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Do any other guys have a problem with condoms?, first of all I had better explain the only I person who I do not use one with is Em, the Mrs, and I would never risk not using one because only a fool takes risks like that . . . but I hate them! They just take all those nice feeling away and sometimes I even have a problem getting there, is it just me?
Dave.
No it is not you. The feeling for me is just nothing like bareback , but if it's a choice between the condom and not doing it , then condom it is . Doing it without and dying horribly is not an option , the above are the choices .
I always take longer to come which may not be a bad thing ask the ladies , and sometimes have to come out and be finished off by hand .
Anyone here old enough to remember the 70s before safe sex ? The way we all behaved then !
Well, my wife's an old fashioned gel.... she'll screw around, she'll swallow, she'll do anal, but she will NOT use condoms.... she never has, and says she never will... she has me, a regular boyf who's been on the scene for two years now, and one Friday a month she goes out with the intention of getting a stranger.. a one night stand every month for the past twelve years... and no rubber used... she says when she fucks, she wants to feel that she's full....
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No it is not you.....
Anyone here old enough to remember the 70s before safe sex ? The way we all behaved then !

I remember the late 70s and early 80's. That was MY time. We were all "Shagging for England"
Then came the dreaded A word. We looked; we considered; we thought "F*ck It, we've all got to go some time"
Clap/std (call it what you will) was always considered an occupational hazard af the single soldier.
I have always had and continue to have regular 'check ups'
Yes, I know there's the in between period but i strongly believe that the worst part of a dose (remember the 70s) is not in catching it - but in passing it on.
So I would say - Don't bury your head in the sand; but jump in with both feet ONLY if you have your eyes wide open. (How many cliches allowed per post??)
We all have to deal with THE END at some point. Don't dwell on it, don't wait for it. But when it comes say "Hello, you must be for me. I've had a good time. Do your worst/best"
However - with maturity (yeah right) came manners. If the lady prefers a condom; then so be it.
The sad truth is - sex with or no sex without; you choose.
guys i can't even begin to imagine what it must feel (or not) like to shag with condoms, but for me it's no glove no love sorry guys
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........, but for me it's no glove no love sorry guys

I refer the Honourable Lady to the answer I gave a short time ago.
STILL trying to work out how to change my name to Temptation.
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....... no glove no love sorry guys

yeah i agree with that...
altought having sex a couple of times without a comdon
............ n might i add plently of time with one
i must say its much more pleasurable without one on..
u get like a whole different feeling!! cant even discribe it really
n yeah it does tak longer to cum.. altought i havent had to finish off by hand yet...
i have had occassions with partners that i've not used condoms,but in the swinging context of things i think that it's only responsible to use i'd rather not use them,cos i'm not a fan of them either!
Dambuster is your avatar a pic of yourself? I always wanted to go safari :twisted:
Try some of those polyeurethane (SP?) condoms like Durex Avanti - as the stuff (no I'm not going to try to spell it again) they are made of is so much stronger than latex, they are much thinner. They also conduct heat much better so it is altogether a much more natural feeling.
Is there any info on how the prtoect. The body heat thing is an issue , I know girls say they feel cold .
I have to agree with tee_em_aitch... the durx avanti condoms are a lot better than most, the feeling, heat and sensation is much better, however nothing is as good as bareback.
But I feel that in this day and age we should (if we have varied and new partners) always wear protection, and I have turned down some invitations due to not wanting to perform bareback (my loss I guess?)
Condoms always make me last much longer which probably isnt such a bad thing redface
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Dambuster is your avatar a pic of yourself? I always wanted to go safari :twisted:

Question is; colud this be you????
As for safari - you bring the paint...........:twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
i'm crap at drawing but i could do my best Rolf Harris impression "can you tell what it is yet!" biggrin
"The question is" in my last post above didn't work. I'll try to have another go at that during the weekend when i have a better connection.
BTW - My solicitor tells me that I don't need deed poll to change my name.
If i want to be 'known as' all I have to do is say so. lol