one further alex... and say that a fair few blokes feel the same way...... that should get me hated in the chatrooms now!!!
a smile for me is as.... if not even more sexy.... than just seeing a pic of a body..... so to be honest the advice could go both ways........
intelligence and a smile are the first things i notice about a person.......
sean xxxxxxxxxxxx
'Eyes and Smiles, combined with a great sense of humour and being able to hold an intelligent conversation is a winning combination in my book!
and a nice butt :twisted: :giggle:
Warming the Bed
Quote by Alexandra
Being a member of a swinging site does not mean that you always have to throw the normal rules of common decency and repect for others.
Amen to that!
Being one half of a couple, I get to witness her reaction when she gets sent unsolicited cock shots. Hmm - most educational...
Not that she objects to cock shots per-se - but as an introduction? Get real! :)
Take care,
PJ
the only thing that chicken is good for is sunday roast ! You on the other hand...................... 
Well i'm sorry but it never fails to bemuse me as to why folk think their tackle is the key to a good photo. I'm male and I would never dream of representing myself to the great world wide interweb audience with nothing more than a picture of me manly bits 
:? I mean seriously I've had to look at it for 30 years and look at the damage its caused me. :silly:
:? I mean seriously I've had to look at it for 30 years and look at the damage its caused me. :silly: 
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......................................and a nice butt :twisted: :giggle:
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i cant say from a womans point fo view but from mine that is very true.
im a bi guy and looking in the men seeking men ads most of the ads seem to just have a cock pic, lets be honest most look similar anyway. I dont have any cock pics of myself, main reason is i dont have a digi cam. If i was meeting a female off her i wouldnt ask for her naked pics, its nicer to see them in the flesh for the first time.
im a bi guy and looking in the men seeking men ads most of the ads seem to just have a cock pic, lets be honest most look similar anyway. I dont have any cock pics of myself, main reason is i dont have a digi cam. If i was meeting a female off her i wouldnt ask for her naked pics, its nicer to see them in the flesh for the first time.
Quote by Alexandra
Absolutely spot on!
Here in the chatroom we have the same thing.
The women go on cam - and 99% of the time they have their faces on.
But the vast majority of the fellahs - chicken strangling!
(or Murder Most Foul (tm Voddy & terry))
Do they think they are being sexy? Perhaps they do..... I suspect it does more for them than the women who they are trying (and failing) to impress.
Personally I will only watch cams where I can see a face. I realise that some other women may be different, however from the people I have chatted to recently, I think I am probably in the majority.
So fellahs - if you want to charm someone on here - do it with your personality and face. You may just find you have better, quicker and far more satisfying results,
Being a member of a swinging site does not mean that you always have to throw the normal rules of common decency and repect for others.
Alex x
Perhaps they're one of the ugly singles who's cock is more attractive than they are
Quote by lee1983
i cant say from a womans point fo view but from mine that is very true.
im a bi guy and looking in the men seeking men ads most of the ads seem to just have a cock pic, lets be honest most look similar anyway. I dont have any cock pics of myself, main reason is i dont have a digi cam. If i was meeting a female off her i wouldnt ask for her naked pics, its nicer to see them in the flesh for the first time.
as this reply from this bi guy shows, it not only women who dont want the cock shot as an introduction, i mean would us guys really introduce ourselfs with are cocks out in a bar, gay or not?
Hey ffs... the old saying..."some girls do... some girls don't...." 
Guess not everyone's the same... so no pigeon holes ok?
Guys... that play the merry dance .... "please notice us!" take note...
the thing that cracks it is to Listen & Wise up... if the lady wants a cock shot 1st off... then give it too her... If she dont...?
Do NOT expect mensa to come a knocking! :giggle:
"some girls do... some girls don't...."
Guess not everyone's the same... so no pigeon holes ok?Guys... that play the merry dance .... "please notice us!" take note...
the thing that cracks it is to Listen & Wise up... if the lady wants a cock shot 1st off... then give it too her... If she dont...?
Do NOT expect mensa to come a knocking! :giggle:
"some girls do... some girls don't...."
