Does there have to be a connection / a click for you before you meet or have sex with someone? For me there has to be a spark but I've spoken to others who say the less connection the better for them the not knowing the other makes it for them
Heck no .. no connection required ... it's just different when there is one. Since there are thousands of guys who, although not gay, will have sex with other guys, the chances of there being "a connection" is remote. So it is, quite often, with straight sex. When a person, male or female, makes a 'phone call and hires an escort for half an hour, the outcome is not going to be dependent upon there being a connection.
There will be all sorts of responses to the contrary, mostly by those wishing to state that for them there has to be a connection. The topic has been touched on before, and we'll hear the "any hole will do" comments no doubt. But if we think about it, where's that connection when we have a wank? ... over porn or otherwise?