I just wondered how much u all thought that being compatible with your other half is important.
As a singleton who has decided to actively look for a relationship I'm finding it hard to meet guys who have the same interests as me - or am I being too picky?
I did a search for this and found a thread Roger The Dragon started but his was in a totally different context.
So...................does it really matter if your partner likes totally different things or does there have to be at least some middle ground?
It's not always important to have the same interests....i have different interests than my partner and its nice to share them every now and wouldn't want her to get bored by shoving them onto 's just as good to do your on thing as well.
my partner and i only share a couple of interests its nice to have a few little things that are common ground
if your looking for a long time relationship your going to want to have something you can natter about so if say there into history its nice to be able to at leat show an interest
so that kinda sums it up as long as you are interested in other things you dont have to like the same things
did i ramble then
vik
It is important for two people to be compatible in personal qualities, but interests? Not necessarily. I have learnt a lot of new things from the interests of partners over the years, things I would never otherwise have learnt about - it's good to be open to becoming interested in new things anyway, and sharing each others' can be fun.
At the same time a couple should also be honest and acknowledge it if a partner's interest is not at allinteresting, and both can be okay with that!
Mike.
