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Quote by lucyfingers
really not a fan, but they are essential, all the common sense posts on here are the right ones. I accept that BJs with condoms are a drag but do bear in mind that gonnococcal tonsiltis is a real diagnosis! Sorry to spoil your fun
ps Berks Bex I have a plan since our last pm, please feel free to pm me about it

so do you cover up a woman b4 u go down on her or do you just skip that bit? lol
Quote by naughtynymphos1
really not a fan, but they are essential, all the common sense posts on here are the right ones. I accept that BJs with condoms are a drag but do bear in mind that gonnococcal tonsiltis is a real diagnosis! Sorry to spoil your fun
ps Berks Bex I have a plan since our last pm, please feel free to pm me about it

so do you cover up a woman b4 u go down on her or do you just skip that bit? lol
oh god no, not the dental dam topic again :lol:
Quote by Amber
I can completely feel the difference with or without. I much prefer without, also it feels more intimate....but would never in a million years not use one in a swinging or casual scenario.

what she said! :thumbup:
and its the 'stop...halt everything...put the condom on' thing that really kills the passion - you know, that couple of seconds that really could be likened to ' i'll take your pussy...right after i've finished putting up this shelf/ watching the match/ me pint' , when inside your screaming 'for fook's sake take me NOW! ' :fuckinghell:
:lol2:
no I dont, cos the real risk is low but it is real nonetheless. You have to decide how much of a risk you are prepared to take. After all we are all going to die one day. You may just be choosing the method not the timing.
Shit this is a bit too philosophical for this time of the evening and I have only had one glass of wine so far!
getting away from the the subject just a little! lol Ive never used a dental dam and they sort of defeat the the object for me because i go down there as much for myself as i do the lady i just love the taste :thumbup:
Quote by bisto kid
getting away from the the subject just a little! lol Ive never used a dental dam and they sort of defeat the the object for me because i go down there as much for myself as i do the lady i just love the taste :thumbup:

Excuse my ignorance, but, a what?? dunno
Quote by naughtynymphos1
I
it's hard work sucking when condom is on.....

Uggghhh... nope, I hate sucking rubber sad
I only ever do bare back blow jobs unless it's someone totally random or someone dodgy. Fucking - yep, rubber, got to be. Sucking - nope, bleurghhh!
haha I agree! well I was referring back to when NN said that condoms make guys soft, trying to get them hard again is no easy thing with a condom on.
i would never give a guy a bj with a condom on if i ever spoke to a guy/couple who insisted on condoms during 4play i'm afraid i'd look elsewhere confused
ah no my point was missed, I don’t like foreplay with condoms either. There is nothing hornier than tasting a guy that is really turned on. I was just saying that having put a condom on, then the guy goes soft, what can you do? A little suck does the trick I find to keep him all the vanilla and chocolate flavoured condoms aren’t too bad you know…..dont know if they have a marmite range. :P
Quote by gareth_gruff
getting away from the the subject just a little! lol Ive never used a dental dam and they sort of defeat the the object for me because i go down there as much for myself as i do the lady i just love the taste :thumbup:

Excuse my ignorance, but, a what?? dunno
he likes the taste of women and doesn't want a dental dam (like thick clingfilm as protection) to get in the way smile
Quote by gareth_gruff
getting away from the the subject just a little! lol Ive never used a dental dam and they sort of defeat the the object for me because i go down there as much for myself as i do the lady i just love the taste :thumbup:

Excuse my ignorance, but, a what?? dunno
My ignorance is little better than yours! But i know you put them on your tongue during cunilingus to stop sexually transmited diseases..... Ladys could you explain in more detail please smile
Quote by bisto kid
getting away from the the subject just a little! lol Ive never used a dental dam and they sort of defeat the the object for me because i go down there as much for myself as i do the lady i just love the taste :thumbup:

Excuse my ignorance, but, a what?? dunno
My ignorance is little better than yours! But i know you put them on your tongue during cunilingus to stop sexually transmited diseases..... Ladys could you explain in more detail please smile
You can get them in all different psychedelic colours too!
Do not use them on me though, I like to feel tongue :P
Quote by bisto kid
getting away from the the subject just a little! lol Ive never used a dental dam and they sort of defeat the the object for me because i go down there as much for myself as i do the lady i just love the taste :thumbup:

Excuse my ignorance, but, a what?? dunno
My ignorance is little better than yours! But i know you put them on your tongue during cunilingus to stop sexually transmited diseases..... Ladys could you explain in more detail please smile
Have a look here >>http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/60586.html
Quote by lucyfingers
really not a fan, but they are essential, all the common sense posts on here are the right ones. I accept that BJs with condoms are a drag but do bear in mind that gonnococcal tonsiltis is a real diagnosis! Sorry to spoil your fun
ps Berks Bex I have a plan since our last pm, please feel free to pm me about it

