New to this but, I can make tomorrow, I have meeting in Manchester but can work around it.
Post a reply or email me "pete" dot "b" at
Hope I can do that?
Cya
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Quote by PeteC999
New to this but, I can make tomorrow, I have meeting in Manchester but can work around it.
Post a reply or email me "pete" dot "b" at
Hope I can do that?
Cya
I'm confused! In your very first post you wrote:
Dislikes
Men (for sex that is)
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/42205.htm
and now you're replying to a bi-male????
:? :? 
Sex God
Quote by PeteC999
"pete" dot "b" at
What's with the spelling out of your email address? How strange!
It was late, very late and it was a long day 
I just saw "Raven"
Didn't even see the m, and as for spelling out my email, like I said I'm new and sometimes forums don't like you putting your email address (they filter them out, obviously not this one.
Like I said I'm new to this, lol
Anyway at least I gave a few people a giggle
:shock: :shock:
I just saw "Raven"Didn't even see the m, and as for spelling out my email, like I said I'm new and sometimes forums don't like you putting your email address (they filter them out, obviously not this one.
Like I said I'm new to this, lol
Anyway at least I gave a few people a giggle
:shock: :shock: Sex God
Quote by PeteC999
sometimes forums don't like you putting your email address (they filter them out, obviously not this one.
Well, us mods can read email addresses even if they are in disguise.... we are real people, not machines (apparently :borg: ). We allow email addresses in posts provided it is the email address you have registered with us on the forum - as your's was
. If you had included an email address (even in disguise!) that wasn't your registered one, we would have deleted it. 
Thanks Blue, I wasn't trying to be naughty, I just know systems are put in place (automated) to stop email address's, but these are normally on those money grabbing non-guenuine sites.
It appears this site has no hidden agenda, apart from sex that is, you need try to hide this a little better
I cannot express how glad I am to find this site, just hope my wife never catches me :cry: I'm a frustrated sex monster (well I've got the face for it anyway)
Thx
Cya l8r
P.S. Real people as admin, what next free forums and adverts, the world is falling appart :D
It appears this site has no hidden agenda, apart from sex that is, you need try to hide this a little better
I cannot express how glad I am to find this site, just hope my wife never catches me :cry: I'm a frustrated sex monster (well I've got the face for it anyway)
Thx
Cya l8r
P.S. Real people as admin, what next free forums and adverts, the world is falling appart :D
Quote by PeteC999
I cannot express how glad I am to find this site, just hope my wife never catches me :cry: I'm a frustrated sex monster (well I've got the face for it anyway)
D
Mmmmmmmmm - that could be a problem here - not many people into cheating. Expect opposition now.
read this
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/terminology/swinging.html
Better to be honest
Anyway I seen loads of the ad's saying (my fella don't know etc), I don't care, and I wish she didn't too :D
I thought this was an open minded place? After all only I know my situation and I should not be judged without at least a trial (so you can trail me on 1'st May, in Blackpool at the........)
Anyway I seen loads of the ad's saying (my fella don't know etc), I don't care, and I wish she didn't too :D
I thought this was an open minded place? After all only I know my situation and I should not be judged without at least a trial (so you can trail me on 1'st May, in Blackpool at the........)
I thought this was an open minded place?So anyone who does not agree with you is closed minded?
sounds judgemental to me. After all, you do not know the situation of the people who consider that your cheating is not part of swinging.I think you will find that for most people who object to cheating - it is not you they are considering, it is your wife.
lhk
Kat
Quote by PeteC999
Iv'e started a debate!
KitKat, not at all, everyone to thier own I say, live and let live. Maybe she really knows and lets me do it?
Anyway I didn't come on here to get therapy
Cya l8r
I wouldn't be so rude to other people here - it's not liked. Kat was giving sound advice in a civilized manner.
You're right, other people won't be interested in you now that you have shown such disrepect for your wife. You're on the wrong site here and recent events have shown that the majority of members here are not prepared to CHEAT!
Read some past threads and then re-evaluate your position - friendly advice given freely.
I think you do yourself too much credit by claiming to have 'started a debate'
In your first post you said:
You have had your advice, you claim to offer No Strings Attached sex, yet you arrive in here with not just a string attached, but with a bloody great ball and chain attached.
Then you accuse everyone who does not like what you are doing as close minded and judgmental, before anyone has even said a word to you about it.
What type of first impression do you think you have given of yourself?
Kat
In your first post you said:
Reply with advice or intrested parties.
You have had your advice, you claim to offer No Strings Attached sex, yet you arrive in here with not just a string attached, but with a bloody great ball and chain attached.
Then you accuse everyone who does not like what you are doing as close minded and judgmental, before anyone has even said a word to you about it.
What type of first impression do you think you have given of yourself?
