Scenario:
Vanilla person looks at the forum, sees that members of the site are allowed to run events at a profit and thinks 'I might become a swinger and make some money'
Just a thought
Still dont think it matters much. Still think choice is good as long as the scenario is made clear.
Aside from the issue of allowing events to be advertised where the purpose if for members to make a profit out of other members, there's one thing that really feels wrong to me. Why is it acceptable to charge an entry fee that varies according to gender?
I find this a fairly annoying trend in swinging clubs but to see it filter through into events organised by "the community" (that appear to be outside of the club arena) is something new and unwelcome in my view :sad:
to me swinging has always been a cottage industry, discreet and small scale. it took a couple with a strong open sex life to inspire events. the honesty of it was there in front of you and the choice was yours.
it seems that quality has been lost in the competitiveness of the new 'package tour' approach.
so i would say that this site and what it advertises and the members, are available to join your adventure, not to direct it.
b4 mrs "c" became ill last year we used to run the derby socials for a few years and found best way to avoid making a profit from the event was to count how many guests were on the list multiply it by per person deduct the costs (hire of room,disco,nibbles,balloons,cash prize to topless lady pool players etc)and purchased raffle prizes with the even paid ourselves to attend,lol.
It would be nice to be kept in the loop.
Wouldn't take much to bang a note on the forum.
When cases crop up which pose new 'problems' or require new 'interpretations' of the AUP, then they are discussed.
I can confirm that the event you are discussing is being looked at and discussed and Admin are considering what changes, if any, need to be made to social guidelines or the AUP.
I am sure that once those discussions have been finalised, a note will be placed in the relevant forum.
For the moment, it was requested that potential attendees be made aware that it was a commercial event and the organiser has done this. Again, it may well be that further steps are taken to clarify the situation in more detail.
I don't think it is a matter of people being kept out of the loop deliberately; it is more that Admin are having to react all the time to new situations whilst still maintaining the functioning of the site.
As I said, I'm fairly sure that as and when any changes are made then people will be informed.
Nola x
A small point of clarification:
For the purposes of this discussion there's a difference between a "commercial" venture/event, and a "profiteering" one.
I believe what is being trialled is a way to allow business' to promote their events on the site, for the potential benefit of the membership as a whole. I also believe there are no plans to change the non-profit status of munches or socials.
Also, as I mentioned above, if SH charges for these promotions, the price will just get added to the charge made to members who attend.
If I'm wrong then I'm sure St3v3 will be along to correct me. ;-)
FIO: the event was moved to the Clubs section early yesterday. It probably isn't the right one - we know and accept that. Until another choice is open to us this is the best we can do at the moment. As St3v3 said - its a trial only.
Members who are interested in any event listed on SH should ask the organiser about business registration/fire safety certificate/event details etc. If you don't receive enough information that's satisfactory to you - don't take it further.
Whilst the basic principle of advertising businesses on the site doesn't really present a problem as such, the implementation of the businesses out there in swingerland will create something else. I just wonder what people expect from it all.
Now this is interested as I have an empty property that I can hold weekly parties at or even hire the property out to those who want to host their own parties. I can post a thread stating weekly private party and charge people to attend. This would pay my loan on the property, rates and maintenance those who I decide attend would be happy as they have a private venue for parties.
It would be non profit making as I would only charge enough to cover my overheads. So who wants to party?