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Ok, this is a kinda take off from the wet area shagging....
Now a lot of us are in long term relationships and i doubt for a second that we all use condoms with our own partners.... correct me if im wrong here..
but
If you were in a club and saw a couple playing without protection would you play with them if they asked? im meaning safely with condoms... i know there are some folk who only go to clubs and have sex with their mates, what if they changed their minds and wanted another couple to join them...
would you think twice because of the no condom state they were in earlier?
me personally i only play with a condom on in a club...so as long as they respect my decision on that then i am okay....
We can never be sure that someone hasn't been playing without condoms at any stage. When you arrange a meet, they might never have used them, only said they had dunno
Having said that, no, I wouldn't play with someone I knew to be having unsave sex.
yeah, i have to say i probably wouldnt either, but i think it would feel a bit odd having sex with my bloke using a condom agan.... its been a long time..
saying that, you are right, you are never sure if people have been practicing safe sex or not, as long as they use condoms with you/us it shouldnt make a difference
Quote by Nicola&Alan
If you were in a club and saw a couple playing without protection would you play with them if they asked?

Yes. As long as I practice safe sex with them, what's the problem? I am protecting myself, what does it matter what they do with others, elsewhere? confused
I would join in but only with a condom on. and certainly not without one
and then there is the FFM kinda scenario too... I've yet to meet a man who stops to change condoms when changing pussies in 3-way play confused :shock: evil
Quote by Libra+Love
I've yet to meet a man who stops to change condoms when changing pussies in 3-way play ? :shock: evil

I've met men that have... when told to
Quote by Libra+Love
and then there is the FFM kinda scenario too... I've yet to meet a man who stops to change condoms when changing pussies in 3-way play ? :shock: evil

really..... I have always done that....wow!!! i thought most people would!!!
but just to re-iterate what blue said.. in a sense you are protecting the most important person to you.. which is yourself, if others want to take that risk it is up to them, but i know i am not taking that risk with me.....
strap it up! before you whack it up!
simple wink
Especially as you are talking about people which probably change partners a lot I find doing it without condoms very risky
condoms are a must when having a shag
I would but I'd use (as always) protection myself. We went to a club once where the couple we went with told us that they don't usually bother - we told them that we always do and they were cool.
If they want 2 play that way fine surprised
But i'd always want my mac on wink
My safety cums 1st biggrin
Quote by Libra+Love
and then there is the FFM kinda scenario too... I've yet to meet a man who stops to change condoms when changing pussies in 3-way play confused :shock: evil

You've obviously never played with me then...
Quote by sword
If they want 2 play that way fine surprised
But i'd always want my mac on wink
My safety cums 1st biggrin

Not everyone is happy with you bringing your 'puter to bed, though.
Love me, love my Mac.
personally i wouldnt play with anyone whom i had seen having unsafe sex unless it was only with their own partner. It amazes me the amount of ppl out there who have asked us if we would play without protection needless to say we have never met any of them. You never know a persons history and no matter what u should always protect ur self
Mrs B
I bought 100 condoms on ebay for £4. They came from Thailand but seem to be just a little too snug for my men wink
Anybody want them?...free lol
Quote by Libra+Love
I bought 100 condoms on ebay for £4. They came from Thailand but seem to be just a little too snug for my men wink
Anybody want them?...free lol

They're still be too big for me ..... :lol:
Well I always play with a condom on regardless ( well i'm not in a relationship ) and I WOULD change condoms between ladies if I ever got lucky enough to have 2 at the same time as I would if going from pussy to anal and change again before going back to pussy since the risks of infection are huge for the woman.
Hey guys and galls its only sex , you life is worth more than a bit of fun protect yourself you'll live longer ( especially if you end up giving some gall an std and her hubby decides to knee cap yer lol )
Davie :twisted:
Quote by da69ve
I bought 100 condoms on ebay for £4. They came from Thailand but seem to be just a little too snug for my men wink
Anybody want them?...free lol

They're still be too big for me ..... :lol:
I know. I've heard :shock: :giggle: bolt
Thank god it's not just me then da69ve!! biggrin :D :D
So do you guys want them, or do I give them to the kids to make water-bombs with?
Threads like this always make me laugh, people commenting on others not using condoms, so what? does it matter to you who does and don't use condoms? so long as u protect yourself what does it matter? if your not happy with someone don't play with them, we are all adults and do as we chose, not everyone like condoms and thats their choice, right or wrong, so long as your covered thats all that should matter to you, if you want 2 be covered that is lol
Can I have the waterbombs please?
Quote by naughtynymphos1
Threads like this always make me laugh, people commenting on others not using condoms, so what? does it matter to you who does and don't use condoms? so long as u protect yourself what does it matter? if your not happy with someone don't play with them, we are all adults and do as we chose, not everyone like condoms and thats their choice, right or wrong, so long as your covered thats all that should matter to you, if you want 2 be covered that is lol

I will second that but......
This thread does give me an opportunity to say how good Durex Tingles are!!!! It means I can talk about condoms without having to start another boring thread! wink
And to the person who introduced me to the tingles! passionkiss
Roger the Dragon cool
Quote by rogerthedragon
Threads like this always make me laugh, people commenting on others not using condoms, so what? does it matter to you who does and don't use condoms? so long as u protect yourself what does it matter? if your not happy with someone don't play with them, we are all adults and do as we chose, not everyone like condoms and thats their choice, right or wrong, so long as your covered thats all that should matter to you, if you want 2 be covered that is lol

I will second that but......
This thread does give me an opportunity to say how good Durex Tingles are!!!! It means I can talk about condoms without having to start another boring thread! wink
And to the person who introduced me to the tingles! passionkiss
Roger the Dragon cool
whats are durex tingles? besides condoms i mean i can work that much out lol
Quote by naughtynymphos1
whats are durex tingles? besides condoms i mean i can work that much out lol

They have a rather nice cooling sensation when used, a bit like I would imagine having your bits dipped in toothpaste would be. They are very good! Apparently they give a very good sensation for the woman as well - or so she said! wink
Would that be similar to mint lube? We tried that, I liked it, Mrs TnH hated it... Horses for courses smile
Quote by tallnhairy
Would that be similar to mint lube? We tried that, I liked it, Mrs TnH hated it... Horses for courses smile

That sounds like it - I guess not everyones thing but if they work for both of you definately more fun than ordinary ones.