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Confidence .. clothes on or off ??

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Quote by Noel
I hate wearing clothes. If I could get away with permanently living in my shorts I would biggrin

Thats strange confused You seem to have a problem when a few of us girlies tried removing your clothes dunno
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Quote by Dawnie
I hate wearing clothes. If I could get away with permanently living in my shorts I would biggrin

Thats strange confused You seem to have a problem when a few of us girlies tried removing your clothes dunno
:giggle:
rotflmao :rotflmao: I have pictures of that as well innocent
I seem to recall him being rather scared about retrieving his t-shirt from someone's cleavage as well :giggle:
Quote by Shireen
I hate wearing clothes. If I could get away with permanently living in my shorts I would biggrin

Thats strange confused You seem to have a problem when a few of us girlies tried removing your clothes dunno
:giggle:
rotflmao :rotflmao: I have pictures of that as well innocent
I seem to recall him being rather scared about retrieving his t-shirt from someone's cleavage as well :giggle:
This reminds me of a time when I had 6 women trying to remove my clothes and... I was absolutely scared, trying my best to keep them on - in the end they gave up.
OMG - I was so young and FOOLISH! :? A once in a life time chance and I fooked it up!
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Quote by jaymar
im not one for confidence anyway, but a while back i got bullied into wearing a tuxedo for a munch, felt very awkward, but by the end of the night, had some lovely compliments from some peoples whose opinion i value, so by the end of the night, i was feeling very confident, so yes, clothes can help

I would have loved to have seen you in a tux... I get verrrry turned on by a man in a nice suit. redface wink
He looked very yummy :twisted:
Quote by Freckledbird
im not one for confidence anyway, but a while back i got bullied into wearing a tuxedo for a munch, felt very awkward, but by the end of the night, had some lovely compliments from some peoples whose opinion i value, so by the end of the night, i was feeling very confident, so yes, clothes can help

I would have loved to have seen you in a tux... I get verrrry turned on by a man in a nice suit. redface wink
He looked very yummy :twisted:
seconded :thumbup:
in edit: not too sure about the 'bullied' thing though confused poke
I think back to when I was 18 -20 , very skinny & use to wear a padded bra. Problem was when I took it off there was nothing there - He didnt get what he thought thats for sure. Now im older & a little bigger I no longer need a padded bra.
So somethings about getting older is cool!
Quote by Freckledbird
Definitely more confident with clothes on.

Ditto... well at least to start wink
Half and half...I feel sexy and confident in nice lingerie...less confident either side of that
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I'm more confident with clothes on but as time moves on getting more comfortable being out of clothes.
When abroad a couple of years back I went into a mixed sauna, thought I'd have been more aware of my nakedness than I was.
Quote by Abilene
Ok I admit that when I am naked I am very aware that my stomach is not as flat as it was when I was 18, that my thighs are not as firm as when I was 18 and then my breasts don't sit where they did when I was 18. Oh FFS why was I not having a shit load of sex when I was 18 ?!?!?

Are you looking at your partner/people at the munch/ people in a club and thinking, 'hmmm, they've got a bit of a podgy belly, look at the cellulite on their thighs'??
Most likely not, and the same goes for them, most people would never notice the 'issues' that you notice about yourself, so I say to hell with being worried about how you look, everyone looks gorgeous, and the more you think like you don't give a damn, the better you will feel!!
easier said than done, eh!
Speaking from my own male perspective I think women look wonderful with their clothes own body is a far from perfect example of a manly physique so I am not expecting women to be like perfect models in return!
Being naked together feels relaxed and natural and sexually it makes so much possible,and in that situation I have never looked at anyone and thought they are too this or not enough that or whatever,I've just been thrilled to be there with them sharing the pleasure in that amazing moment.
I am very shy and have no confidence at all rolleyes