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Not for the first time I've seen someone type into a chatroom "going out with my gf later and she will be really drunk, anyone near by want to come and fuck her while I watch?"
Heres a little video on the subject of consent that explains the concept really very well evil
Absolutely brilliant Kat :thumbup:
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But most of them are just dreamers anyway Kat!

Dreamers or not the video clip contains an important message, and put across in the simplest and most effective way ;)
Single profiles offering wife pic swap in chat sits a little uneasy too.
If wifes into it why you got a single profile?
Not saying there may be occasions its all up and above board, but in general hmmmm not so sure
Site policy is pretty clear on these matters:
- Single profile = single person using the Site.
- Couple's profile where wife unaware = change to single profile.
- Swinging is a 100% consensual act and anyone who thinks otherwise doesn't belong here.
If anyone spots someone who doesn't adhere to the above please feel free to report the incident so we can take appropriate action.
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Quote by minikat
Not for the first time I've seen someone type into a chatroom "going out with my gf later and she will be really drunk, anyone near by want to come and fuck her while I watch?"
Heres a little video on the subject of consent that explains the concept really very well evil
Consent is a simple as a cup of tea

Fancy a cup of tea Kat? innocent
Quote by SinSi
Not for the first time I've seen someone type into a chatroom "going out with my gf later and she will be really drunk, anyone near by want to come and fuck her while I watch?"
Heres a little video on the subject of consent that explains the concept really very well evil
Consent is a simple as a cup of tea

Fancy a cup of tea Kat? innocent
No ta SinSi im washing me hair ;)
The law is quite clear too...if they're not able to consent then it's not consent and too drunk renders people unable to consent. Mind I'm not sure what the cut off point between tipsy and too drunk is. It's a minefield out there...
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The law is quite clear too...if they're not able to consent then it's not consent and too drunk renders people unable to consent. Mind I'm not sure what the cut off point between tipsy and too drunk is. It's a minefield out there...

The law has been changed (or at least is changing) which itimates that a female, who has imbibed alcohol, is not capable of consent.
So you are absolutely correct that it is a minefield. It implies that if you are a guy or a girl and you sleep with a woman or a guy who has had a glass of wine, you potentially have no defence if later, there is regret and compalints involved.
The vid that was posted is a great explanation of what consent is and covers not only sex, but many other facets of life, such as giving someone at work, too much workload because they performed well, the last time a pile of work was dumped on them.
Back to the context of sexual consent, I have always respected what the other person wants and more importantly, what they don't want. Some want it all and others do not. At the same time, the women and couples I have been with have also respected my own boundaries so what I consented to and what they consented to led to some enjoyable nights (and days :twistedsmile
Like everything in life, we need baselines to work from and consent should always be NO means NO, no matter the situation and no matter the person.
I hope this made sense, because I have had a bottle of wine to drink!
All the best,
Bell
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Ffs!
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Site policy is pretty clear on these matters:
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Ffs!
I think, perhaps that you aimed that FFS at me.
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Site policy is pretty clear on these matters:
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Ffs!
I think, perhaps that you aimed that FFS at me.
Nope.... Definately not you. ;)
FFS = Franz Ferdinand Sparks at Glastonbury - excellent set, just sayin ;)