Kat
Sex God
... Yeah, what Kat said, but collectively insulting the mods when you don't know the first thing about us doesn't help your case either.
But good luck.... may your time on SH be unsuccessful
Ooops, did I really say that last bit out loud
Ha
:lol: :lol:
But good luck.... may your time on SH be unsuccessful
Ooops, did I really say that last bit out loud
Ha
:lol: :lol: OK, let me start again
All my comments to mods are made in jest e.g. (back off) they normally have a smile and were meant to give you "the mods" a laugh obviously I failed, my apologies.
The "others" , that was meant to mean "I'm sure people reading these posts are interested in other things than myself and my life" (as you rightly said, Jags) and I don't know anyone well enough to say friends, guys, mates or even by name. I meant just anyone reading or visiting.
Now, I know there are people on here that don't approve but I could have just pretended I was single and got away with it, which I believe to be worse than what I currently do.
Everything I write is always in jest, and I never mean to have a go or judge anyone so if I have given that impression, I’m sorry.
Debate, again having a laugh at myself, meaning I couldn't start a debate if I wanted to.
Finally, please smile. I didn’t come on here to make enemies.
All my comments to mods are made in jest e.g. (back off) they normally have a smile and were meant to give you "the mods" a laugh obviously I failed, my apologies.
The "others" , that was meant to mean "I'm sure people reading these posts are interested in other things than myself and my life" (as you rightly said, Jags) and I don't know anyone well enough to say friends, guys, mates or even by name. I meant just anyone reading or visiting.
Now, I know there are people on here that don't approve but I could have just pretended I was single and got away with it, which I believe to be worse than what I currently do.
Everything I write is always in jest, and I never mean to have a go or judge anyone so if I have given that impression, I’m sorry.
Debate, again having a laugh at myself, meaning I couldn't start a debate if I wanted to.
Finally, please smile. I didn’t come on here to make enemies.
Sex God
Quote by PeteC999
All my comments to mods are made in jest
Really. Well, this "trained chimp" isn't amused.
If you think it is better to be honest to us and people you meet about being a cheating husband, why not just run that point by your wife and she what she thinks.... do come back and tell us what she said btw
OK you have told me enough now, I have apologised and I really can't do any more.
Just to put you in the picture, my wife is crippled, has been for years, now some men would leave her, but thats not me, I could hurt her by asking if I could have sex with other women but I think that would make her feel inadequate, or I could get a little when I can via this, judge me if you want.
Now I didn't think I'd be telling anyone that for a long time!!
P.S. I don't want anyone feeling bad, you where not to know and I wasn't going to put my first post up saying "I want to shag because....."
Just to put you in the picture, my wife is crippled, has been for years, now some men would leave her, but thats not me, I could hurt her by asking if I could have sex with other women but I think that would make her feel inadequate, or I could get a little when I can via this, judge me if you want.
Now I didn't think I'd be telling anyone that for a long time!!
P.S. I don't want anyone feeling bad, you where not to know
and I wasn't going to put my first post up saying "I want to shag because....." I dont approve of cheating at all so cant condone what Pete's doing.
But equally it isnt my place to condone or otherwise.
At least he has been honest unlike some guys who claim to be single and aren't
As i said cheating is a big no no to me, but I think he has been given the views of people on here without nailing him to the wall over it.
Not my cup of tea pete, but hi anyway
But equally it isnt my place to condone or otherwise.
At least he has been honest unlike some guys who claim to be single and aren't
As i said cheating is a big no no to me, but I think he has been given the views of people on here without nailing him to the wall over it.
Not my cup of tea pete, but hi anyway
Thanks fun_couple1981, Yea, I understand your / thier point of view but they need to look at it from my side of the fence or even better don't judge people (like you are not judging me) , I didn't want to lie and I didn't want to tell them my problems until I knew them a little better and I was horney (that horney I almost went BI )
I don't blame them for my life but I don't think I should be blamed either, anyway "Admin" delete these posts :lol: and let me start all over again. lets talk about sex or something
)I don't blame them for my life but I don't think I should be blamed either, anyway "Admin" delete these posts :lol: and let me start all over again. lets talk about sex or something
Sex God
Quote by PeteC999
OK you have told me enough now, I have apologised and I really can't do any more.
Just to put you in the picture, my wife is crippled, has been for years, now some men would leave her, but thats not me, I could hurt her by asking if I could have sex with other women but I think that would make her feel inadequate, or I could get a little when I can via this, judge me if you want.
Now I didn't think I'd be telling anyone that for a long time!!
P.S. I don't want anyone feeling bad, you where not to know
I doubt you'll make anyone feel bad about your wife being crippled. You won't have endeared many people to you either, even those people who might consider playing with cheats.
Want a shovel?
