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Hi
I'm the female half of a couple who are just starting out making our 'fantasies' come to life.
I have no idea how or where to begin with this so trying to make some friends who can guide us along the way.
We're really interested in attending parties, to watch at first and see how we feel but I have no idea how to go about this & we're a bit scared of going it alone. So hoping somebody would like to invite us along
We would also like to meet a like minded couple with a bi female who are also willing to help us experience this.
Or a single bi female for a 3 some
Really hoping to Make some friends and take some advice from You all.
Thanks
Mrs C xx
:welcome:
The forums are a good place to start for making friends on here, the creme de la creme hang around here :sticky: even past their sell by date! :lol2:
Chatrooms are also good although can be a bit fast paced for newbies!
I'm sure most people will recommend you put your name down for socials which are a great way to meet without any pressure to play.
Shame you don't live closer or you would have had a sure offer of a hand-holder innocent
Have fun!!!!
Hi thanks for responding smile
How do I find out about the socials? Do they appear on the forums?
Thanks
Yep... They're listed in the Let's Meet Up forum, and some appear in the Calendar (left hand panel).
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Hi
I'm the female half of a couple who are just starting out making our 'fantasies' come to life.
I have no idea how or where to begin with this so trying to make some friends who can guide us along the way.
We're really interested in attending parties, to watch at first and see how we feel but I have no idea how to go about this & we're a bit scared of going it alone. So hoping somebody would like to invite us along
We would also like to meet a like minded couple with a bi female who are also willing to help us experience this.
Or a single bi female for a 3 some
Really hoping to Make some friends and take some advice from You all.
Thanks
Mrs C xx

If you would like to try the club scene we would be happy to "hold your hands" for a first visit, this is a genuine offer, we would are not looking to play believing that rushing into this on your first visit would not be in your best interests.
We would recommend a nightclub themed venue for your first visit because the dress code is the same as it is for any other nightclub and you get to socialise, have a drink and a dance and make some new friends without any pressure to take part in the upstairs activities though you do get to see what goes on and decide for yourselves which bits you might be interested in trying out on future visits and which you would not.
We are regulars at atlantisEVOLUTION here in Stoke on Trent which would be an ideal place to start, not too far to travel but far enough from the neighbours, extremely inexpensive with Free lifetime membership, £15 per couple entry fee, Take your own alcohol and set us as a nightclub downstairs with impressive light show and disco, dance pole social areas to get to know people etc and all the play areas upstairs, it is the friendliest club we have ever been to. We would also recommend Xstasia in West Bromwich and later when you are more used to the club scene Chameleons in Darlaston which we think is the best club in the UK but with a lingerie/towel dress code a bit daunting for your first experience.
Just contact us if you would like to take us up on the offer.
Hi, welcome to the site and really hope you have a great time. The forums are a brilliant place to start looking round and when you feel a bit more comfortable, I would definitely say nip into the chatrooms for a natter.
Parties etc are usually advertised in the forums, the Photo Ads or in the Meets section (top of the page, last tab along) or you can check out the calendar to see what is happening near you.
If you do ask to go to a party, just mention it is your first time and most hosts will arrange a hand holder or introduce you to people when you get there, but I think you will find most parties are very easy going, and you are never made to do anything you don't feel comfortable with.
Hope you both have a brilliant time x
If you ever go in the pool room and see biff around, she will look after newbies.
Just remember, that everyone else was new to this at one time or another, and will understand how you feel