Erm you have PM too and now you have me all in suspenders about a if it involves handcuffs count me in. :P lol
Bloody hate them.....but the wife has just had the implant so don't need them anymore with her.....but when we swing they are a must!
Quote by SauciSpouse
getting away from the the subject just a little! lol Ive never used a dental dam and they sort of defeat the the object for me because i go down there as much for myself as i do the lady i just love the taste :thumbup:

Excuse my ignorance, but, a what?? dunno
My ignorance is little better than yours! But i know you put them on your tongue during cunilingus to stop sexually transmited diseases..... Ladys could you explain in more detail please smile
Have a look here >>http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/60586.html
Crikey!! Condoms a must, but can't say I'll be turning up anywhere with a pack of these fella's. Sure they're not off cuts from the washing up glove factory?
Quote by gareth_gruff
getting away from the the subject just a little! lol Ive never used a dental dam and they sort of defeat the the object for me because i go down there as much for myself as i do the lady i just love the taste :thumbup:

Excuse my ignorance, but, a what?? dunno
My ignorance is little better than yours! But i know you put them on your tongue during cunilingus to stop sexually transmited diseases..... Ladys could you explain in more detail please smile
Have a look here >>http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/60586.html
Crikey!! Condoms a must, but can't say I'll be turning up anywhere with a pack of these fella's. Sure they're not off cuts from the washing up glove factory?
This site is educational isn’t it? :lol:

This site is educational isn’t it? lol
Most definately, I've *never* heard of them in my life!
Quote by gareth_gruff

This site is educational isn’t it? lol

Most definately, I've *never* heard of them in my life!
Ah well there you go....anything else you need to be enlightened on? wink
Condoms really don't bother me at all, I guess I'm just used to them! lol
Quote by berksbex

This site is educational isn’t it? lol
Most definately, I've *never* heard of them in my life!
Ah well there you go....anything else you need to be enlightened on? wink
Plenty!! But that would be abusing a kind offer!
Quote by gareth_gruff

This site is educational isn’t it? lol
Most definately, I've *never* heard of them in my life!
Ah well there you go....anything else you need to be enlightened on? wink
Plenty!! But that would be abusing a kind offer!
Ah noooo it wouldn't. Im a natural (teacher that is)
Quote by gareth_gruff

This site is educational isn’t it? lol

Most definately, I've *never* heard of them in my life!
You're prob not a lesbian then! smile
I think they're mostly known by gay girls (and dentists) rather than straight guys.
Quote by Emily

This site is educational isn’t it? lol

Most definately, I've *never* heard of them in my life!
You're prob not a lesbian then! smile
I think they're mostly known by gay girls (and dentists) rather than straight guys.
Unfortunately not a lesbian, but surely that takes all the sensation out of it?
gareth do you have a goat called billy biggrin
i totally understand what lesbians use them for, its what dentists do with them that puzzels me!!!!!!
Quote by markz
gareth do you have a goat called billy biggrin

Regretably not. The name comes from my lazy mates who feel the word 'Gareth' is too long and shorten it to Gruff or just 'G'.... I do have a toy furry Badger called Eric if it's any good?
Quote by berksbex

This site is educational isn’t it? lol
Most definately, I've *never* heard of them in my life!
Ah well there you go....anything else you need to be enlightened on? wink
Plenty!! But that would be abusing a kind offer!
Ah noooo it wouldn't. Im a natural (teacher that is)
Well I like to think i'm a natural student!! :wink:
Quote by SauciSpouse
getting away from the the subject just a little! lol Ive never used a dental dam and they sort of defeat the the object for me because i go down there as much for myself as i do the lady i just love the taste :thumbup:

Excuse my ignorance, but, a what?? dunno
My ignorance is little better than yours! But i know you put them on your tongue during cunilingus to stop sexually transmited diseases..... Ladys could you explain in more detail please smile
Have a look here >>http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/60586.html
Oh! biggrin I've been referenced! Is this as good as being certified?
Quote by pinkruth
Personally I don't like condoms, I like to feel friction between me and my respective partner when we're doing the deed, so to speak.
I can be persuded with a ribbed one though, those I do like.

I must place that order again with my exclusive supplier for some extra sensual double sided super corrugated ones!
Quote by naughtynymphos1
I
it's hard work sucking when condom is on.....

Uggghhh... nope, I hate sucking rubber sad
I only ever do bare back blow jobs unless it's someone totally random or someone dodgy. Fucking - yep, rubber, got to be. Sucking - nope, bleurghhh!
haha I agree! well I was referring back to when NN said that condoms make guys soft, trying to get them hard again is no easy thing with a condom on.
i would never give a guy a bj with a condom on if i ever spoke to a guy/couple who insisted on condoms during 4play i'm afraid i'd look elsewhere confused
Have to agree, the idea of sucking rubber is gross..now way could I do that....revolting.
As for during sex, I really hate condoms but (as most people seem ot agree) it's a necessary evil when fucking people you don't know, happy to go without with those I know and trust. I just find that, after about ten minutes I start to feel the rubber, I think it makes me dry up a little, whereas without I don't get that problem at all. :( :shock:
No it's not allowed and will be removed :shock: