Advertised before. Obviously not done it well as no replies. It's our first time so not sure how to go about it e.g meeting someone etc
Any tips or anyone willing to teach?? Don't want first experience turn out to be something we will feel bad about or regret. looking for someone in near future really or ill never do it
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hafryn
there are no short cuts or hard and fast rules. you just have to get known on here and get to know folk. it happens in time. how long it takes for the right one is anyones 't rush it cos it can be a disaster. be choosy and make sure it's what you want. just chill for a while and join in.
neil x x x ;)
there are no short cuts or hard and fast rules. you just have to get known on here and get to know folk. it happens in time. how long it takes for the right one is anyones 't rush it cos it can be a disaster. be choosy and make sure it's what you want. just chill for a while and join in.
neil x x x ;)
Sex God
Big welcome.
It's a good idea to use the cafe to get to make friends.
Straightforward "I want sex" ads in Lets Meet Up depend a lot on how they're percieved by the peeps.
Er, they do work!
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Good luck!!!!!
It's a good idea to use the cafe to get to make friends.
Straightforward "I want sex" ads in Lets Meet Up depend a lot on how they're percieved by the peeps.
Er, they do work!
ops: :oops: :oops: Good luck!!!!!
Sex God
Have been part of a couple before on the scene and must say we didn't look for single fems just couples
Maybe that's cos I've been on the receiving end of the single fems being inundated by couples. thankfully though most of them are understanding when I point out that FFM isn't what I'm looking for
Maybe that's cos I've been on the receiving end of the single fems being inundated by couples. thankfully though most of them are understanding when I point out that FFM isn't what I'm looking for
Couples looking for a single female to have fun with is a very popular section..
Just go look how many ads are in that section :shock:
We have in the past conversed with females online but as soon as it has come down to the "We want a fone call now to confirm the female actally exists" they seem to disappear...
We have yet to meet a single lady or a married lady that plays alone and to be perfectly honest I doubt we ever will...
One or two couples I have heard have had sucsess and I am please for them but I just feel we will never have that pleasure..
Maybe its cause we are too particular in our requirements....who knows ??
Dont give up hope.....Dont rush into anything...You may find you regret more by rushing in as opposed to waiting...
Just go look how many ads are in that section :shock:
We have in the past conversed with females online but as soon as it has come down to the "We want a fone call now to confirm the female actally exists" they seem to disappear...
We have yet to meet a single lady or a married lady that plays alone and to be perfectly honest I doubt we ever will...
One or two couples I have heard have had sucsess and I am please for them but I just feel we will never have that pleasure..
Maybe its cause we are too particular in our requirements....who knows ??
Dont give up hope.....Dont rush into anything...You may find you regret more by rushing in as opposed to waiting...
Speaking as an inexperienced single woman I felt I just had to reply to this.
First off - we DO exist...but as an inexperienced single woman on here I must say that my PRIME concern/interest is my safety. I would rather take the time to get to "know" someone on here before jumping to meet anyone I'm not sure of. When I go out there, remember - I'm on my own. And becuase this is a part of my life that I share with NONE of my friends - I can't exactly tell anyone whre I migth be off to tonight.
So when you're getting to know a single woman - just bear that in mind if she does start to get cold feet. It may not be becuase she's a time waster -she may just need to feel very safe. If you are "chatting" to a single woman who may have these concerns - and she isn't part of this forum - I would suggest recommending it to her. I haven't been here long and have already got to know some of the great people on here - and they make me feel safer all the time.
That's kinda strange yes. When I first joined here I was given an excellent piece of advsie from a mod (thanks sooo much for your help!!!) about speaking to the female in the couple as soon as possible. BUT - I would also want to feel comfortable wihh that couple online first (purely becuase I am so shy). So I guess it's all about trying to find the balance and get the timing right as to whent hat phone call happens. Then there's that question about phone numbers.( Hmm - maybe that needs another newbie question thread from me)
Does any of that make ANY sense at all?????
First off - we DO exist...but as an inexperienced single woman on here I must say that my PRIME concern/interest is my safety. I would rather take the time to get to "know" someone on here before jumping to meet anyone I'm not sure of. When I go out there, remember - I'm on my own. And becuase this is a part of my life that I share with NONE of my friends - I can't exactly tell anyone whre I migth be off to tonight.
So when you're getting to know a single woman - just bear that in mind if she does start to get cold feet. It may not be becuase she's a time waster -she may just need to feel very safe. If you are "chatting" to a single woman who may have these concerns - and she isn't part of this forum - I would suggest recommending it to her. I haven't been here long and have already got to know some of the great people on here - and they make me feel safer all the time.
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We have in the past conversed with females online but as soon as it has come down to the "We want a fone call now to confirm the female actally exists" they seem to disappear...
That's kinda strange yes. When I first joined here I was given an excellent piece of advsie from a mod (thanks sooo much for your help!!!) about speaking to the female in the couple as soon as possible. BUT - I would also want to feel comfortable wihh that couple online first (purely becuase I am so shy). So I guess it's all about trying to find the balance and get the timing right as to whent hat phone call happens. Then there's that question about phone numbers.( Hmm - maybe that needs another newbie question thread from me
)Does any of that make ANY sense at all?????
It all makes perfect sense to me Rainbows...
I can fully understand your worries about your personal safety...
Its an issue which unfortunate in so much as people need to worry about it is a prime concern for anyone let alone single females.
Anybody who invites people into their homes/lives needs to be sure that they are as safe as can be..
As for phone numbers.....
We are more than happy to give a mobile number which we can be contacted on.
Or with the phone system as it is now you can ring somebody and withold your number..We are ex directory so this isnt a concern for us but we can appreciate it would be for many..
I can fully understand your worries about your personal safety...
Its an issue which unfortunate in so much as people need to worry about it is a prime concern for anyone let alone single females.
Anybody who invites people into their homes/lives needs to be sure that they are as safe as can be..
As for phone numbers.....
We are more than happy to give a mobile number which we can be contacted on.
Or with the phone system as it is now you can ring somebody and withold your number..We are ex directory so this isnt a concern for us but we can appreciate it would be for many..
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As for phone numbers.....
Or with the phone system as it is now you can ring somebody and withold your number....
Have always wanted to know - how do you do that exactly???
Umm - going shopping tomorrow to get as a Pay you go mobile!!
if I am right
You dial 141 before dialing the number you wish to dial and that will withold your number.
